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old_school

Jackson, TN

#1 Oct 17, 2013
Is it just me, or do all the women that are single just undateable? I mean, if they don't have 20 million tats and look like they fell off a HAWG, they are either just dumb or evil b!tches.....
Guest

Little Rock, AR

#2 Oct 17, 2013
Well guys today are unemployed, live with momma, have a shitty job or have 6 kids by 6 diff women or have a criminal record. Goes both ways.
old_school

Jackson, TN

#3 Oct 17, 2013
Guest wrote:
Well guys today are unemployed, live with momma, have a shitty job or have 6 kids by 6 diff women or have a criminal record. Goes both ways.
No kids, good job making double min. wage per hour, have my own apt (next few months, I am going to move into a house), 2 vehicles, and no criminal record. I try to be a good guy, and not do people wrong.
old_school

Jackson, TN

#4 Oct 17, 2013
old_school wrote:
Is it just me, or do all the women that are single just undateable? I mean, if they don't have 20 million tats and look like they fell off a HAWG, they are either just dumb or evil b!tches.....
Oh forgot to mention,

I have 3 tats, all of which are small and covered when I wear a short sleeve shirt. No piercings, no huge scars, no hunchback and I am quite smart.

Just tired of seeing all these gorgeous women with tat sleeves, and bodies that look more like an art gallery than a woman's physique.
old_school

Jackson, TN

#5 Oct 17, 2013
Guest wrote:
Well guys today are unemployed, live with momma, have a shitty job or have 6 kids by 6 diff women or have a criminal record. Goes both ways.
Let's just go down your list.....

Work a full time job, make more than double min. wage per hour.

Have my own apt., looking to move into a house end of November.

(Shitty job was covered in first sentence)

No kids or baby mommas.

No criminal record,(had a few run ins with the law, but it was for public intox, etc. Nothing violent, or theft related.)
Guest

Little Rock, AR

#6 Oct 17, 2013
Idk. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. But it's hard to meet decent, quality people to date these days.
lovely

Jackson, TN

#7 Oct 18, 2013
You are nor going to meet her in a bar. Take a LONG look at yourself. For one thing, I am not sure what your "type" is, but just remember it takes two to tango and there is a side to every story. Living in this area, you have a great deal of limitations with what to expect. For instance, I was with a man for almost a year and found out that he had a temper, was always on some kind of narcotic because he was a frustrated person. He lived with his mother and had more than the average amount of kids with two baby mommas. I kept hoping that things would change, or that I could be a positive influence in his life. You know what? A leopard never changes his spots. His true colors came out and I think he now regrets the things he has said and done to me, but I am worth so much more. That does not make me a snob, but a lazy man who sits around in his underwear all day at his mother's home does not really do it for me in the long run. I would rather be by myself and be happy. When I am happy I am more attractive. I have a very good job and he and his people will see their's coming in time. His people are defined as the little family beyond his children. I never had a problem dating making his children a priority. It ultimately boiled down to him. He did not have a backbone to leave his family. And he finally found a girl who had no other choice but to settle with him because she probably weighs about 300 pounds. Her dating circle is limited so that gave him both the situation to have the upper hand of her, as well as she having a boyfriend because we all know that big 300+ girls or 250+ girls have a limited choice in the world of Caucasian Americans. That is just the facts. He was the type who was jealous. We were out one night and one of my friends told him flat out to his face that he was jealous. If he has the fat girl, he can have her for himself and them look at other girls to make her jealous. This puts the power in his hands. You know what? I got my power back because I know I am better than someone who frustrated me nearly to insanity because every day he would dream up some idea about what he was going to do with his life. Then another idea would run the following week. Then another idea would come into play. Over and over, I just got more frustrated and upset. I gave this man a year of my life, and I don't really want to say it was time wasted because we had some of the best times together, but in the wake of our relationship many bad, insincere things were said that got back to me. He used the heavy set girl to rebound with. I have tried to stay quiet about most of it. But at the end of the day, he is just an asshole (some people change, and some never). But, I have waited a long time, and I do not want any more of the toxic energy that made us miserable. So get active in your community, get out with some friends, slow down on your alcohol intake, join a gym, or most of all, find a church where you can commune the way you see fir to worship the Lord. I believe in forgiveness, but I never forget the pain that I felt from a broken heart. What is even more sad, he would never own up to any mistakes he made in the relationship so it is channeled to look as if everything was my fault. Don't let a man or a woman do that to you, but just remember that there are two sides of the story. Every woman deserves someone who will treat her with love, consideration, and respect. I know some men say, "Well, I just tell it how it is." You know what? Have some tact. Have some manners. Be patient and kind. It is not what you say to constructively criticize a person, but HOW you say it. And it is difficult to date anyone who lives with mama, pops pills, drinks secretly, and then puts on a show for the All American Dad of the Year award. I had my faults too, but I just don't think the things we wanted to do together measured up. I would rather have dental work than to watch Twilight. The end.
women today

Jackson, TN

#8 Oct 18, 2013
Lest not forget the title!

