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nikkolee

Hartland, MI

#1 Mar 23, 2011
Which ones are the best around here?
Yeah

United States

#2 Mar 23, 2011
Brandi Helton will be. :)
Mhmm

Hartland, MI

#3 Mar 23, 2011
Diana bandy seems to be a good mom
Jordan Goheen-Lilly

Logan, OH

#4 Mar 23, 2011
I do believe i am a good mom.
And Rikki Perkins
Chasity Jayjohn
and a few others
satan

Washington, DC

#5 Mar 23, 2011
I really enjoy how jackson's topix had a teen moms debate about whos better rather than how irreaponsible it is.
hmm

Jackson, OH

#6 Mar 23, 2011
uh, okay before you go trying to say that having a baby is irresponsible, try learning how to spell.
Mhmm

Hartland, MI

#7 Mar 24, 2011
satan wrote:
I really enjoy how jackson's topix had a teen moms debate about whos better rather than how irreaponsible it is.
Its not irresponsible if they step up and take care of the kid. Seriously some teen moms are better than the older ones.
danielle

United States

#8 Mar 24, 2011
I respectfully disagree. Their parenting skills aside, its unbelievably irresponsible to have a baby as a teenager. Even if they're a great mother they're still cheating themselves out of the best years of a young girls life. In this day and age there are numerous kinds of protection. Taking advantage of those is the most responsible thing they can do.
yup

Washington, DC

#9 Mar 24, 2011
danielle wrote:
I respectfully disagree. Their parenting skills aside, its unbelievably irresponsible to have a baby as a teenager. Even if they're a great mother they're still cheating themselves out of the best years of a young girls life. In this day and age there are numerous kinds of protection. Taking advantage of those is the most responsible thing they can do.
so you think these babies were all planned? I'm sure all these teen moms just up and decided one day to get pregnant. It's not irrispinsible, its life, it happens. Lay off of them.
~Muah~

Jackson, OH

#10 Mar 24, 2011
danielle wrote:
I respectfully disagree. Their parenting skills aside, its unbelievably irresponsible to have a baby as a teenager. Even if they're a great mother they're still cheating themselves out of the best years of a young girls life. In this day and age there are numerous kinds of protection. Taking advantage of those is the most responsible thing they can do.
It happens so much your right. I had my daughter at 17 and I'm now 25 I take care of my daughter and I was on birth control when I got pregnant the patch!! I love my daughter and being a mom more then anything in this world but I missed out on a lot of my earlier years!! It's very hard finishing school and making a good positive life when u have two to look after!! Teen moms have to grow up very fast I did anyway!! I don't regret having my child by no means but there is no reason tp sit her in say eveything was easy bc it wasn't and it wasn't ok but so many paint this perfect image for other teens to see, makes them want to do it as well and it's not perfect!! I suggest not having sex at all if you aren't 100% sure that your not going to get pregnant!! It would be so worth waiting for!

Their teens that's why they are irresponsible they are babies basically an of course they are going to make bad choices but listen when people tell ya not to do it and look at other teens lives that are caring for children when you think you want to do it!!
blondemom

Dallas, TX

#11 Mar 24, 2011
maybe i am just older now, but it seems like i see many more of what appears to be teenage moms (or are preggo) than what i did just a few years ago. with all the awareness and availability of birth control it is hard to not feel sad.
danielle

United States

#12 Mar 24, 2011
yup wrote:
<quoted text> so you think these babies were all planned? I'm sure all these teen moms just up and decided one day to get pregnant. It's not irrispinsible, its life, it happens. Lay off of them.
I never said anything was planned. Hence the term "irresponsible" .Not doin anything so I don't need to lay off..and yes life happens. However with the proper education its almost totally preventable. Read an entire post before you get so defensive.
danielle

United States

#13 Mar 24, 2011
[QUOTE who="~Muah~ "]<quoted text>
It happens so much your right. I had my daughter at 17 and I'm now 25 I take care of my daughter and I was on birth control when I got pregnant the patch!! I love my daughter and being a mom more then anything in this world but I missed out on a lot of my earlier years!! It's very hard finishing school and making a good positive life when u have two to look after!! Teen moms have to grow up very fast I did anyway!! I don't regret having my child by no means but there is no reason tp sit her in say eveything was easy bc it wasn't and it wasn't ok but so many paint this perfect image for other teens to see, makes them want to do it as well and it's not perfect!! I suggest not having sex at all if you aren't 100% sure that your not going to get pregnant!! It would be so worth waiting for!
Their teens that's why they are irresponsible they are babies basically an of course they are going to make bad choices but listen when people tell ya not to do it and look at other teens lives that are caring for children when you think you want to do it!![/QUOTE]

I agree with you totally. I was 19 when I had my daughter and I still feel missed a lot. I had to leave my friends and college to work to raise her. I get that the pill and some other forms of contraceptives aren't 100% effective. There will always be ones who beat the odds, as you did :) I admire you for doing what you've done. It's hard work :)
danielle

United States

#14 Mar 24, 2011
blondemom wrote:
maybe i am just older now, but it seems like i see many more of what appears to be teenage moms (or are preggo) than what i did just a few years ago. with all the awareness and availability of birth control it is hard to not feel sad.
Agreed. Very sad.
mommy

Portsmouth, OH

#15 Mar 24, 2011
i had my son when i was 16. i don't see anything wrong with having a child so young as long as you step up and take responsibility for them. yes i was very careful and used protection but sometimes the condoms break or the birth control messes up! i am 21 now and i have graduated high school and am almost finished with college. i don't think i missed out on being a child cause if you look around most are on drugs! i'm glad i had my son when i did or i could have been just like them! i'm proud to say that i had my beautiful son at 16 and i don't care who wants to bash on me!:)
danielle

United States

#16 Mar 24, 2011
Man people are so defensive. I don't want to bash on anyone. I never did. This is for opinions and everyone's entitled to them. Just because some people didn't miss their teen years doesn't mean that's the same for all.
danielle

United States

#17 Mar 24, 2011
Also people should read an entire post before responding. Defending things that were already pointed out is senseless.
krissy

Bellevue, WA

#18 Mar 24, 2011
i got pregnant with my daughter at 17 yes i made the decision to have sex..but i also stepped up and took responsibilty and so did my bf...now our daughter is our number one priority in life! She comes before anything else..always has and always will...
danielle

Lakeside, MI

#19 Mar 24, 2011
Good for you :)
blondemom

Dallas, TX

#20 Mar 24, 2011
thats great, but for each one like you there are 10+ that do not which is the sad part.

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