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Hill Billy Boy

United States

#23 Jul 21, 2014
truthfully wrote:
I loved my husband I married him when I was in highschool, we didn't have kids until later on. I was faithful over 20 years, I felt unappreciated and unloved for many years. I started talking to this guy then found out he was married but he said he wasn't happy and that I made him happy...I believed him until I found out about the other men then I realized it was all a lie...as far as my dirty laundry I'm just hurting and needed to vent and hear others perspectives, I guess he was right and I was the one in the wrong. But I never played with his heart and I thought it was OK because we both just wanted to feel alive again, but now I just feel even more dead, unattractive, low, dirty, and worthless than ever...
You poor thing. Just remember, you didnt do anything wrong here, so dont take the other persons sins upon yourself.

Your husband sounds just like the typical double minded person, unstable in all his ways...

" See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits[a] of the world, and not according to Christ."...Collosians 2:8

I dont have any words to fix yesterday for you What is done is done.

But I can say that we love you, and have prayed for you. The Lord can heal your life, no matter how much damage Satans crowd does to you, or how much evil they bring upon you. The Lord can heal your life if you want Him to.

In fact, The Lord can use you as a potent tool to reach out to others, so as to reach them before they fall into the same trouble that happened to you.

Little is much with The Lord. As weak as we humans are, He allows us to serve Him, so that we can draw closer to Him, Who is perfection and Holiness. No matter who we are, or how beaten up or old or whatever is wrong with us, God can still give us hope and assurance in life, and use us in a mighty way.

I must ask, are you born again? And if so...Can you love The Lord enough to serve Him in this way?
Illogic

Titusville, FL

#24 Jul 21, 2014
Hill Billy Boy wrote:
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That is to say you adore the capacity to be deceived and tossed to and fro in life, like refuse on the surf, as you are not grounded by anything, and follow the ebbs and flows of your own arrogance.
Are you trying to impress us? Do you think we see you as clever? Do you not suspect that we have seen your kind many many times before, and can predict the wreckage and ruin that your life will be unless ye repent and ground yourself upon the Word of God?
Know ye not why it is that we are here?
How many decades have we seen young and cocky atheist/ communist/ agnostics/hippies, or whatever the latest trends being pushed on TV, the local leftist university, and the local bars and jails and cat houses (funny, they all pretty much match each others life philosophy)?
We already know how your life will turn out, unless ye repent. And that is why we Christian witnesses are here. We have come for to help you, and people like you, because our master
cares, and so do we..
You can't fool me. You can quote the bible, but you don't know your bible. The ultimate sin is using your bible to justify your hate.
Hill Billy Boy

United States

#25 Jul 22, 2014
Illogic wrote:
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You can't fool me. You can quote the bible, but you don't know your bible. The ultimate sin is using your bible to justify your hate.
It is you that are blind, and also infuriated that your worldly, liberal, anti-Christian, TV sitcom, outhouse logic has been exposed as false and of no substance.

It has not withstood the test of time as Christianity has, and your liberal life philosophy has a proven failure rate of 100% in every person and society that has suffered to use it.

This attacks your arrogance,so you become infuriated.

Typical.
Illogic

Titusville, FL

#26 Jul 22, 2014
Your funny. You quote the bible, and then you you resort to calling people names. Quit projecting how you feel about yourself onto me. If you will allow it, Christianity can help you live a more constructive life.
Hmmm

Great Barrington, MA

#27 Jul 22, 2014
If you're going to fool around, get a divorce and be honest about it. You took vows. If you can't keep them, get the hell out.