LOL!

Women, even in this post about "women", you have clearly proved you guys are all about money. LOVE MONEY!

Get WET! over money. Every down side to a man comes down to job, or living situation. Those are money issues.

YES! There are lazy people. Man and Woman.

The poor guy above had to state his WORTH by the material things he has: job house cars etc. LOL.

WTF ladies!? Do you know how sick you are? You will laugh in the face of TRUE LOVE! to give yourself away for financial "security.

Let me tell you! There is NO such thing as financia security. It can come and go with the night.

Women call men pigs for wanting to have sex with you guys, but you turn around and fuck the first guy that buys you dinner and drink, picks you up in that nice, comfortable car, and takes you to his pad. What does that make one???

You can tell yourself over and over its about security etc...well TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF! No man should be taking care of you.

Women, what happened to TRUE LOVE???? You traded it for a dollar!!!

Did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
really now

Jackson, TN

#9 Oct 18, 2013
@ lovely.....You made your post so long someone can not respond to it. Was that your plan? If so, Brilliant. Otherwise after reading your ramblings, I can only imagine what kind of torture with constant bitching this man had to endure. No wonder he was medicated. Could it be the truth of the matter is he left you for a big girl? You sound bitter.
really now

Jackson, TN

#10 Oct 18, 2013
women today wrote:
Lest not forget the title!
LOL!
Women, even in this post about "women", you have clearly proved you guys are all about money. LOVE MONEY!
Get WET! over money. Every down side to a man comes down to job, or living situation. Those are money issues.
YES! There are lazy people. Man and Woman.
The poor guy above had to state his WORTH by the material things he has: job house cars etc. LOL.
WTF ladies!? Do you know how sick you are? You will laugh in the face of TRUE LOVE! to give yourself away for financial "security.
Let me tell you! There is NO such thing as financia security. It can come and go with the night.
Women call men pigs for wanting to have sex with you guys, but you turn around and fuck the first guy that buys you dinner and drink, picks you up in that nice, comfortable car, and takes you to his pad. What does that make one???
You can tell yourself over and over its about security etc...well TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF! No man should be taking care of you.
Women, what happened to TRUE LOVE???? You traded it for a dollar!!!
Did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
No wonder they change the subject. You make everything about you and Dude you are all over the place.
guest

Jackson, TN

#11 Oct 18, 2013
Holy crap that was a long post.
lovely

United States

#12 Oct 18, 2013
really now wrote:
@ lovely.....You made your post so long someone can not respond to it. Was that your plan? If so, Brilliant. Otherwise after reading your ramblings, I can only imagine what kind of torture with constant bitching this man had to endure. No wonder he was medicated. Could it be the truth of the matter is he left you for a big girl? You sound bitter.
I had no premeditated plans of anything, and I am financially secure. I make my own living. I just don't like lazy ass, country mamas boys who do not apply their potential. End of story. See, to you I am opinionated. To a real man, I would be taken into consideration. Done. Troll. You can say whatever you want now and ride off into the sunset with your obese girl who lays on the couch when she is not sitting with some old MF and make sure you put some weights on the opposite side of your vehicle do it does not drag from her sitting on the other side. Plus she will stay with you and put up with all your nonsense. The end.
really now

Jackson, TN

#15 Oct 18, 2013
lovely wrote:
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I had no premeditated plans of anything, and I am financially secure. I make my own living. I just don't like lazy ass, country mamas boys who do not apply their potential. End of story. See, to you I am opinionated. To a real man, I would be taken into consideration. Done. Troll. You can say whatever you want now and ride off into the sunset with your obese girl who lays on the couch when she is not sitting with some old MF and make sure you put some weights on the opposite side of your vehicle do it does not drag from her sitting on the other side. Plus she will stay with you and put up with all your nonsense. The end.
Dang girl you are angry. I can only imagine he is counting his blessings to be rid of you and happy with his nice, quiet, big girl.
lovely

