created by: Guest | Aug 26, 2011

Jonesboro, AR

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Who killed Marc Despain

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Guest

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#2437
Feb 10, 2013
 
Guest wrote:
Wow! I don't know or care if this was an abusive marriage or not. But you last 2 posters are insane if you think abusers and the abused are easily spotted!! There are no hard and fast rules, there is no special way to do it. Many many many of them, in fact, MOST of them seem perfectly normal to everyone around them. The 'preacher man' has been referenced a lot on this thread. They were in the spot light all the time, not isolated in any way. Abuse, like rape, is about control. How much control an abuser has determines how apparent it is. Y'all are grasping at some pretty weak straws here! You both would probably be very surprised at how many people you encounter every day that are suffering some kind of abuse! Emotional abuse is the worst too, and you CAN'T see it.
No not insane. Just like the other " insane" poster have been a battered wife. You're are right there are no hard and fast rules but there are dynamics, signs, there are personality traits and certain behaviors that point to an abusive relationship. If you have lived them, you've studied them and have FINNALY healed from them; you can see them if you are in close enough. And no,
the other "insane" person and I would not be surprised at all how many abusers are out there. We've lived it. But I can tell you this I've been able to spot them a mile away sometimes especially if either of our children started to date one. All I was saying earlier is; this situation does not fit those dynamics.. Not saying it didn't happen.
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And while I'm ranting let me reiterate...... All the alienation was from his family, not hers
justiceformarc

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Guest wrote:
And while I'm ranting let me reiterate...... All the alienation was from his family, not hers
Now let me reiterate!!! You need to get your facts straight! It was all Michelle and Brooke that started the family divide! Michelle is the mastermind of the kids dads death and you can,t prove "IT" otherwise! Can you? That,s what I thought!!
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justiceformarc wrote:
<quoted text> Now let me reiterate!!! You need to get your facts straight! It was all Michelle and Brooke that started the family divide! Michelle is the mastermind of the kids dads death and you can,t prove "IT" otherwise! Can you? That,s what I thought!!
Thats what I said. Michelle alienated Marc's family.
Marcs friend

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<quoted text>Thats what I said. Michelle alienated Marc's family.
so when Marc told me, he found the evidence of which you so adamantly say was started by Michelle, he was wrong?
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Marcs friend wrote:
<quoted text>so when Marc told me, he found the evidence of which you so adamantly say was started by Michelle, he was wrong?
Yes, he was. He was mislead over a great many things.
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#2443
Feb 11, 2013
 
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<quoted text>Thats what I said. Michelle alienated Marc's family.
Sorry if I misread you previous statement!!
guest

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Wish I could sit in on the jury!!!!!!!!!
Guest

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#2445
Feb 11, 2013
 
justiceformarc wrote:
<quoted text>Sorry if I misread you previous statement!!
thats ok. It was unclear.
Still Wondering Jonesboro

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#2446
Feb 11, 2013
 
justiceformarc wrote:
<quoted text>Sorry if I misread you previous statement!!
Hey JFM, hru?! Do you know if there has been a decision yet on change of venue?
Marcs friend

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<quoted text>Yes, he was. He was mislead over a great many things.
Sorry to disagree but all my talks with him up to the week he died be stood by his statement. Until I see proof, not these words on here, I will believe him.
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Marcs friend wrote:
<quoted text>Sorry to disagree but all my talks with him up to the week he died be stood by his statement. Until I see proof, not these words on here, I will believe him.
I'm glad you have first hand knowledge of Marc's thoughts and feelings. It's unfortunate that people on this thread try to speak for him. What you say about him seems to be backed up by his actions- so you are quite believable. Let me just go ahead and respond to what I know will be an argument from the 'nay sayers'...it's a pretty foolish premise to say that Marc was 'wanting a divorce' and 'wanting to reconcile with his patents' and here is why. IF he wanted a divorce, he would have simply filed for divorce. It doesn't seem there would have been any need for an elaborate drawn out drama over it. He would not have needed permission from anyone. Nor would it have been difficult or time consuming if he wanted to reconcile with his family. He simply would have done it. For anyone to say what he was 'going to do' is mere speculation...along with most of what is written on these threads.
I'm quite sure you miss your friend. Very sorry for your loss.
justiceformarc

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Marcs friend wrote:
<quoted text>Sorry to disagree but all my talks with him up to the week he died be stood by his statement. Until I see proof, not these words on here, I will believe him.
It is your words you are putting on here! Marc was killed by Michelle and he is not her to back you up or anyone else, including me!! So go play with yourself!!
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Feb 12, 2013
 
Still Wondering Jonesboro wrote:
<quoted text>Hey JFM, hru?! Do you know if there has been a decision yet on change of venue?
I'm sorry to say, but it looks like the trial will be moved!! Where and when? Don't know yet!!
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Well, they can move it wherever, but one fact still remains... SHE IS GUILTY!!!
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justiceformarc wrote:
<quoted text>I'm sorry to say, but it looks like the trial will be moved!! Where and when? Don't know yet!!
that will be sooo expensive
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JFM you need to understand I was responding to the Guest. If you don't like my words as you call them I am sorry but fact is I was a close friend with him and he stood by his decision, whether you like it or not. GUEST to you yes the loss I feel will never go away I lost a TRUE FRIEND.
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Marcs friend wrote:
JFM you need to understand I was responding to the Guest. If you don't like my words as you call them I am sorry but fact is I was a close friend with him and he stood by his decision, whether you like it or not. GUEST to you yes the loss I feel will never go away I lost a TRUE FRIEND.
Dave you didn't know as much as you thought you did about Marc, Michelle or the whole situation. Marc was blinded by Michelle.
Marcs friend

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I'm not Dave but know him. JFM say what you want according to you only you know the facts sorry your so blinded with hate you won't hear the truth. If you are so knowledgeable then you know I spoke the truth.
Again Thank you Guest for your words of compassion. Yours were the only ones I have found on this site so I will not be on here unless I see more false statements of what Marc supposedly said.
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justiceformarc wrote:
<quoted text>Then if you lost your friend as I did, then you would also know that he was wanting to reconcile with his parents, he would have told you that he was on to Michelle and her affairs, drinking problems and the stealing of the money from the companies. Brooks problems with porn and the list goes on!! IF YOU CAN'T SAY THAT HE TOLD YOU THESE FEW THINGS, THEN YOU WERE NOT MUCH OF A FRIEND!!
Leave a child's name out of it. That's just pathetic.

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