Martha

United States

#1 Dec 13, 2012
I have a crush on my coworker and not sure what I should do. Has anyone had successful relationships with coworkers? Thanks-ma
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#2 Dec 13, 2012
One word of advice. Don't sh!t were you eat. Leave it alone.
gypsyrose44

Jonesboro, AR

#3 Dec 13, 2012
Don't do it! It will end in disaster every time!
Guest

United States

#4 Dec 13, 2012
I agree with the other two posters.
Martha

United States

#5 Dec 14, 2012
Guest wrote:
I agree with the other two posters.
Thanks I've been trying to ignore the feelings lately, it's not about the physical part, just really think they are a good person.

Since: Feb 12

North Little Rock, AR

#6 Dec 14, 2012
Martha wrote:
I have a crush on my coworker and not sure what I should do. Has anyone had successful relationships with coworkers? Thanks-ma
I've had great relationships with coworkers but you just have to be a little more cautious. Don't rush in. Do you watch The Office? Do like Jim did with Pam.
Howl yeah

United States

#7 Dec 14, 2012
I met my wife at work and we've been married for 12 years and have 2 kids together. That being said, I met my ex wife at another job and that didn't go too good. It's a toss up. Good luck.
truth

Fairfax, VA

#8 Dec 14, 2012
Never get your meat where you earn your bread!!
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#9 Dec 14, 2012
All workplace cowards like to see something happen to somebody else that they would not like for themselves. If you ask this co-worker out and that co-worker says no then leave it at that and don't harass that co-worker and have that co-worker harassed by other cowards because that co-worker did not want to go out with you. Be ethical about it. It makes for a much more comfortable workplace.
Jay

Jonesboro, AR

#10 Dec 14, 2012
Don't do it. It usually ends up in a break up. Coworkers love the gossip. You are often accused of slipping off somewhere to make out even when you didn't. And then having to see them everyday after the break up is pretty rough for a while.
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#11 Dec 14, 2012
The way a person acts at work is probably not the way they act at home. Don't judge a book by it's cover.
ill do u right

United States

#12 Dec 14, 2012
Martha wrote:
I have a crush on my coworker and not sure what I should do. Has anyone had successful relationships with coworkers? Thanks-ma
Martha if u will tell me way contact you ill make sure u don't have worry about the co worker
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#13 Dec 15, 2012
Jay wrote:
Don't do it. It usually ends up in a break up. Coworkers love the gossip. You are often accused of slipping off somewhere to make out even when you didn't. And then having to see them everyday after the break up is pretty rough for a while.
It can be awkward even if you never even went out with the person just because of all the rumors from the cowards that you did go out with the person.
LOL

Jonesboro, AR

#14 Dec 16, 2012
guest wrote:
<quoted text>It can be awkward even if you never even went out with the person just because of all the rumors from the cowards that you did go out with the person.
lol nevermind them morons saying you dated some fugly girl. They just trying to embarrass ya. Jokes actually on them.
Go For It

Benton, AR

#15 Dec 16, 2012
Unless it's just a damned awesome job, go for it! Life's to short not to pursue possible connections. Keep it professional at work and pursue any romantic pursuits after hours. Many people meet their life partners at work others create a drama and lose their jobs. How you go about it determines that. Go for it!
hmm

Jonesboro, AR

#16 Dec 16, 2012
Go For It wrote:
Unless it's just a damned awesome job, go for it! Life's to short not to pursue possible connections. Keep it professional at work and pursue any romantic pursuits after hours. Many people meet their life partners at work others create a drama and lose their jobs. How you go about it determines that. Go for it!
So you are saying that a person should be fired for not going out with a co-worker who pursued them and the co-worker and the people that co-worker knows should spread false rumors about the pursued and say the pursued went out with the psycho pursuer anyway? Wouldn't that be harassment out of the pursuer and the people the pursuer is in good with who got the victim of harassment fired?
SportMom

Jonesboro, AR

#17 Dec 16, 2012
Martha- is he married? Where do you work?
Go For It

Benton, AR

#18 Dec 16, 2012
hmm wrote:
<quoted text>So you are saying that a person should be fired for not going out with a co-worker who pursued them and the co-worker and the people that co-worker knows should spread false rumors about the pursued and say the pursued went out with the psycho pursuer anyway? Wouldn't that be harassment out of the pursuer and the people the pursuer is in good with who got the victim of harassment fired?
No, I didn't say any of that. I was just saying if they both like each other to pursue it. Not sure where all that other stuff came from you're talking about unless I misread the thread.
SportMom

Jonesboro, AR

#19 Dec 16, 2012
Is your real name Brenda? If it is, please leave my husband alone.
Martha

United States

#20 Dec 16, 2012
SportMom wrote:
Martha- is he married? Where do you work?
I'd rather not say where I work because it is a small place. He is not married and I believe the feelings are mutual. I will just see what happens and if he makes a move.

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