SSI/Disability/Child Support
just another mom

Mcallen, TX

#154 Mar 6, 2013
i was just wondering if my ex files for disability cuz of a sickness he has,if he qualifies and if he continues working part time does he still pay child support or does disbility take over .
Barry Henderson

Bettendorf, IA

#155 Mar 19, 2013
thats bullshit they take 405.00 dollars from my SSI for back child support which leaves me 531.00 to live off me and my wife and 2 kids they dont care about how you live the kids are all grown with kids the system all jacked up my ex and her husband both have good jobs the kid are way over age she just wants the money thinking she hurting me the other half goes to my other daughter which the state is keeping the money because she hasnt contacted them so its up in the air money floating around.
Stressed parent

United States

#156 Mar 19, 2013
My ex recieves a ssi or ssd check. Not sure which one. We have been divorced for 13 yrs, I was ordered custody and support. I have never gotten a dime. I've tried opening the case with child supp division and 30 days later I get a letter saying they won't garnish her checks. And then another 30 days later the case is closed. I've done this on several occasions. Anyway, because of that she hasn't paid one cent to me. I've tried drawing a check for my child, denied too. Help..., she seems to think she owes nothing to her child and the state(mo) won't help.
Ricard

Lancaster, CA

#157 May 9, 2013
I get SSI for my disability & give $275.00 & sometimes more because, shes still my child & I think i'm doing an okay job but, my x wants more money that i'm a dead beat dad & i'm worthless because my disability & she asked me "so when are you gonna get better & get a job so you can give me more money" like through my 10 years with my health problem no one I mean no one! has put me down because my health problems & it hurts to say because shes the only one that has put me down because i'm sick it makes me cry sometimes but I don't tell her because i tried & she didn't care :( So now she wants more money so she wants to put child support how much do you know will they take from my SSI check? Really need advice i'm loosing it here :(

Thany you,
Kristin

United States

#158 Jun 19, 2013
Could any one help me with information? I have a 8 year old son that had never received any sorry of check from his dad he gets ssi and ssd every time I try they tell me it is un fair for me to get child support how can I make him pray please email me with info at Devon_Camden@Yahoo.com
Mom

Jonesboro, AR

#159 Jun 19, 2013
Kristin wrote:
Could any one help me with information? I have a 8 year old son that had never received any sorry of check from his dad he gets ssi and ssd every time I try they tell me it is un fair for me to get child support how can I make him pray please email me with info at Devon_Camden@Yahoo.com
The child support office is more concerned with dead beat dads than the kids they are supposed to support. They can't legally keep you from SSI. Call the social security office. If they won't help get an attorney. Most will even file to have him pay your fees.
awall77

Killeen, TX

#160 Jun 20, 2013
I think all these money hungry women need to get a dang job! Quit trying to kill your ex just because you suck... Maybe you should have been a better wife.
mom of 3 wrote:
<quoted text>
I currently am in the same predicament. My ex is $32,0000 behind in child support for his 3 kids. He has filed for disability and been denied the first time and has appealed that decision. It is in the "reconsideration" phase. Do you know how long this generally takes? What do I need to do to ensure that my kids do get their fair share. I too am a single mom and work 2 jobs to make ends meet. This would be a blessing in disguise if it actually comes through. He is such a loser!
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#161 Jun 20, 2013
awall77 wrote:
I think all these money hungry women need to get a dang job! Quit trying to kill your ex just because you suck... Maybe you should have been a better wife. <quoted text>
thank you very much I tied everything I could do to make it work, but it was impossible she just couldn't quit whoreing around then the crack started and it was over I got the shit out after going through living hell, but does it stop no the hell continues through this agency and boy they can push their buttons.
adam

Pacific, MO

#162 Jun 20, 2013
Ricard wrote:
I get SSI for my disability & give $275.00 & sometimes more because, shes still my child & I think i'm doing an okay job but, my x wants more money that i'm a dead beat dad & i'm worthless because my disability & she asked me "so when are you gonna get better & get a job so you can give me more money" like through my 10 years with my health problem no one I mean no one! has put me down because my health problems & it hurts to say because shes the only one that has put me down because i'm sick it makes me cry sometimes but I don't tell her because i tried & she didn't care :( So now she wants more money so she wants to put child support how much do you know will they take from my SSI check? Really need advice i'm loosing it here :(
Thany you,
if you are on SSI they should have sign your child up for a check at the same time i would call the SSI office and ask about this that should cover your child support obligation. some ex-spouses are just f??king crazy and want their ex to pay for everything.
hmm

Oklahoma City, OK

#163 Jun 20, 2013
awall77 wrote:
<quoted text>I think all these money hungry women need to get a dang job! Quit trying to kill your ex just because you suck... Maybe you should have been a better wife.
This is so true.... I want my kids 24/7 but I have to take a job with less pay in order to see them... But that doesn't change the fact I pay $1k a month to a woman that stole the fact I would have been the only father in my kids life... I had no choice... Now she drives me vehicles, new house, mall clothes while I work 3 jobs drive a broken down van and buy my clothes on clearance .... It's not right!!!!!
Ricard

