Is texting from a married man to a ma...
man-in-miami

Hialeah, FL

#102 Aug 17, 2010
i had an incident where my wife's brother in law was texting and calling my wife during work hours only... i eventually caught on after about 3 months of their so-called friendly affair. however, i dont think it was so friendly considering that they would have so much conversation away from the family, yet in front of the family, they barely spoke. its been more than 8 months now, and im still not over it. i cut ties with her brother in law completely, but here comes the holidays around the corner... we (my wife and i)have 2 kids together, and that is a BIG part of why i am still here. everyone in the family wants me to turn the other cheek, yet this guy was bold enuff to do what he did behind my back and step in my house for dinner... it takes two to tango, so my wife is as guilty as he is. i barely forgive her, but i dont have anything in my tank to even consider mending the relationship with him. his wife, (my wife's sister) says i overreacted, but being a man myself, i beg to differ. we are predators by nature. we seek, we hunt, we conquer. and judging by my conversations with him, i pretty much know why he did what he did. my confusion lies with my wife, bcuz i felt i was everything she ever wanted in a man.... never saw it coming......
big daddy

Goodlettsville, TN

#103 Aug 18, 2010
did you hear about the guy who slept with his best friend's wife. What a bastard.
Feeling Betrayed

Amboy, IL

#104 Aug 19, 2010
Just found out my husband has been texting another married woman for the last 9mos. Numerous times a day(as may as 80 a day)from early morning til wee hours the next morning. Calling her also and talking for an hour or so at a time. Had been leaving for work at 4:00am or earlier until I found out now doesn't leave until after 5:00am. But he tells me nothing has happened. They are just good friends. She was having problems in her marriage like he was. Tells me he hasn't cheated on me and only wants me and doesn't see a problem with what he has done. They also have sent pictures to each other late at night during these texting episodes. Yet when asked what type of conversations they have he avoids all of my questions. And she has not returned my emails to explain that they are just friends. Which tells me it is more than innocent. I feel he is side stepping. He just wants to to let it go and move up. He doesn't understand why I don't trust him right now. Yet I haven't seen his cell phone since this came about on this past monday. He carries his phone every where and hides it at night. He's hiding something I believe. The thing I'm willing to forgive him. I just want full disclosure so we can move forward so he doesn't think he can do it again and get by with it.
Been There

Jamestown, TN

#105 Aug 19, 2010
Feeling Betrayed wrote:
Just found out my husband has been texting another married woman for the last 9mos. Numerous times a day(as may as 80 a day)from early morning til wee hours the next morning. Calling her also and talking for an hour or so at a time. Had been leaving for work at 4:00am or earlier until I found out now doesn't leave until after 5:00am. But he tells me nothing has happened. They are just good friends. She was having problems in her marriage like he was. Tells me he hasn't cheated on me and only wants me and doesn't see a problem with what he has done. They also have sent pictures to each other late at night during these texting episodes. Yet when asked what type of conversations they have he avoids all of my questions. And she has not returned my emails to explain that they are just friends. Which tells me it is more than innocent. I feel he is side stepping. He just wants to to let it go and move up. He doesn't understand why I don't trust him right now. Yet I haven't seen his cell phone since this came about on this past monday. He carries his phone every where and hides it at night. He's hiding something I believe. The thing I'm willing to forgive him. I just want full disclosure so we can move forward so he doesn't think he can do it again and get by with it.
Ma'am...your husband is having an affair. I pray God will comfort you and guide you from this day forward.
have been through it

Jamestown, TN

#106 Aug 19, 2010
i been through this with my x hubby. he done this to me mumeroius times. the last draw i couldn't take it anymore. i went into labor with our first child. he was no where to be found . he was laid up with a woman. then that night he came in the hosptial to see the baby. she broughthim to the hosptial . well she didn't come in. so the day i got home with the baby he had a party and i had to come home and clean up the mess. then our child was 4 dsys old. our daughter passed away from sids. and i sware if he of all times didn't care he was laid up with the same person again. didn't come to the furnal or anything. i got fed up with his crap and kicked his ass to the curb.
Best Friend

Knoxville, TN

#107 Aug 20, 2010
My best friends wife started e-mailing me and asking to me with me to talk about him. So I did. She really wanted me to do her and I just couldn't. I never did tell him either and that has been a few years ago.
John Smith

Knoxville, TN

#108 Aug 20, 2010
Best Friend wrote:
My best friends wife started e-mailing me and asking to me with me to talk about him. So I did. She really wanted me to do her and I just couldn't. I never did tell him either and that has been a few years ago.
My wifes sister started e-mailing me after her husband got killed and telling me things that we should not have been talking about. I ended up banging her several times until she moved. When we visit she still make moves on me. My wife does not have a clue.
mtn top mafia

