a real love story
happy

United States

#1 Feb 21, 2013
let me share my story .14 years ago my current wife and i met and left out of two troubled long term marriages with kids.one of 15 years and the other of 26.two years after we met,we both married with the support and blessing of all of our kids.friends told us as different as we were that it would never last.she wasnt a beauty queen or model and i on the other hand wasnt a hunk,but a truly had no problem getting dates.well unlike most guys in todays world i looked at everything about her and fell in love with her personality.like i say she is no model type but shes rather attractive looking too..well all thru our marriage we've had the usual drug head of hard up person and even gals who thought they were all that kinda be flirty and stiir up trouble,but me being who i am will stop them dead in their tracks.recently however a drug head had mannged to get my wonderful wifes number and began texting her and letting her know he's had a crush on her for years.now she could have hid it and not said anything but she stopped him dead and told him she was very much in love and committed to me.if more spouses would quit going out and looking for home wreckers the world would tuly be as good for all people as it is for me.we have been married for 12 wonderful years now and today i am still as in love with her as the day we met,so home wreckers dont come my way or my wifes way if you dont like rejection,and evryne look at everything about their spouse before looking elsewhere,you never know what you may lose someday.i am truly the luckiest man on the planet and feel blessed to still be very much in love with my wife.
gypsyrose44

Jonesboro, AR

#2 Feb 21, 2013
I have been happily married to a wonderful man for 18 years. I still can't wait to see him in the afternoon and the way he hugs and kisses me when he walks through the door lets me know he feels the same way! I see a lot of people in this world walking around with NO idea what it feels like to have a love and bond like ours and my heart breaks for them. There is not a person on the planet I would rather be with then him and he is my best friend. I think couples forget to protect that bond and love and never let anyone get close enough to break it. It's fabulous to go to bed at night and he is there, we are partners and I have his back and he has mine. Love really is a wonderful thing, love that you've protected and nurtured over many years is indescribable and priceless! It might sound kind of sappy to some people but that is the people who have never felt it! It's nice to know there are couples out there who still care about their marriage and fight the battle to keep it strong. As you know it is well worth it! Thanks for sharing!
digginit

United States

#3 Feb 22, 2013
Nice to hear this on topix. We have the same thing. We love to be together, can't get enough of each other, have perfect peace together and look forward to every day and have for years.

Not all relationships are falling apart and not all are boring and tiresome. Marriage can be a wonderful thing.
mike

Saint Louis, MO

#4 Feb 22, 2013
gypsyrose44 wrote:
I have been happily married to a wonderful man for 18 years. I still can't wait to see him in the afternoon and the way he hugs and kisses me when he walks through the door lets me know he feels the same way! I see a lot of people in this world walking around with NO idea what it feels like to have a love and bond like ours and my heart breaks for them. There is not a person on the planet I would rather be with then him and he is my best friend. I think couples forget to protect that bond and love and never let anyone get close enough to break it. It's fabulous to go to bed at night and he is there, we are partners and I have his back and he has mine. Love really is a wonderful thing, love that you've protected and nurtured over many years is indescribable and priceless! It might sound kind of sappy to some people but that is the people who have never felt it! It's nice to know there are couples out there who still care about their marriage and fight the battle to keep it strong. As you know it is well worth it! Thanks for sharing!
i din't marry until i was 34 stayed married for 11 years and then divorced, got remarried and after 2 1/2 years of marriage my wife died the first marriage was nothing to bragg about i never felt the love form her that i was giving to her ( but who ever said love was fair) on the other had my second marriage i was in love with her and she was in love with me and we were happy. it was a blessing to have her in my life even though it was for a short period of time but to have someone who loves you and you love them and to have it as long as you have is a blessing beyond value count your blessings daily and i hope it will continue for many years
john

Desoto, TX

#5 Feb 22, 2013
Problem is so many people think only of themselves. They don't communicate. They forget why they married. Women face menopause which can be a killer. Men have their middle age crisis. They hold grudges and never think they may have let their spouse down just as badly. If your spouse loves you, hang on. I promise you will get over the feeling of wanting out. There is nothing more pitiful then seeing old people without a mate who have lost everything and alienated family and friends through a divorce. Divorce is never better!
Doh

Jonesboro, AR

#6 Feb 22, 2013
I been happy married for a long time too....i have had to spend a lot of money on my wife to keep it that way but she has a better career and makes more money than me which she keeps so it ok with her.
happy

United States

#7 Feb 22, 2013
oh each and every story here is an inspiration.but let me go a little more into mine.you see my wife since we have been married has put her darkest times in a notebook on paper and told me about them only when i asked..when she was young,she was raised by her mother whose only lifestyle consisted of the bar scene and drunk pickups.she was raised around contant drunks and was raped by 5 different guys including 2 of her mothers boyfriends.when she confided in her mother she was only told she was trying to make her moms life miserable.this only left her in the dark.when she finally married a much older man ,things got worse as when the new wore off he would leave with his buddies for 2 to 3 weeks at a time chasing wild women and living it up leaving her to reallistically raise her kids on her own.whenever he arrived back home and she questioned him on his whereabouts,she was only slapped and beat repeatedly.finally she set out to work and make her some money in hopes of someday getting out of all this mess in her life.we had both been in quite long and very unhappy relationships.but hers were far worse than mine.we shared the first two years we met getting to know each other real well before i knew i had one major mission to accomplish in life and that was to somehow make her life as good for her as i possibly can.so thus after 2 years,we were both married.that was 12 years ago.now some of you can call me nuts but i fell in love with this woman more for her mental toughness than just her looks.god i love this woman so much.and if i could do it all again ,i certainly would as even today i am more so in love with her than when we met 14 yrs ago.to me this is what true love is all about.
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#8 Feb 23, 2013
Your horror story. Some guys have been done wrong and cheated on by a lot of women and have been ganged up on and beaten up by the men that she was cheating with and then she took his money through the situation of relationship and marriage on top of all this which the system allows a woman to do. I personally know all this. I was in a relationship with a woman for a few years who i thought i could trust and one night while out on a date two guys beat me up and stole my wallet with my bank card in it while she just watched. Some of her friends later told me that she had been banging these guys for quite some time. Wish i would have known that beforehand. I had to cancel my bank card and drivers license and get a new ones. I lost all the cash in my wallet though.
Hmm

