question for the ladies

[wondering]

Woman, if you would like to chat off of topix, you can email me @ [e-mail]

[too funny]

Haha. Who uses aol. Haha. Can we say........DESPERATE! Haha.

[wondering]

Good luck to you as well, one who knows.

[wondering]

Aol, yahoo etc. Who cares, they are emails lol. And not desperate at all. Just asked did she wanna communicate off of topix. It's amusing that people are so negative.

[woman]

I sent you an email.

[wondering]

Wasted days Wasted Nights wrote:

I am too old for u but if I wasnt I would snatch u up in a heartbeat.. I have never had a gentleman in my life . I am a good , loving , tender hearted woman that would know how to appreciate and be grateful for a good man like u . I am stuck in a loveless marriage to a man that is mentally , verbally abusive. I just don't know any way out of it without walking away from everything that has took years to achieve . I know it's just stuff but some stuff it takes to live . He has kept me financially dependent on him and wouldn't hear of me working other than at home. I know I should have walked away long ago before it got to that point but we don't always do what's best for us. So to "wondering " please don't settle for less than u deserve .

I really hate you are in such a relationship. It cannot be healthy. I cannot even begin to imagine. I will pray that it gets better for you.

[photowizard]

wondering wrote:

I don't over do it. But I'm polite and like to express good things verbally and physically. Open doors, stuff that a good Guy would do. But I do step up. My kindness is not a sign of weakness. If it was I would stay with them and get ran over.

THERE ARE GOOD WOMAN OUT THERE,TRY LOOKING FOR A PERSON WITH THE SAME INTREST THAT YOU HAVE,TREAT THEM LIKE YOU WANT TO BE TREATED AND TAKE YOUR TIME GETTING TO KNOW THEM, DONT RUSH A RELATIONSHIP, i THINK SOME GIRLS IN YOUR AGE BRACKET ARE LOOKING FOR DRAMA. wHAT KIND OF GIRL ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?

[wondering]

I'm not rushing. I think getting to know a person pretty well first leads to a better relationship. I like a woman that shares the same interest as me, honest, trustworthy, family and goal oriented and most definitely drama free. Self confidence helps to.

[Sweet thing.]

wondering wrote:

I'm not rushing. I think getting to know a person pretty well first leads to a better relationship. I like a woman that shares the same interest as me, honest, trustworthy, family and goal oriented and most definitely drama free. Self confidence helps to.

You can thank me later if it works out between Wondering and Woman.:)

[woman]

We'll see. Depends if he wants to talk to me or not. ;)

[wondering]

Lol. Sweet thing is trying to play match maker.

[woman]

That's what it sounds like

[Sweet thing.]

"Well, well, well. What can I say?" (in my JJ Evan's voice)

[bleh]

Pretty sad that someone has to come on topix looking for love. He'll realize his mistake in a month or so and be on here slamming "woman". Or she'll be on here slamming him. Wondering you should have just turned gay. Remember I told you so.

[woman]

I wouldn't slam anyone, especially on topix. That's way to much drama for me. When you get on these websites or Facebook & start slamming people because you didn't get your way....that's a sign of immaturity and weakness & that's something I don't have time 4. I'm to mature 4 crap like that!

[wondering]

Haha. I didn't come on here looking for love, I came on here to ask a question. If I was looking I would've taken the ladies up who have daughters and granddaughters or just simply asked the girl who was flirting with me at target or sign up for match.com . lol. But I simply wanted to hear some women's opinions on this. So what if I made a friend in the process. Bleh I'm sure you must be gay as much as your talking about changing teams. If you are, I'm sure you say you were born that way huh. Well I wasn't nor do I have any attraction to men. Sorry I won't take your advances towards me Haha. And I'm not a basher.but thanks for your ignorance anyway.

[been there]

I will add this to what I said earlier. The settings in which you choose to try and find the woman of your dreams will have a lot to do with the type of women you're always meeting.

To sum it all up certain places attract a certain type of person. Know what you're looking for and then determine where those type of girls could be found.

In my case I was never attracted to barflys so I steered clear of bars.

[wondering]

I haven't picked up a women from that scene for many years. But there is just not a place you can go to pick up a decent lady. You just have to try your luck. There are women that go to church that are not even a good catch. So you never know where a good one can be. Its all about the right place at the right time.

[bleh]

wondering wrote:

Haha. I didn't come on here looking for love, I came on here to ask a question. If I was looking I would've taken the ladies up who have daughters and granddaughters or just simply asked the girl who was flirting with me at target or sign up for match.com . lol. But I simply wanted to hear some women's opinions on this. So what if I made a friend in the process. Bleh I'm sure you must be gay as much as your talking about changing teams. If you are, I'm sure you say you were born that way huh. Well I wasn't nor do I have any attraction to men. Sorry I won't take your advances towards me Haha. And I'm not a basher.but thanks for your ignorance anyway.

You sure about that? Judging from your sweet posts about how you like to treat a woman like she should be treated and talking about what a gentleman you are, I was thinking there was sugar in your gas tank. Good luck with your "quest" for the perfect woaman.

[wondering]

In all the posts I've put on here not one of them say I'm looking. I asked for opinions to why women do this. I'm not in search of the perfect women as you say. One that's a good wholesome woman who doesn't take things for granted would be nice. But I'm not looking. But a lot of what I'm hearing is I'm trying to hard, when does being a nice guy mean your trying to hard or that you should like the opposite sex. If I don't ever meet that kind of lady that's available, I'll be fine. If I do that's ok too. But like I said I'm not looking, if something happens that's fine.