Top Six Reasons Black Ladies Prefer White Men

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Top Sixer

Jackson, TN

#1 Dec 30, 2012
It's time for some backlash! I'm so tired of hearing why black men prefer white women! So here you go. Y'all know I got a point. Don't deny.

If you don't have a sense of humor, please don't comment.
If you are a troll, go the F away.
Also, don't quote any Bible verses because, well, IDGAF about your religion. Thanks and enjoy.

6: White men have family values. It’s not often that you’ll see white men with 3 or 4 “baby mamas” all over the damn place while the women are left taking care of the kids. White men know what family means and they want to be there for the kids.

5. White men know how to manage money. White men don't flash their little street money around or take you out to eat at a fast food place with a coupon at the first of the month. White men take you to a real restaurant. Plus, they know how to order a drink and they know what tipping is. White men know how to handle a problem with the food without embarrassing their lady and trying to get a free meal. White men know how to plan for the future financially. They have bank accounts, credit cards, and a mortgage.

4. White men won't insist that their woman work, but if she wants to, he's cool with that. A white man will work hard to provide for his lady and his family. Black men aren’t even sticking around after the baby bump appears. A white man will be proud of his woman's education, not live off of it himself.

3. White men know that there are plenty of ways to make a legal living. You won’t often see a white man in the “trap”, unlike black men who only aspire to become a rapper, ball player or drug dealer because those are the only occupations the men they admire have. White men tend to get an education and a job that can support more than one child.

2. White men have manners. They don't text you to come outside or pull up in the driveway and honk. White men date to find a wife. Black men date to find a place to get laid. I could go on an on.

1. White men know how to do sh*t without their woman. White men know that that when their woman is down - sick, working like dog, or just plain needs a break - that they need to step up. A black man bitches and whines about not being fed on time, and he can barely take out the trash without being told. A white man will go to the store, make dinner, do some laundry and wash some dishes. A white man understands that the household is ultimately his responsibility, and he doesn't cry about it, no matter how much he hates housework and shopping.
guest

Duluth, GA

#2 Dec 30, 2012
Top Sixer wrote:
It's time for some backlash! I'm so tired of hearing why black men prefer white women! So here you go. Y'all know I got a point. Don't deny.

If you don't have a sense of humor, please don't comment.
If you are a troll, go the F away.
Also, don't quote any Bible verses because, well, IDGAF about your religion. Thanks and enjoy.

6: White men have family values. It’s not often that you’ll see white men with 3 or 4 “baby mamas” all over the damn place while the women are left taking care of the kids. White men know what family means and they want to be there for the kids.

5. White men know how to manage money. White men don't flash their little street money around or take you out to eat at a fast food place with a coupon at the first of the month. White men take you to a real restaurant. Plus, they know how to order a drink and they know what tipping is. White men know how to handle a problem with the food without embarrassing their lady and trying to get a free meal. White men know how to plan for the future financially. They have bank accounts, credit cards, and a mortgage.

4. White men won't insist that their woman work, but if she wants to, he's cool with that. A white man will work hard to provide for his lady and his family. Black men arenÂ’t even sticking around after the baby bump appears. A white man will be proud of his woman's education, not live off of it himself.

3. White men know that there are plenty of ways to make a legal living. You won’t often see a white man in the “trap”, unlike black men who only aspire to become a rapper, ball player or drug dealer because those are the only occupations the men they admire have. White men tend to get an education and a job that can support more than one child.

2. White men have manners. They don't text you to come outside or pull up in the driveway and honk. White men date to find a wife. Black men date to find a place to get laid. I could go on an on.

1. White men know how to do sh*t without their woman. White men know that that when their woman is down - sick, working like dog, or just plain needs a break - that they need to step up. A black man bitches and whines about not being fed on time, and he can barely take out the trash without being told. A white man will go to the store, make dinner, do some laundry and wash some dishes. A white man understands that the household is ultimately his responsibility, and he doesn't cry about it, no matter how much he hates housework and shopping.
First, I can't say diddly about black men, but gosh I hope they aren't as bad as you make them sound.

