Find Marc Despain's killer
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#287 Sep 4, 2011
candace wrote:
I heard that Marc pyhsically abused Michelle all thru their marriage
I do not think it is fair to make this statement as he is no longer here to defend himself and what proof do you have for stating it since this is the first I have heard of it.
JOhn

Little Rock, AR

#288 Sep 4, 2011
Guest wrote:
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I do not think it is fair to make this statement as he is no longer here to defend himself and what proof do you have for stating it since this is the first I have heard of it.
Well life is not fair..... why did everyone suddenly stop talking about the fact that he was cheating on her too ? He wasn't any better than she was as a spouse...... he was a good father...

It doesn't matter that you are just now hearing about this accusation ...I am sure there are lot's of things you haven't heard
lola

Little Rock, AR

#289 Sep 4, 2011
what wrote:
Dont give me that.... I know for a fact single parents that have more than 3 children and because of abuse leave... What dont make scene about that is you all talk about Michelle was out for on Michelle.....WHy would she stay where she was being abused? Does not match up
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Women do it everyday, Stay in the abuse for the lifestyle . She came from a white trash poor family , so I am assuming the beatings were worth it to her . Everyone is saying she was a gold digger
Whitney

Little Rock, AR

#290 Sep 4, 2011
Guest wrote:
<quoted text>I think what looks worse is he was asking for a divorce! I don't care how long the policy was taken out- she was fixing to lose everything it sounds like- so what - her DAD decides to have him killed? That looks BAD
Her dad killed him for her. She was going to lose everything ....I am sure her daddy was very proud of her for marrying into some money , but he wasn't going to allow her to be thrown away penniless with 3 children
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#291 Sep 4, 2011
JOhn wrote:
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Well life is not fair..... why did everyone suddenly stop talking about the fact that he was cheating on her too ? He wasn't any better than she was as a spouse...... he was a good father...
It doesn't matter that you are just now hearing about this accusation ...I am sure there are lot's of things you haven't heard
I'm sure Marc would agree that life was not fair. How could it have been when someone closest to you is accused in your murder? I don't believe the abuse allegation for one second as it would have been disclosed before now. It is another attempt to try and suggest he got what was coming to him. No one deserves what happened to him. I could care less about anything else except for those responsible in any way for his murder being held accountable.
lola

Little Rock, AR

#292 Sep 4, 2011
Guest wrote:
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I'm sure Marc would agree that life was not fair. How could it have been when someone closest to you is accused in your murder? I don't believe the abuse allegation for one second as it would have been disclosed before now. It is another attempt to try and suggest he got what was coming to him. No one deserves what happened to him. I could care less about anything else except for those responsible in any way for his murder being held accountable.
I agree 100% no one deserves what happened to him
guest

Little Rock, AR

#293 Sep 4, 2011
Some of you people are in great denial ......heard : he was abusing her, he cheated on her, he was a bad business man , he was going to divorce her .....
and apparently she wasn't going to let it end like that ....after 14 years , she wanted what she felt she deserved : MONEY

Heard she was a horrible mother, she cheated on him , she was a gold digger , etc etc . She will get what is coming to her , it's called Prison
Phillip

Little Rock, AR

#294 Sep 4, 2011
why did everyone suddenly stop talking about the fact that he was cheating on her too ? He wasn't any better than she was as a spouse...... from what his friends say
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#295 Sep 4, 2011
lola wrote:
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unless you lived in their house, you have no idea what went on !!!!
and neither would you.
guest

Little Rock, AR

#296 Sep 4, 2011
Guest wrote:
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and neither would you.
She didn't say she knew it either, She said she heard that ... Don't be so rude
guest

Little Rock, AR

#297 Sep 4, 2011
I really think this case should be on Nancy Grace ... does anyone know how to get in touch with the show ?

