is she cheating?females only please

is she cheating?females only please

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Newport, AR

#1 Feb 3, 2013
you women would no more about this,but i am a 50 yr.old male and very attractive for my age.anyways ive been happily married for twelve years to a woman who would swim the atlantic ocean for me at my request,or so i thought.we were at a ball game yesterday and my daughter sent her mom a text.well she gave me her phoe to read it.upon reading it i opened up her messages and seen personal texts in there from a strange number.i asked her whats this?she says its nothing then she gets up walks back and deletes all her text.then she starts telling me this dumba** is asking her personal questions about his girlfriend(if he has one).there were 4 text on there taht i read and it was in the form of a pattern in which the question itself and the answer itself had been deleted before i ever saw the others.but the most important on i did read was one where he asked her if he could ask her a personal question he had been wanting to ask her a long time.and aother thing she told me the guy the number belongs to knowing d**m good and well i hate that banana nose sob.now my question is why would this jack**s ask a married woman personal questions like that and why would she hide it knowing i hate this dude.i wish there was a way to get the entire texts retrieved so i cound read it entirely.what are your thoughts.is it something to worry about or not?ill tell ya if it is although i love her i would be more easily sociable out in public with other females because i dont believe in sharing and ive got good morale values and please dont make sly or rude remarks cause this is a serious issue to me
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United States

#2 Feb 3, 2013
She's hiding something for sure but that doesn't mean she's cheating on you. It could be a lot of things. Sounds like this guy is trying to get her under the sheets. Doesn't mean she's taken him up on his offer. If she's devoting her time to you and her behavior towards you hasn't changed, she's not cheating.
JMHO

Jonesboro, AR

#3 Feb 3, 2013
Believe it or not, it is possible for a man and a woman to have a platonic friendship. It is also possible for a man or woman to like a friend or co-worker that their spouse doesn't care for. Notice I said 'like'-not love, not lust...just like!

Since she's being honest and told you who the text was from, even knowing how you feel about that person, it doesn't sound like you have any reason to worry ...yet. However, if you continue to be so paranoid, checking her phone, trying to retrieve deleted messages, questioning her every move and motive and wanting to choose her friends, you'll leave her little alternative except to leave or to lie to try to keep peace. Anything or anyone held too tightly will try to break free of a stangle hold.
sexting

United States

#4 Feb 3, 2013
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you women would no more about this,but i am a 50 yr.old male and very attractive for my age.anyways ive been happily married for twelve years to a woman who would swim the atlantic ocean for me at my request,or so i thought.we were at a ball game yesterday and my daughter sent her mom a text.well she gave me her phoe to read it.upon reading it i opened up her messages and seen personal texts in there from a strange number.i asked her whats this?she says its nothing then she gets up walks back and deletes all her text.then she starts telling me this dumba** is asking her personal questions about his girlfriend(if he has one).there were 4 text on there taht i read and it was in the form of a pattern in which the question itself and the answer itself had been deleted before i ever saw the others.but the most important on i did read was one where he asked her if he could ask her a personal question he had been wanting to ask her a long time.and aother thing she told me the guy the number belongs to knowing d**m good and well i hate that banana nose sob.now my question is why would this jack**s ask a married woman personal questions like that and why would she hide it knowing i hate this dude.i wish there was a way to get the entire texts retrieved so i cound read it entirely.what are your thoughts.is it something to worry about or not?ill tell ya if it is although i love her i would be more easily sociable out in public with other females because i dont believe in sharing and ive got good morale values and please dont make sly or rude remarks cause this is a serious issue to me
Maybe she is sexting. It maybe adding spice to your marriage and you don't even know it. I'm not saying this is right for either a man are a woman but it does add variety. Yes she is hiding something from you. Go with your guy feeling and confront her.
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Newport, AR

