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Wondering

Livingston, TN

#1 Sep 24, 2008
What do you think of him as a father?
fellow co worker

Rowesville, SC

#2 Sep 24, 2008
if its the same one that works at micro metals, i think he's a good fellow and does a dang good job fathering his kids. he always makes sure they have what they need and then sum.
Wondering

Livingston, TN

#3 Sep 24, 2008
What about the other child that he has? Ask him about that one.

Since: Sep 08

Livingston, TN

#4 Sep 24, 2008
Ask him about the other one that he has that he doesn't even try to help with.
ridiculous

Lenoir City, TN

#5 Sep 24, 2008
do you think putting him on this forum for public scrutiny makes you any better? I don't know this guy from Adam, but this is so stupid...I'm sure evryone on this thing has skeletons in their closet, and I bet you are no different.
fellow co worker

Jamestown, TN

#6 Sep 25, 2008
do you try to make effort for that child to be part of his life. he may think that you dont want him to have a part in the childs life. i have no idea wat the situation is but yea i did know that he had another one and if i aint mistaken it should be 2 to 3 years old now. maybe you should try to get ahold of him so that may be you guys can work something out about visitations, etc. but u know in your heart that paul is a very family oriented guy. hopefully you guys can work something out and see eye to eye about the situation so the child can be part of his life and know who its dad is. good luck with everything
dirtymouth

Jamestown, TN

#7 Sep 25, 2008
paul smith is a real good person and he is the best one of those kid ,i have know him for a very long time,he is a very good father and even tryed to take care of his sister kid , so i dont think you even need to go their, and i know his wife and some body is just trying to cause him and his family trouble , but out and take care of your promblem. and paul if you read this their are some people that aint got nothing else to do but to cause trouble...
an interested party

Columbia, SC

#8 Sep 25, 2008
what is there to think of him. He is a sorry father when he can take care of three and then ignore another one for so many years.
Mother

Livingston, TN

#9 Sep 25, 2008
fellow co worker wrote:
do you try to make effort for that child to be part of his life. he may think that you dont want him to have a part in the childs life. i have no idea wat the situation is but yea i did know that he had another one and if i aint mistaken it should be 2 to 3 years old now. maybe you should try to get ahold of him so that may be you guys can work something out about visitations, etc. but u know in your heart that paul is a very family oriented guy. hopefully you guys can work something out and see eye to eye about the situation so the child can be part of his life and know who its dad is. good luck with everything
The child has a good father. He sure don't need Paul Smith in his life now. Yes I did try to make an effort when the child was little just to let you know and he didn't want anything to do with the child so why would I try to make an effort after 2 years. Thank you
fellow co worker

Jamestown, TN

#10 Sep 25, 2008
well dont put him down if you dont want to make any effort yourself. if the child has a good father now let it be and go on then. no need to sit him and bash him if you dont want to do anything to change the situation now. an to interested party he does take care of his three kids and his step child that came in to the picture after he remarried. he puts a lot of effort in to that to he even built on to his house so she could have her own room. so all and all paul smith is a good fellow if his other childs mother dont want to make any effort nothing can change that situation it cant and wont change
girl next door

Jamestown, TN

#11 Sep 25, 2008
fellow co worker wrote:
well dont put him down if you dont want to make any effort yourself. if the child has a good father now let it be and go on then. no need to sit him and bash him if you dont want to do anything to change the situation now. an to interested party he does take care of his three kids and his step child that came in to the picture after he remarried. he puts a lot of effort in to that to he even built on to his house so she could have her own room. so all and all paul smith is a good fellow if his other childs mother dont want to make any effort nothing can change that situation it cant and wont change
really always blame the woman;he can go 2 extremes for a stepchild but notjing for his own blood. Any father or mother who wants to see their child will regardless of what route they must go to acomplish establishing a relationship. If he wanted 2 see his child it wouldn't matter how much the mother protested if he truly cared or had the courage.
an interested party

Columbia, SC

#12 Sep 25, 2008
To a fellow co worker;

I am not talking about his STEP-child, I am talking about the other one that is his flesh and blood. He has not offered to see the child since it was born and that is sorry. Every child has the right to know where he/she came from even if they do have a father in their life, they deserve to know their sperm donor as well. And for Mother, he is a sorry piece of shit when he can do this to his own son.
me too

Saluda, SC

#14 Sep 25, 2008
girl next door wrote:
<quoted text>really always blame the woman;he can go 2 extremes for a stepchild but notjing for his own blood. Any father or mother who wants to see their child will regardless of what route they must go to acomplish establishing a relationship. If he wanted 2 see his child it wouldn't matter how much the mother protested if he truly cared or had the courage.
Agree
mom of three

Roy, WA

#15 Sep 25, 2008
dont know him but maybe he isnt positive its his has he been tested cause if the baby is his he and the mother should really work this out .some times step in dads and moms arent like haveing the real thang
Mother

Livingston, TN

#16 Sep 30, 2008
He knows the child is his but he doesn't want anything to do with the child and that is fine with me. It was his choice and he made the one that he wanted to. I told him he could come and see the child anytime he wanted and he didn't want to see the child when he was a baby so now I don't care if he ever sees the child.
Barber

Walterboro, SC

#17 Oct 1, 2008
I use to know Paul, the best one out of the bunch (since Julie passed) He has had a hard growing up, not much for parents. Look at his siblings... TRASH, don't know for sure but I can almost betcha they still live with their Mama!! Don't know for sure what the deal is with the child but that boy has had a lot on his plate for a long time.
wrong

Rowesville, SC

#18 Oct 1, 2008
Barber wrote:
I use to know Paul, the best one out of the bunch (since Julie passed) He has had a hard growing up, not much for parents. Look at his siblings... TRASH, don't know for sure but I can almost betcha they still live with their Mama!! Don't know for sure what the deal is with the child but that boy has had a lot on his plate for a long time.
differant paul completely sorry
hellomoto

Columbia, SC

#19 Oct 4, 2008
Hey Mother, why don't you grow up? You've got some nerve coming on here hiding behind that screen name. Why don't you put your real name on here and face the crowd yourself? Put your name on here and let people comment about you like you've done Paul. Or are to to ashamed of yourself?
Mother

Livingston, TN

#20 Oct 5, 2008
hellomoto wrote:
Hey Mother, why don't you grow up? You've got some nerve coming on here hiding behind that screen name. Why don't you put your real name on here and face the crowd yourself? Put your name on here and let people comment about you like you've done Paul. Or are to to ashamed of yourself?
I am grown up. thank you very much. If you want to put your real name on here do it and then I will. If you were smart you would know my real name if you knew anything about the situation so why don't you go get in someone elses business and stay out of mine. No I am not ashamed of myself but you must be.
hellomoto

Columbia, SC

#21 Oct 5, 2008
Mother wrote:
<quoted text>
I am grown up. thank you very much. If you want to put your real name on here do it and then I will. If you were smart you would know my real name if you knew anything about the situation so why don't you go get in someone elses business and stay out of mine. No I am not ashamed of myself but you must be.
Thanks for proving my point!

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