roommate

[kelli]

Is it normal for my boyfriend who's in his 30s to have another male roomate without being gay or bi?This is really worrying me.

[just a question]

The answer to your question really depends on the situation. How long have they been living together? Did he have a roommate before the one he currently has? Do they split the bills? Are they unusually close? Do they get along well, or fight a lot? How does the roommate treat you? Do you ever spend time there? There are several reasons why a man might have a male roommate, even as an adult. He may find it much easier to avoid commitment with a roommate..using it as a fall back. He may just enjoy having someone share the bills and responsibilities. He may be saving money for his own home. He may enjoy the companionship. There are a million reasons why he may have a male roommate. How long have you been together? Has he discussed moving out on his own?

[kelli]

These are all good questions.We have been together a year now and this roommate has lived there over that. They just act like they are hiding something. I don't want to think that my boyfriend could be gay but one never knows.I know we have talked about him getting his own place but he's always complaining about being broke inspite of having the roommate who by the way is 20 years old.

[kelli]

And are unusually close that's what made me think something is going on in the first place.There's only one bed room but my boyfriend saids he sleeps on the sofa.I don't know what to make of this.Maybe its just my imagination .But if it is true I do deserve to know.

[Well Well]

kelli wrote:

And are unusually close that's what made me think something is going on in the first place.There's only one bed room but my boyfriend saids he sleeps on the sofa.I don't know what to make of this.Maybe its just my imagination .But if it is true I do deserve to know.

A man thought his wife was cheating on him but never could catch her in the act so he gave her every benefit of the doubt. He even doubted his own sanity thinking perhaps he was overjealous.

He explained his quandry to a close friend and asked him to ride along as he followed her. She met with a man and proceeded with him to a local motel, got out of the car together and went to the front desk and checked in. After that they went to their room and closed the door behind them.

He said to his friend, "Now do see what I mean? Always questions"

[Whaat]

Your gaydar should be pegging about now.

[just a question]

I have a family member who is bisexual. He wouldn't dare tell anyone other than me, because he knows he can trust me. He is athletic, intelligent and manly looking. He has many friends, both men and women and he is very popular. He has NEVER had a gay relationship, but he tells me that he thinks about it often. Although he says he is definitely bisexual (if not completely gay) he has a steady girlfriend and has been in many long term relationships with women. If his girlfriend were to ask him, he would probably never admit that he is bisexual. My point is that many men find it easier to have heterosexual relationships, rather than facing the stigma of gay or bisexual lifestyles. My best advice would be to listen to your gut instinct. Many men carry on relationships as a cover so that they don't have to explain why they are single or to defend themselves against gay rumors. I don't know your boyfriend personally, but from what you have said, I would be suspicious as well. Have you ever asked to stay the night with him? You could offer to have a "movie night" and offer to bring an air mattress for you two to sleep on. If he thinks of a million reasons why that's not a good idea, that will give you even more of a reason to doubt his claim of being straight. Try spending more time at his place...and see how his roommate acts around him and around you. Does his roommate seem jealous of you, or jealous of the time you spend with your boyfriend? Your boyfriend may genuinely care for you and like having a relationship with you, but if he is gay or bisexual, you deserve to know without further committment. Try asking him face to face. Let him know that it won't necessarily change things between you, but that you would really like to know. You really do deserve to know the truth, and I hope things work out for you.

[JIGGLE THE HANDLE]

does he have dickbreath?

[Whaat]

JIGGLE THE HANDLE wrote:

does he have dickbreath?

No, but your Dad does.

[i love brown cooties]

he is defintly a F*G!!!