Except it WAS about her. It was HER decision to make. Period. If he'd cared, he'd have kept it in his pants, and wouldn't have gone on to keep schtupping around with OTHER sex partners, remaining "aloof" or not.<quoted text>
I knew you missed the point of the story. It wasn't about her. It was about him.
Dude, as you created him, can't care that much.