Yeah. Women like this use the support money as a means of supporting themselves so they don't have to actually go out and get a job. But then the kid gets old enough and the money stops and the women is without an income.omo u shouldnt have had kids just for an income welfare mom get a life and a job instead of waiting for handout
One big question: how did it get to be that much in the first place? That's a huge amount of money and would take a few years to amass. Why did you wait so long to do something about it or why didn't you get the county probation department to go after the guy? They love doing that. My son-in-law does it sometimes. Or why didn't you file papers so his paycheck is attached or his tax returns are taken away from him. With the amount you stated, he must have a pretty reasonable income level.
Don't cry the blues if you're not willing to help yourself. I did this for years now and I KNOW you can get the help you need if you use the right tools.
Quit crying about it on this forum. It's not going to get you anywhere.