Cheating deckhand husband-info needed

Cheating deckhand husband-info needed

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WorriedWife

Lexington, KY

#1 Oct 7, 2009
I just got married in June to my husband who works as a deckhand on ACL lines. He's been acting very strange lately and now wants a divocrce out of the blue. What goes on these boats to make him want to get a divorce? Please only helpful info. I'm devestated.
Dudley Doright

Indianapolis, IN

#2 Oct 12, 2009
You dont want to know.
just asking

Louisville, KY

#3 Oct 12, 2009
I need to know, I and my kids are devestated because my husband and I have been married only 3 months and he started leaving home days at a time for 3-4 hours not telling me where he was, turning his phone off. Telling me that it was none of my business who he was talking to or e-mailing. I have heard that these cooks and deckhands like to fool around and that the men get off the boats and meet girls on the side of the banks, parking lots etc...Can you tell me please what goes on these boat's? I just don't know why all of a sudden he is acting this way.
nascar man

Paris, TN

#4 Oct 12, 2009
well if you are married to this man it is you business if hes already acting like this i say get out while you can no women desureve to be treated this way me and wife will be togeter 20 years next month dated for one year lived togeter 18 years married 2 years ago we our soul mates and beleave me we have seen some rough times together but have hung in there and we trust each other i go fishing by self auctions store or what ever i want to do and her the same and i dont worry if she messing around and she dont me. not saying the trust was not there maybe first coulpe of years but we learn to trust and be honsty with each other hell i have been to lots of nascar races with her and with out her just got back from florda with out her was there for 8 days and no worry about trust any way this is not good if hes acting this way and he wasnt doing somting wrong than he would not care for you knowing i hope if you do love this man yall work it out life is way to short not to be happy and not to have a mate...... god bless
just asking

Louisville, KY

#5 Oct 12, 2009
nascar man wrote:
well if you are married to this man it is you business if hes already acting like this i say get out while you can no women desureve to be treated this way me and wife will be togeter 20 years next month dated for one year lived togeter 18 years married 2 years ago we our soul mates and beleave me we have seen some rough times together but have hung in there and we trust each other i go fishing by self auctions store or what ever i want to do and her the same and i dont worry if she messing around and she dont me. not saying the trust was not there maybe first coulpe of years but we learn to trust and be honsty with each other hell i have been to lots of nascar races with her and with out her just got back from florda with out her was there for 8 days and no worry about trust any way this is not good if hes acting this way and he wasnt doing somting wrong than he would not care for you knowing i hope if you do love this man yall work it out life is way to short not to be happy and not to have a mate...... god bless
Exactly, my feelings are if yo have nothing to hide, then why do you care if I look at your e-mail or phone bill? I feel the same way you do. Everyone has fights but it's the ones who truly love eachother that STAY together and work it out. I have begged, pleaded and cried till I'm blue in the face to make this work. I have asked him to go to counseling (apologized because I got mad that he lied to me over and over and over) he wasn't having any of it. The only rational explanation that I can assume is that he already has someone to fill my place.
just asking

Louisville, KY

#6 Oct 12, 2009
Dudley Doright wrote:
You dont want to know.
I really DO want to know, please.
trying to help

Baltimore, MD

#7 Jan 28, 2010
People in the maritime industry are shady... not all of us, but most. i worked out there with some real scumbags and all im saying is if he isnt strong willed, he will succumb to the tempations that are put in front of him. ive never cheated, nor has the thought crossed my mind. its ironic... my EX fiancee was cheating on me while i was out working... some people just arent worth the effort... good luck though!
Weatherproof

Bowling Green, KY

#8 Feb 8, 2010
Can you say...... GAY
Towboats

Mandeville, LA

#10 Jun 12, 2011
He a ass he ant wroth the hart ack
thunder

Covington, KY

#11 Jun 16, 2011
he is out there busting his butt for you and if he feels they are cutting the cards he will run.he isnt wanting away from you just his situation.just love him like there isnt never tomorrow girl and you will be fine
BAD

Bowling Green, KY

#12 Jun 16, 2011
Thats a joke. So keep letting him cheat, but love him anyway, lol. Had to be a guy that posted that. So if the table was turned and this was a woman instead of a man, people would be saying oh she is nothing but a wh*re, dump that b*tch, all that and more. If you think he is cheating find out, then do something about it.

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