Lancaster, CA

#164 Jun 25, 2013
adam wrote:
<quoted text>if you are on SSI they should have sign your child up for a check at the same time i would call the SSI office and ask about this that should cover your child support obligation. some ex-spouses are just f??king crazy and want their ex to pay for everything.
Thanks Adam for the info! I'm Just Tired Of Getting Put Down & From Everyone I'm Doing A Great Job But From Her I'm Not It Sucks... I would understand if i mest up on her, not be there for her since day one, not be there for my lil girl, not give her money for my child not watch her then she can call me a DEAD BEAT DAD!! But the Thing Is I'm Not Doing That I'm Doing The Right Thing For My baby So IDK What I Ever Did To Her....
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#165 Jun 25, 2013
Cseu sux they just like to bash men and don't care if they are putting them in the street. If you can't drive you can't work. It's about like the IRS they need to be taken down a notch.
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#166 Jun 25, 2013
Guest wrote:
Cseu sux they just like to bash men and don't care if they are putting them in the street. If you can't drive you can't work. It's about like the IRS they need to be taken down a notch.
Do you think DCFS will care when they go to take your kids because your ex can't support them alone? Pay your child support. You had a big part in making the kids, you should have a big part in supporting them! You have to be behind on your support before they take your license. If you're not paying anyway, why should anyone care if you can drive to work? You certainly don't seem to care if your kids are eating.
Guest

Nashville, TN

#167 Jun 25, 2013
Guest wrote:
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Do you think DCFS will care when they go to take your kids because your ex can't support them alone? Pay your child support. You had a big part in making the kids, you should have a big part in supporting them! You have to be behind on your support before they take your license. If you're not paying anyway, why should anyone care if you can drive to work? You certainly don't seem to care if your kids are eating.
your a dip sh-t and don't know anything about me so screw you I've paid pr-ck. so stfu
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#168 Jun 25, 2013
Guest wrote:
<quoted text>your a dip sh-t and don't know anything about me so screw you I've paid pr-ck. so stfu
You're the one crying about losing your license. For that to happen you have to be behind. In fact, it's been my experience that they are too easy on the dads. I've never understood why any father wouldn't want to pay their child support. I know that some women are crooked and rotten and file false claims, but that is not what you said. You said they didn't care if you could get to work. I don't see why they should care. Their job is to make sure your kids are supported. How you do that is your problem
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#169 Jun 25, 2013
Guest wrote:
<quoted text>
You're the one crying about losing your license. For that to happen you have to be behind. In fact, it's been my experience that they are too easy on the dads. I've never understood why any father wouldn't want to pay their child support. I know that some women are crooked and rotten and file false claims, but that is not what you said. You said they didn't care if you could get to work. I don't see why they should care. Their job is to make sure your kids are supported. How you do that is your problem
no job no money so what that says is they are not concerned with helping people get money just to hurt the father jerk.
fed upn

Paragould, AR

#170 Jun 25, 2013
mom of 3 wrote:
<quoted text>
I currently am in the same predicament. My ex is $32,0000 behind in child support for hiis 3 kids. He has filed for disability and been denied the first time and has appealed that decision. It is in the "reconsideration" phase. Do you know how long this generally takes? What do I need to do to ensure that my kids do get their fair share. I too am a single mom and work 2 jobs to make ends meet. This would be a blessing in disguise if it actually comes through. He is such a loser!
i have been fighting sonce 2007 and the reconsideration can take up to 22 mths. Then they appeal that and usually after the law judge makes his decision there are 2 more steps and the last no lawyer usually does that appeal so it starts all over. If a dope head that gets out and deals drugs they are approved within a couple of mths
Dawn

Statesville, NC

#171 Jun 28, 2013
My husband is paying child support and PSS. His exwife had applied for ssdi, if she is approved and the Minor children get a check will that effect what he had to pay? She lives with her parents let the family house go and had no bills. And how can we find out if she has been approved? Due to the fact when he went to court she was deemed dependent spouse and the judge ordered if she get approved he can take her back to court.
just saying

Osceola, AR

#172 Jun 29, 2013
You only get a check on the kids if you get SSD. SSI is where you don't have enough or any credits to claim SSD.
123david

Midlothian, VA

#173 Jul 15, 2013
hey hey wemon what happend in the relationship im a young guy on the other end that got cheated on that gets disabilty becuase iwas beatin as a child ,have autism i think u need to redirect how ur speaking of this me nas being losers why are u trying to screw them sp badly? mabe if we could all grow up in get along there would be no need for taking or stealing money andu could jsut leth im have the kid and pay on his time.. i find this o

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