Jamestown, TN

#109 Aug 20, 2010
Ever notice it's ok for your wife to text your male friends,but you ever iext one of her female friends and all of a sudden your a lying,cheating,scumbag bastard. Does anyone know why this is.
DrPhilPill

Jamestown, TN

#110 Aug 21, 2010
mtn top mafia wrote:
Ever notice it's ok for your wife to text your male friends,but you ever iext one of her female friends and all of a sudden your a lying,cheating,scumbag bastard. Does anyone know why this is.
This has been your Dr Phil Pill for the day
Syl3ntND3ADly

United States

#111 Aug 24, 2010
Best Friend wrote:
My best friends wife started e-mailing me and asking to me with me to talk about him. So I did. She really wanted me to do her and I just couldn't. I never did tell him either and that has been a few years ago.
What a shame......he deserves to know. My friend for 15 years thru school and all was caught cheating with my wife of 5yrs on me....seems like your a good friend. Altho no harm done, if u were to tell him now, u should get ur a** beat and she should too. Fu** people like this.....its jamestown and girls there are soooo fu**d up in the head.

Thermonuclear Jackhammer

“That Guy Who Made Fun Of You”

Since: Feb 09

Johnson City, TN

#112 Aug 24, 2010
Syl3ntND3ADly wrote:
<quoted text> What a shame......he deserves to know. My friend for 15 years thru school and all was caught cheating with my wife of 5yrs on me....seems like your a good friend. Altho no harm done, if u were to tell him now, u should get ur a** beat and she should too. Fu** people like this.....its jamestown and girls there are soooo fu**d up in the head.
I can see why your wife cheated on you. You make your screen names like a teenager would on X-Box Live.
fact

Cookeville, TN

#113 Aug 25, 2010
Thermonuclear Jackhammer wrote:
<quoted text>
I can see why your wife cheated on you. You make your screen names like a teenager would on X-Box Live.
Damn, BT, had to hunt for you this time. You are the only one that ever has anything to say that's worth reading.
Hayseed

Florence, MS

#114 Oct 24, 2010
This same thing happened to me about 6 months ago. My husband had been texting his old girlfriend and I was aware of it. I decided, however, to check our phone records to see how often because his behavior had recently changed and I thought this played a part in it. To my suprise I came across a number not connected to his old girlfriend. There were several text messages and phone calls. I researched the number and to my suprise it was a girl I went to church with!!! Was not looking for that!! They had been texting quite a bit for about two years. My husband never mentioned that he ever texted this person at all!!! When confronted neither one could remember what they talked about. I still don't trust him or her till this day.
Love Ya BIG

Brighton, MI

#115 Oct 24, 2010
There is a woman who got married this weekend and loved to cheat with married men. Hope her new husband gives her some just desserts before she cheats on him. Karma is a BITCH!

Since: Sep 10

Location hidden

#116 Oct 24, 2010
If a spouse has to hide his or her text messaging to another person then they are hiding secrets.
herpes from texting

Jamestown, TN

#117 Oct 24, 2010
I caught my shemale texting another shemale. But we all got together and had some coors and talked it over. And then we all F@%ked till the sun came up. Great times.

Was stepping out in front of a bus a good idea?
been there

Hamilton, Canada

#118 Dec 20, 2010
VanillaLightning wrote:
hello, im new to this forum but this post caught my eye. im not married but i still would like to put my two cents in. i personally dont think it is cheating depending on what you talk about. you mentioned, "Explicit and on-going for months" then yes it is. but if it is just a friend that you are talking to then no. does not having one sexual organ automatically entitle you to turn your back on all your friends of the opposite sex? how can some one tell you not to talk, see, or be around any one just because of their gender. if you love a person enough to marry them, then you must also trust that person with everything and around any body. you choose to be with a person for ever, then you should figure out if they are trust worthy or not. if their not cheating then the person who is married to the one that is texting should be able to go through the phone at anytime. and have nothing to hide.
good points but the problem is that they dont allow you to look at the phone and actually go out of there way to hide it and delete previous messages...
morningjam

Peapack, NJ

#119 Dec 21, 2010
Well man or woman, husband or wife, if they have to hide their phone, or keep it turned or fixed to where you can see it, I would guarentee they are cheating, to what level varies. If a couple have a real marriage they share everything. If they hide their cell phone activity there is a whole other life they are living that they are hiding also. the phone is only the door to it.
morningjam

Peapack, NJ

#120 Dec 21, 2010
i meant cant see it
bitchalotatme

Sunbright, TN

#121 Dec 21, 2010
why are you asking a bunch of crazy,back in the woods hillbillies who pleasure themselves to judging you. your a grown up and able to differentiate right from wrong,but since you were breed around here i doubt it.

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