Fed Up With Blacks

Since: May 12

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#1 May 11, 2012
As a woman of color, I have to say I am disgusted with people of my own race. I am 18 years old and I am from Newark, NJ. For the past 8 years, I have had major problems with other blacks and ONLY blacks. Yes, I have had quarrels with whites, Arabs, Asians, and Hispanics but it's different. With Arabs and Asians, we usually fight at first then get along. I realized with them, that
they're very forgiving. With whites, we would argue, we would gossip to our friends and families about each other, and whether the problem is solved or not, it would end. With blacks, they
would want to fight me because I "gave them a nasty look" 5 years ago or I didn't want to give them the answers to an assignment back in 7th grade. They just drag the most unnecesary things
on and on forever and ever and they just never shut the fuck up. I'm sick and tired of all the "he-said-you-said-she-sai d-they-said-I-said" bullshit and the immature drama over NOTHING. It's been 8 years and I've had ENOUGH. I do whatever I can to avoid any interaction them, even the ones from better upbringings (the non hood rats) because there's always a large chain of drama that follows it and ONCE I engage in a friendly conversation with any of them, my reputation is ruined. Before they even know who I am, they have something already plotted out and some rumor to spread. I don't care how "innocent" they are at first, they all turn out to be the same at some point or another. Don't get me wrong, I meet people with an open mind. I like all different people from all different backgrounds (except thugs & rednecks). Before, even if I had a bad impression of the person (regardless of race), I'd still try to get to know them without prejudging. Let me just say, 99.9% of the time I should have just stuck with my first impressions. Same with the hood rats. I would think to myself: "She may be ghetto, but she's actually much nicer than I expected". As soon as I start thinking that,they gove a reason for me to think the EXACT opposite. I realized that it's just a front they put on to get soemthing from you.
What is it that blacks have against each other? Remember Trayvon Martin? None of them say shit when it's black on black but if it's white (or any other race) on black, it's considered the worst sin in the world. They're always trying to bring each other down. If someone in their communities succeeds, they do whatever they can to get that person to fail. They're always trying to get each other in trouble or get someone in trouble with them. Look at the music industry! I never hear Celine Dion making songs to diss Shania Twain. I never hear Jennifer Lopez making songs to diss Nelly Furtado. But it's always Tupac vs. Biggie, Lil' Kim vs. Nicki Minaj, etc. Whenever there's a group and me another person are the only blacks, they try to start something with me. I understand what this is. Is a slave mentality? Slavemasters told one of their slaves that they're better than the other one. I see how they prefer the lighter-skinned ones, even the dark-skinned ones prefer them.
No, I am not self-hating so don't even try it. I love the way I am. I like my chocolate skin. It's not the RACE, it's the people. Don't even try to tell me this is just a sterotype either when I've seen it with my two eyes, experienced it, and it's all over the media. Yes, I hate rednecks, hicks, Nazis, and skinheads and they are worse disgraces than hoodrats but they're not up here in Jersey, and they don't bother me directly, so I'm not going to complain about them.

*By the way, if you're wondering why I'm saying "them" instead of "us" is because I'm not like that and I would be complaining about myself. Lol.

Since: May 12

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#2 May 11, 2012
I forgot to mention that it's only a black American thing. The Africans, Caribbeans, black Europeans, and black Asians (which is rare) are not like that.

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