I'm gonna have to disagree with at least one thing. ALL men have one thing on their mind; some are true to their women, and some are not. While my husband of almost 25 years fulfills most of the wonderful things you said, he's only human and occasionally is lazy, or insensitive, or rude, or appears to be braindead, and I'm sure he would say the same about me.

I'll say this again: surely most men, no matter their skin color, aren't like the picture you just painted.
Top Sixer

Jackson, TN

#3 Dec 30, 2012
They (black men)aren't that bad, not really. Jerks are jerks, race notwithstanding. I just got my knickers in a snit, and I wanted to vent and take some shots at the stereotypes. Black women reading this, whether they admit it or not, will likely have a laugh. As I said, a sense of humor is required.
john

Duluth, GA

#4 Dec 31, 2012
I'm Black and I have no problem with black women talking to white guys. To be honest I wish all black women talk to white guys. Maybe they won't be as bitter and jealous. I personally love white women and prefer them over black women. I've in a relationship with a black women and never will I do it again all she did was complain and talk about racism here and there.
ABC

Jackson, TN

#5 Dec 31, 2012
This is idiotic. Color doesn't matter of you are a man you will be a man. If you go out with a dumb sh it which most white men are in Jackson. Good Luck. Tell me where you are finding these "Good" white men so I can see it.
Guest

Trenton, TN

#6 Dec 31, 2012
As a black woman, I have dated both white and black men. From my perspective, your list does contain a few valid points. However, I must disagree with you on one statement you made. You stated that white men have family values and provided for their families. While I am sure some white men do, the father of my child, whom is white, did not and does not provide for our child. My father, who is black, did provide for me and my siblings. We are all adults now with children of our own, and if any of us ever needed his help with anything, we all know we can count on him.

Since: Jan 13

Bellevue, WA

#7 Jan 5, 2013
get at me black ladies , ima good man
Sarah

Eagle, CO

#8 Jan 5, 2013
As a Black woman in my mid-twenties I have found that White men are better mannered, better focused, better educated, more mature and really know how to treat a woman. Every White man I have dated picks me up on time, dresses appropriately (conservatively) and is genuinely interested in me as a person as opposed to merely getting me in bed.
For me there is no real comparison as White men are family oriented, serious thinkers and respectful of my thoughts and beliefs....not to mention that they are a LOT of fun!

Since: Jan 13

Bellevue, WA

#9 Jan 5, 2013
Sarah wrote:
As a Black woman in my mid-twenties I have found that White men are better mannered, better focused, better educated, more mature and really know how to treat a woman. Every White man I have dated picks me up on time, dresses appropriately (conservatively) and is genuinely interested in me as a person as opposed to merely getting me in bed.
For me there is no real comparison as White men are family oriented, serious thinkers and respectful of my thoughts and beliefs....not to mention that they are a LOT of fun!
u sound like alota fun urself
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#10 Jan 5, 2013
White men can keep a job but black men can't get a job because of racism against convicted felons!
Top Sixer

Jackson, TN

#11 Jan 5, 2013
Damn, some of y'all missed the point! As I said, I was making fun of stereotypes but wanted to get a point across. I do not dislike black men, nor think all black men fit the stereotype, nor avoid dating black men - quite the reverse. On the other hand, I would not rule out dating a white man again - I dated one for about 6 months years ago. If the chemistry is there, it's there. Love & attraction isn't confined by race & it shouldn't be. Go with whomever you want to be with. Although I admit that I have some racist views against whites. I didn't say that it's right to have them. Dating a white man opened my eyes a great deal to my own hypocrisy of race.
@ Heavynuts - I'll take you at your word that you're a catch, but I probably wouldn't try to hook up with you with a screen name like that, which is a rather teen-age way to represent yourself on a public forum IMHO. Bravado is sexy only to a point. I may be missing out, but so be it. No offense meant, just my opinion.

At any rate, thanks everyone for the comments & even the disagreements. It has been interesting to read. I hope others will make some honest comments as well.

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