I know a few of the neighbors that would love to be interviewed
lola

Little Rock, AR

#298 Sep 4, 2011
Oh me too , I will ask my mom she watches Nancy Grace all of the time .... She might have the call in number
Guest

Dallas, TX

#299 Sep 4, 2011
Everyone quit talking about HIS cheating cause HE is dead! He didn't kill her for cheating - he was doing the right thing and getting a divorce! That is why he is dead- in my opinion!
Guest

Little Rock, AR

#300 Sep 4, 2011
Guest wrote:
Everyone quit talking about HIS cheating cause HE is dead! He didn't kill her for cheating - he was doing the right thing and getting a divorce! That is why he is dead- in my opinion!
Makes no sense, why would he leave her for cheating , when he was cheating on her too ?
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#301 Sep 4, 2011
Guest wrote:
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Makes no sense, why would he leave her for cheating , when he was cheating on her too ?
I heard because it was with a black man and I guess for him that was too much - just what I heard
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#302 Sep 4, 2011
guest wrote:
I really think this case should be on Nancy Grace ... does anyone know how to get in touch with the show ?
I know a few of the neighbors that would love to be interviewed
I'm a close neighbor and if I was interviewed I'd say the family was always swimming, hunting, going to football games, traveling etc. Never saw ANY discord. Absolutely NONE. The children are extremely well behaved and mannerly. Both the parents and the children had friends over all the time. Doesn't really fit with all the crap on this thread. Bad parents don't generally have sweet, well mannered, thoughtful children. Those teachings are from mindful parents, engaged parents. Shame on you.

So bring on the neighborhood interviews.........
guest

United States

#303 Sep 4, 2011
I do think they appeared to be the average family. I don't believe the house they lived in was part of the foreclosure. I don't believe the house Carl lived in was either. There was a lot of rental property. Apparently there were different groups of property that were on different mortgages. It was stated in the paper that thirty were in foreclosure. I know some were sold at auction in April and others were sold on August 16. There was still 14 rental properties left after all the foreclosures, which would still have been a large income. I don't believe the foreclosures had anything to do with this. This was not a new situation, it had been going on for a while. I really don't think Carl was skimming money either because the rent was collected every Saturday morning. It would have immediately been apparent if Carl were not handing this money over on a weekly basis, so if he wasn't why would he have still been allowed to collect? Carl would have been in far less trouble for frauding them for rent money than he is in now! Something had to change recently that brought this on. If Marc had been angry at Carl, someone would have known it. I don't believe he was. I think everything was business as usual right up until the end. I don't believe this plot was Carl's idea alone.
Guest

Little Rock, AR

#304 Sep 4, 2011
Society looks down on a man for leaving his wife and children ...no matter the circumstances ... I am sure this had a lot do with the murder.

If he really was planning to divorce her, she would have been in a bad way , losing her home and all of the money ... I figure this is why her daddy killed him ..... just my thought
band g ma

United States

#305 Sep 4, 2011
guest wrote:
I do think they appeared to be the average family. I don't believe the house they lived in was part of the foreclosure. I don't believe the house Carl lived in was either. There was a lot of rental property. Apparently there were different groups of property that were on different mortgages. It was stated in the paper that thirty were in foreclosure. I know some were sold at auction in April and others were sold on August 16. There was still 14 rental properties left after all the foreclosures, which would still have been a large income. I don't believe the foreclosures had anything to do with this. This was not a new situation, it had been going on for a while. I really don't think Carl was skimming money either because the rent was collected every Saturday morning. It would have immediately been apparent if Carl were not handing this money over on a weekly basis, so if he wasn't why would he have still been allowed to collect? Carl would have been in far less trouble for frauding them for rent money than he is in now! Something had to change recently that brought this on. If Marc had been angry at Carl, someone would have known it. I don't believe he was. I think everything was business as usual right up until the end. I don't believe this plot was Carl's idea alone.
Yes carls house was in process of being foreclosed so was his younger brothers and Marc and michelles house public record courthouses
Guest

Frisco, TX

#306 Sep 4, 2011
band g ma wrote:
<quoted text>Yes carls house was in process of being foreclosed so was his younger brothers and Marc and michelles house public record courthouses
I guess down sizing a little was out of the question.

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