You really are kidding yourself if you cheat. Your FIRST job is to get the marriage working because that's what you committed to. If that doesn't work, get out of one relationship before you dive into another. You were BOTH dishonest.
Preach

Johnson City, TN

#28 Jul 22, 2014
You are experiencing Gods judgement. You have disobeyed Gods word and you are now reaping what you sowed. You are free to choose. But once you choose, the consequences choose you. You began with having a sexual relationship outside of wedlock. The same thing 20 years later brought you down again. Sometimes we are plagued by the same sins our entire lives. Repent and get right with God. Then make things right with all involved, including your kids. Be honest and tell them all what you have done. Don't hide it or they may fall into the same temptation. Once you are truly born again, you will be a new creation. Begin growing in The Lord and don't ever let Satan guilt you over forgiven sin anymore. You will be set free.
TennGuy

Franklin, TN

#29 Jul 22, 2014
You took an oath "for better or worse". You've now been through the worst part. Start making it better.
truthfully

Richmond, KY

#30 Jul 22, 2014
I have told my husband and my kids. And I know I done wrong. I will NEVER do anything like that again. I was just hurt and needed to vent. But it seems like everyone trying to do right and good always comes out hurt. I do love God and I want to go to heaven, but I just wanted some happiness here on earth. I know now I went the wrong path to find happiness but it still bothers me inside knowing there is such evil in this world, I never set out to hurt anyone just because I thought it would be fun. I just can't understand why someone would start up a relationship with someone and make them fall in love when they have no intentions on loving them back. If someone just wanted to be my friend and have someone to talk to that would have been fine, but why play with someone's heart? He knew my intentions from day one and pretended to feel the same way even made me feel bad for his situation that he couldn't leave even though he was so unhappy at home. I know now the reason for his unhappiness was his own fault I don't think he can be happy, his misery is self inflicted, I still miss what I thought we had, but glad that I am away from someone blike that. My husband has been working so hard to show me true love since he found out, that is a real man and it shows true love...I'm still trying to learn to love again, hoping one day I can out all this behind me. But I'm just shocked at how easily one human can be so cruel to another just because they can...
Illogic

Titusville, FL

#31 Jul 22, 2014
truthfully wrote:
I have told my husband and my kids. And I know I done wrong. I will NEVER do anything like that again. I was just hurt and needed to vent. But it seems like everyone trying to do right and good always comes out hurt. I do love God and I want to go to heaven, but I just wanted some happiness here on earth. I know now I went the wrong path to find happiness but it still bothers me inside knowing there is such evil in this world, I never set out to hurt anyone just because I thought it would be fun. I just can't understand why someone would start up a relationship with someone and make them fall in love when they have no intentions on loving them back. If someone just wanted to be my friend and have someone to talk to that would have been fine, but why play with someone's heart? He knew my intentions from day one and pretended to feel the same way even made me feel bad for his situation that he couldn't leave even though he was so unhappy at home. I know now the reason for his unhappiness was his own fault I don't think he can be happy, his misery is self inflicted, I still miss what I thought we had, but glad that I am away from someone blike that. My husband has been working so hard to show me true love since he found out, that is a real man and it shows true love...I'm still trying to learn to love again, hoping one day I can out all this behind me. But I'm just shocked at how easily one human can be so cruel to another just because they can...
I'm sure your husband feels the way. Are you trying to learn how to love your husband again? Or, are you going to try to find the love you thought you had with your mistress, but this time with somebody else? What didn't you like about your husband?
truthfully

Richmond, KY

#32 Jul 22, 2014
I am a female, I didn't have a mistress, well I guess in a way I did...lol..but after 20 years of being unappreciated and ignored for everything around, trying to go to church and him talking about people and him being self absorbed I just fell out of love. I loved him because he was the father of my kids but I lost the intimate love. No I haven't talked to anyone else since I met the other man, and I don't intend on it. I am going to try to work on my marriage and the man I know. I know I hurt him, but it opened his eyes and he is trying hard to be a better person, I just don't feel like I deserve it now! I have so many emotions and don't know what I should or shouldn't feel....I guess I should be talking to God and not on topix but I'm just at a loss right now.....
Yesfgg

Johnson City, TN

#33 Jul 22, 2014
I don't want to judge but I am feeling as though you have never truly been born again. If you were, you would know that our happiness only comes from doing life according to Gods plan. Living outside of that only caused pain. If it's happiness here on earth you truly want, then you have to surrender your life to Christ. I promise you that there is no other way to long term happiness.

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