Is texting cheating?
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talking heads

Jonesboro, AR

#1 Nov 25, 2011
My friends husband keeps texting some girl he works with. They text everyday 2 or more times through out the day. Is this cheating or just friendly and normal? We need some opinions.
guest

Blytheville, AR

#2 Nov 25, 2011
I wouldn't call it cheating, but if he's texting another girl a lot, I would call it suspicious.
Smack

Jonesboro, AR

#3 Nov 25, 2011
talking heads wrote:
My friends husband keeps texting some girl he works with. They text everyday 2 or more times through out the day. Is this cheating or just friendly and normal? We need some opinions.
And so it begins.

It used to start with phone calls.
texting tallulah

United States

#4 Nov 25, 2011
Its probably even easier to get away with using text.
dont know

United States

#5 Nov 25, 2011
my wife has sent some very nasty text to some other men should i worry
sjb72401

Jonesboro, AR

#6 Nov 25, 2011
I think it's less about the actual texting and more that someone does something that hurts/bothers their spouse. If they know it bothers them, yet continue to do it, that's the issue. Or if they're doing something that has to be kept "hidden", that's a problem. It may not technically be cheating, but it's close enough in my book. Plus, it's hurtful. If you love your spouse, you shouldn't want to hurt them, or need to hide anything from them, or do things that you wouldn't want them doing.
All I am

United States

#7 Nov 25, 2011
sjb72401 wrote:
I think it's less about the actual texting and more that someone does something that hurts/bothers their spouse. If they know it bothers them, yet continue to do it, that's the issue. Or if they're doing something that has to be kept "hidden", that's a problem. It may not technically be cheating, but it's close enough in my book. Plus, it's hurtful. If you love your spouse, you shouldn't want to hurt them, or need to hide anything from them, or do things that you wouldn't want them doing.
My take on it..if you wouldnt say it in front of your spouse then you shouldnt do it. Some people are evil.
Text Her

El Monte, CA

#8 Nov 25, 2011
talking heads wrote:
My friends husband keeps texting some girl he works with. They text everyday 2 or more times through out the day. Is this cheating or just friendly and normal? We need some opinions.
text eight seven zero two one two zero two two nine and find out.
Baby

Mountain Home, AR

#9 Nov 25, 2011
Texting got me a divorce,but realy she wanted one anyway for years and later on I did too so it just made her mind up faster.
Craighead County

Blytheville, AR

#10 Nov 26, 2011
I would say if there was really something going on there would be more than 1 or 2 text a day. This sounds more like a friend. If it was affair there would be more text emails and calls. If you are worried check data usage on bill and also calls. Good luck.
guest

United States

#11 Nov 26, 2011
No its not cheating but it is childish and he or she will get tired of seeing it and will find someone more into them.and then it will be just you and ur phone and then what?will it all be worth it?like they always say if u can't keep them happy someone will be more than willing to fill the void
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#12 Nov 26, 2011
guest wrote:
No its not cheating but it is childish and he or she will get tired of seeing it and will find someone more into them.and then it will be just you and ur phone and then what?will it all be worth it?like they always say if u can't keep them happy someone will be more than willing to fill the void
Love me some female voids.
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#13 Nov 26, 2011
If the context of the text is suggestive, toward out of wedlock misbehavings, then yes, it is cheating. Any talk or thoughts of lust toward someone, other than your spouse, is cheating.
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#14 Nov 26, 2011
Cheating begins in the mind and heart. If not put in check it ends with disaster for all involved.
Maybe

United States

#15 Nov 26, 2011
Having friends != cheating. It sounds like you're just creating drama for the sake of having drama. Why don't you go get some friends, too.
slim

Little Rock, AR

#16 Nov 26, 2011
I accidentally a girl I work with. I didn't think it was cheating but my wife sure did.
Cuzzzz

Kennett, MO

#17 Nov 26, 2011
Depends on the context of the text, but I probably wouldn't like it. While my husband was in college, this girl in his class texted him constantly. It was almost always about class, but it got on my nerves because it was CONSTANT. I asked why she texted him and not someone else and he said he had 3 classes with her. She started texting just random stuff and getting off topic of class and that pissed me off so I told him not to text her anymore. If she needed help that bad, she needed a tutor. Well he kept texting her and got mad when I told him to stop....so.....I got even more mad, got her number out of his phone and sent her a little message myself. I was nice, but to the point...it bothered me even though it was MOSTLY about class with a few jokes here and there with smiley faces. Told her if she needed help, she had 3 classes with him and I'm sure that was more than enough time to ask him what she needed to know. She was nice back, apologized and said she didn't even think about it bothering me. Moral of the story, if it bothers you, and you're not typically a drama queen or attention seeker,'tell him and he SHOULD stop or make you feel comfortable with it by maybe introducing her to you or letting you talk to her. If he refuses then something is wrong. Just my opinion...
Jack Sprat

Jonesboro, AR

#18 Nov 27, 2011
My wife sent a text to a guy asking if she left her panties at his house , should I worry?

Since: Oct 11

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#19 Nov 27, 2011
Jack Sprat wrote:
My wife sent a text to a guy asking if she left her panties at his house , should I worry?
Well, woul you had rather him leave his panties at your house ?...Okay then:)

Since: Nov 11

Little Rock, AR

#20 Nov 27, 2011
guess it depends on what ur texting

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