#5 Feb 3, 2013
Guest wrote:
She's hiding something for sure but that doesn't mean she's cheating on you. It could be a lot of things. Sounds like this guy is trying to get her under the sheets. Doesn't mean she's taken him up on his offer. If she's devoting her time to you and her behavior towards you hasn't changed, she's not cheating.
o she hasnt changed as far as that until yesterday after i saw them.but its just the fact she tells me its from someone she absolutely knows beyond a doubt i dont like.i was wondering more on the 2 deleted messages i never saw because they were the most important ones.ill be honest too it would not do me any good right now to even see this dude because you just dont text stuff like this to a married woman,and shes never lied to me since we have been married,so i would have never thought she would hide this from me.i feel mislead right now
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#6 Feb 3, 2013
What kind of phone?
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Newport, AR

#7 Feb 3, 2013
one more thing will add is that if she looked at my phone and saw that kind of stuff on it,she would most certainly be furious with me.heck some gals ive known all my life simply say hi and she dont care for em,then she thinks they ars after me so i try my best not to be too friendly so it makes her happy
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Newport, AR

#8 Feb 3, 2013
guest wrote:
What kind of phone?
nokia-e5 thru straight talk
Miss Doubtfire

United States

#9 Feb 3, 2013
She's at the very least having an emotional affair with this guy. It's just as bad as him sticking his cock in her slot, because he's on her mind even when she's physically with you. Go ahead and do some investigating and snooping, and you will find out some shocking things about those two, but it's better to know now than later. Don't say anymore else to her about it until you get all the information you need, otherwise she'll change her routine and you'll never find out. Sorry pal.
guest

Sherwood, AR

#10 Feb 3, 2013
Not familiar with Nokias.
wife

Jonesboro, AR

#12 Feb 3, 2013
Secrets are a no go in my marriage so I say she's cheating or thinking about it so nip it or search and seek!
E affair

Lometa, TX

#13 Feb 3, 2013
Emotional affairs are just a bad as physical. Or worse bc I think the people build feelings for one another.

Since: Jan 13

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#14 Feb 3, 2013
you have an overactive ego..she would swim the atlantic ocean for you?? lol wake up dude.. you are on the road to being history!
guest

United States

#15 Feb 3, 2013
She deleted the texts so she is hiding something. Yes, I would say she is banging this guy.
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#16 Feb 3, 2013
Women have emotional affairs because after years of marriage they have no one to talk to. Some people prefer the remote controls to the tv's. Yes the emotional affair is far more worse than any physical affair could be. The heart wants what the heart wants.
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United States

#17 Feb 3, 2013
go online to try, Recover deleted text sms straight talk in description download
Trojan

Jonesboro, AR

#18 Feb 3, 2013
Men forget that they fell in love with their wives and could sit and talk about the future, hopes, dreams and everything else. Then real life set in. Men turn to porn and women turn to an open ear. Fact of life. The open ear may not lead to an affair but take heart and open your heart to your beloved again before it is too late. Talk to her.
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Jonesboro, AR

#19 Feb 3, 2013
Your phone service provider will have a list of phone transactions, text included.
Go out of town and see a marriage counselor. Be convicted to trying to make it work.

Last resort; start here.
http://forum.dadsdivorce.com/viewtopic.php...
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Newport, AR

#20 Feb 5, 2013
hey thanx for some of the advice,even to the ones who had rude ones because they're hiding behind the keyboard.my wife and i have discussed and worked our part of it out.but this low life pervert lived under our roof 12 or 13 yrs. ago with and married our daughter.i didnt like him then and i really hate him now and our daughter wisened up after 3 yrs and kicked his a** to the curb.he been watchin both the whole time anyways he told my wife he had thought she was pretty and been in love with her a long time.as for me i am a man with moral values,and this banana nose (literally)pervert has now left some unfinished buisness in my life,hes now in hiding scared to come out,but i can be somewhat patient because he will i promise poke that nose out somewhere and not know im around and then its gonna get ugly.and we're not gonna dance either.anyways once again let me say thanx for the help and advice
Guest

United States

#21 Feb 5, 2013
Leave her butt. Find a mid 20's yr old hot piece. When that one hits 31-32, dump her and start over. I've been doing it for years! I get older, but they stay the same age. Get a nice truck, boat, house, pocket full of cash, and a stick to beat the vag off of you. Find them young and looking for a solid foundation to fall on. Sign up some lawyer papers and when they stop getting nasty in the sheets, its time for a newer model. My motto, "if its worn out, replace it."

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