Jackson, TN

#16 Oct 18, 2013
I am not angry. You are the epitome of what I am talking about when I said that choices are limited. You cannot see me. I am not angry. You are a cheater, and cheaters like desperate fat girls because they will put up with your garbage. So keep pillin', rolling, and satisfying yourself with all the fat folds that she has that you can screw before you find the vagina. I am calling a spade a spade. You will look at your 300 pound woman who will go make you a sammich. But you are probably using her for her money. No anger. You just want power. That is what it is to you. It is not love, but the power and control that you can have. You have NO respect for women if I know who you are and everyone else told me the same thing who knows you.
lovely

Jackson, TN

#17 Oct 18, 2013
And if you are the guy that keep showing up at my job, all my coworkers and one of my clients said you look like you are strung out on meth. So that is why you always have to get in the last word because you are a little short man with a big ego. Lay off the meth and the hydros, will ya?
guest

Jackson, TN

#19 Oct 18, 2013
lovely wrote:
<quoted text>I had no premeditated plans of anything, and I am financially secure. I make my own living. I just don't like lazy ass, country mamas boys who do not apply their potential. End of story. See, to you I am opinionated. To a real man, I would be taken into consideration. Done. Troll. You can say whatever you want now and ride off into the sunset with your obese girl who lays on the couch when she is not sitting with some old MF and make sure you put some weights on the opposite side of your vehicle do it does not drag from her sitting on the other side. Plus she will stay with you and put up with all your nonsense. The end.
Heh, heh- I like her.
really now

Jackson, TN

#20 Oct 18, 2013
lovely wrote:
I am not angry. You are the epitome of what I am talking about when I said that choices are limited. You cannot see me. I am not angry. You are a cheater, and cheaters like desperate fat girls because they will put up with your garbage. So keep pillin', rolling, and satisfying yourself with all the fat folds that she has that you can screw before you find the vagina. I am calling a spade a spade. You will look at your 300 pound woman who will go make you a sammich. But you are probably using her for her money. No anger. You just want power. That is what it is to you. It is not love, but the power and control that you can have. You have NO respect for women if I know who you are and everyone else told me the same thing who knows you.
You came to that much of a conclusion about me from a few posts. You are some kind of talented. Truth is you are wrong on all counts. Don't cheat, I do kinda like thick girls because they are soft, don't pop pills, don't roll, I have a job and make enough money not to need any from my woman, I do love having control but completely submit my control to my woman as well. If you ever find true love you will learn to submit (BOTH) one to another and the other will never hurt or take advantage of you. Now take a breath and try not to SOUND so angry then.
lovely

United States

#21 Oct 18, 2013
really now wrote:
@ lovely.....You made your post so long someone can not respond to it. Was that your plan? If so, Brilliant. Otherwise after reading your ramblings, I can only imagine what kind of torture with constant bitching this man had to endure. No wonder he was medicated. Could it be the truth of the matter is he left you for a big girl? You sound bitter.
Oh and to answer your question if he left me for a big girl, no I left him because he was always string out, unemployed (and I tried to be encouraging to give him names of ppl I knew who could help him), he lied to the unemployment office about seeking work, he would charm me and tell me that he was going to do this or that. He sat in his mamas trailer for a year, and I gave up. He started treating me like crap so I had no other choice. He met the fat girl about three months later in a bar. I'm not bitter. I am just saying I had to do what I had to do to take care of myself. And that was not settling for a man like that. I am in a relationship now with someone who really loves me and me him and we respect one another. And I'm happy. Although I think it is sad this man could not see me for what I had to offer him, because I really loved him. The end.
really now

Jackson, TN

#22 Oct 18, 2013
lovely wrote:
<quoted text>
Oh and to answer your question if he left me for a big girl, no I left him because he was always string out, unemployed (and I tried to be encouraging to give him names of ppl I knew who could help him), he lied to the unemployment office about seeking work, he would charm me and tell me that he was going to do this or that. He sat in his mamas trailer for a year, and I gave up. He started treating me like crap so I had no other choice. He met the fat girl about three months later in a bar. I'm not bitter. I am just saying I had to do what I had to do to take care of myself. And that was not settling for a man like that. I am in a relationship now with someone who really loves me and me him and we respect one another. And I'm happy. Although I think it is sad this man could not see me for what I had to offer him, because I really loved him. The end.
Good for you! Everyone deserves to be happy. Demand the best out of people. Explains a lot so glad you have moved on and happy.
lovely

United States

#23 Oct 18, 2013
really now wrote:
<quoted text> Good for you! Everyone deserves to be happy. Demand the best out of people. Explains a lot so glad you have moved on and happy.
Do you know me? Do you know what I'm worth? If you are the man behind the curtain who did do what you did to me, someone found it. Why does this "explain a lot" to you? You sound guilty.

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