United States

#9 Feb 23, 2013
john wrote:
Problem is so many people think only of themselves. They don't communicate. They forget why they married. Women face menopause which can be a killer. Men have their middle age crisis. They hold grudges and never think they may have let their spouse down just as badly. If your spouse loves you, hang on. I promise you will get over the feeling of wanting out. There is nothing more pitiful then seeing old people without a mate who have lost everything and alienated family and friends through a divorce. Divorce is never better!
I am happily divorced and you do not know it all. Maybe someone looks at your life and thinks not for me. Personal opinions are what they are not facts. I almost rolled my eyes into the back of my head on this sappy condisending post
nikkidee

Jonesboro, AR

#10 Feb 23, 2013
I wish I'd have held on to my real love story... But sadly it didn't work out.
guest

United States

#11 Feb 23, 2013
nikkidee wrote:
I wish I'd have held on to my real love story... But sadly it didn't work out.
He wished that you had held on too!!!
nikkidee

United States

#12 Feb 23, 2013
guest wrote:
<quoted text>He wished that you had held on too!!!
Unfortunately he is someone else's real love story now....
john

Jonesboro, AR

#13 Feb 23, 2013
Hmm wrote:
<quoted text> I am happily divorced and you do not know it all. Maybe someone looks at your life and thinks not for me. Personal opinions are what they are not facts. I almost rolled my eyes into the back of my head on this sappy condisending post
. I am speaking of my parents. I know they love each other but things keep getting in the way. His stubbornness and pride and her lack of confidence are killing them.
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#14 Feb 25, 2013
john wrote:
Divorce is never better!
Especially for the man since he ends up losing everything. Oh well, that's how the system of the court of law is set up against a man.
guest

United States

#15 Feb 25, 2013
guest wrote:
<quoted text>Especially for the man since he ends up losing everything. Oh well, that's how the system of the court of law is set up against a man.
ARE YOU FOR REAL!!!??? the court of law is set up against a man??? lol...your being funny, right. the woman has to figure out how she will feed, cloth and keep a roof over her and the childrens head.She is the one who worries about sick kids.and how she has to work,but needs to be off to take the kids to a dr. appointment.She knows she is screwed if the car tears up.Or something expensive breaks in the house.If she catches the flu and is even sick one day, that could be the difference in her kids having milk and cereal that day. Then the man? doesnt even have the class or morals to pay child support.The laws are not set up in the womans favor...if they were dead beat dads would be digging ditches (by hand) to pay their child support. thats the least they can do!
snotcher

United States

#16 Feb 25, 2013
guest wrote:
<quoted text>ARE YOU FOR REAL!!!??? the court of law is set up against a man??? lol...your being funny, right. the woman has to figure out how she will feed, cloth and keep a roof over her and the childrens head.She is the one who worries about sick kids.and how she has to work,but needs to be off to take the kids to a dr. appointment.She knows she is screwed if the car tears up.Or something expensive breaks in the house.If she catches the flu and is even sick one day, that could be the difference in her kids having milk and cereal that day. Then the man? doesnt even have the class or morals to pay child support.The laws are not set up in the womans favor...if they were dead beat dads would be digging ditches (by hand) to pay their child support. thats the least they can do!
You have this so wrong... I wanted my children... I never asked for them to have any other person in there life but me as a father figure... I keep them 15 days of the month and the court says I need to pay 1k a month child support.... Really.... I mean what do they want from me???? The woman takes your life, your soul, your house, your 4x4 and you try to be a good father and that doesn't matter the court says I don't care if you keep them everyday ... There is no true joint custody and my ex gets to have a fun time spoiling the kids while I work two part time jobs and a full time job....
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#18 Feb 27, 2013
guest wrote:
<quoted text>ARE YOU FOR REAL!!!??? the court of law is set up against a man??? lol...your being funny, right. the woman has to figure out how she will feed, cloth and keep a roof over her and the childrens head.She is the one who worries about sick kids.and how she has to work,but needs to be off to take the kids to a dr. appointment.She knows she is screwed if the car tears up.Or something expensive breaks in the house.If she catches the flu and is even sick one day, that could be the difference in her kids having milk and cereal that day. Then the man? doesnt even have the class or morals to pay child support.The laws are not set up in the womans favor...if they were dead beat dads would be digging ditches (by hand) to pay their child support. thats the least they can do!
Bullcrap. The system has it where the man has to pay a bunch of child support to the woman and most of the time the woman does not even use that child support towards her children.

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