My husband has no interest in me

My husband has no interest in me

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Baby its cold outside

Lexington, KY

#1 Apr 14, 2011
My Husband has no interest in sex with me. He always has excuses. This morning he told me it was too cold in the house. Should I be concerned?
got one

Irvine, KY

#2 Apr 14, 2011
would you like my husband? he's a real good man I'm just bored with him. he has a good job, works every chance he gets. I just am no longer attracted to him. You'd get all the sex you have been missing. He stays horny (and no he does not need male enhancement pills). He is actually pretty good at it I just don't have the desire to fool with him.
Well

Manchester, KY

#3 Apr 14, 2011
..it may not be that he's not interested in you, or not interested in sex with you. Us guys just like women some times just don't feel like it. Some of the reasons being the same, stress being atop the list. Yeah most think guys always want it, but that's not always the case. I suggest you sit down & have a talk with him, & don't leave anything out.
tipsy

Irvine, KY

#4 Apr 15, 2011
Baby its cold outside wrote:
My Husband has no interest in sex with me. He always has excuses. This morning he told me it was too cold in the house. Should I be concerned?
is your house clean? your kids taken care of? are you clean? do you have a great attitude? are you a bitch? or maybe he is just bored with you! maybe he has a hott girlfriend! maybe he hates you and your family! maybe he is tired of kissing your ass!maybe he is just tired of being with you ! hell ask him most will let ya know in the end what is going on!
rimrod

Berea, KY

#5 Apr 15, 2011
he is gay get over it sweetey
Wanting to know

Somerset, KY

#6 Apr 15, 2011
got one wrote:
would you like my husband? he's a real good man I'm just bored with him. he has a good job, works every chance he gets. I just am no longer attracted to him. You'd get all the sex you have been missing. He stays horny (and no he does not need male enhancement pills). He is actually pretty good at it I just don't have the desire to fool with him.
Maybe u need secret some1,change maybe good for you...I can help....
Sid Hatfield

Richmond, KY

#7 Apr 15, 2011
If you want to come to Richmond I will be happy to satisfy you and work to fulfill every fantasy you might have. All I ask is that you be sane, clean, disease-free, not morbidly obese (a few extra pounds are ok), and mutually respectful. I genuinely like women and would love to please you. If interested, write me at priapan@yahoo.com.
rimrod

Broken Arrow, OK

#8 Apr 15, 2011
i will take her husband
THE TRUTH

Irvine, KY

#9 Apr 15, 2011
HE IS EITHER GAY OR SCREWING SOMEONE ELSE
capricorn

Irvine, KY

#10 Apr 15, 2011
I personally think you should be discussing this with your husband.Personal matters like this should remain private.Because majority of the people that will respond really are more clueless than you about the situation.In my opinion you know him best and if you want true answers go strait to the source.

Since: Sep 10

Location hidden

#11 Apr 15, 2011
capricorn wrote:
I personally think you should be discussing this with your husband.Personal matters like this should remain private.Because majority of the people that will respond really are more clueless than you about the situation.In my opinion you know him best and if you want true answers go strait to the source.
Very good advice. I was thinking the same thing.

Talk to your husband.
rimrod

Broken Arrow, OK

#12 Apr 16, 2011
he got big tool box? wink.wink
dirty old man

Somerset, KY

#13 Apr 18, 2011
well if you husbane wont do you i will and i live in irivine am clean and drug free so lets get together and have some fun
TLS

United States

#14 Apr 20, 2011
Honey I'm sure your man is more than likely sleeping with someone else! Ex: when I wad doing things behind my mana back I never even wanted him to touch me! It wad because I wad hiding something and getting pleased somewhere else
Bear

Lafayette, OH

#15 Apr 20, 2011
TLS wrote:
Honey I'm sure your man is more than likely sleeping with someone else! Ex: when I wad doing things behind my mana back I never even wanted him to touch me! It wad because I wad hiding something and getting pleased somewhere else
Bad advice. There could be many reasons. Not everyone cheats. I guess cheaters think everyone does it.
TLS

United States

#16 Apr 21, 2011
Bear wrote:
<quoted text>Bad advice. There could be many reasons. Not everyone cheats. I guess cheaters think everyone does it.
Your right not everyone cheats!! I'm not saying that but if they talk and their relationship is still falling apart something more is going on

Since: Apr 10

Jackson, Ky

#17 Apr 21, 2011
Well wrote:
..it may not be that he's not interested in you, or not interested in sex with you. Us guys just like women some times just don't feel like it. Some of the reasons being the same, stress being atop the list. Yeah most think guys always want it, but that's not always the case. I suggest you sit down & have a talk with him, & don't leave anything out.
Best comment! If you two are fighting then he is telling you in the argument what is wrong, are you listening? If you are not fighting and he seems to just not care, the first step is to talk. Maybe its medical. Here is some clues that point to cheating.
Gone from home more. Late a lot. Lack of interest in family and home.
New clothes, cologne, increased attention to appearance. Some get a new car
wondering the same

Paris, KY

#18 Apr 25, 2011
i for one can say that i have never cheated have had opportunity to...have kept selp clean, free of any deseases n all of them a one woman man good mom to my children a very good wife clean house working mom and always have had meals on table and like i said bent over backwards and what have i dont to deserve what i have gotten these last 2 years god only knows..i have prayed n prayed for god to answer prayers..and waiting still tried talking to my husband but he refuses to talk at all..he has beaten me up twice n i dropped charges n he has left my/our home total of three times longest stayed away was month came back n i confronted him over our cell phone bill he was calling other women n to my knowledge hadnt had any affairs with them they lived n do outta state but still the issue of phoning them i wunder what all was said you know?? but he denied it as usual and does not want to talk about it and his brother just complimented me this past weekend at a festival and low behold he acted interested then in front of him like he had to walk me to bathroom even n wanted to buy me something to eat now whats this tell me i wunder if its the spell i dont want you but dont wanna let you go for anyone else either to have you....well i am getting mighty tired here of this i am not an ole dried up soul just want to be luved and appreciated for who i am and what i can give in return this is all i ask and not to be un noticed until someone else compliments me in front of him this is one sad life to live in a unhappy world...i do not drink nor do drugs nor smoke never did i luv music and to play music i enjoy myself but in a marriage like this and i have been married now come may 25 years and this is not a marriage to me anymore so i am wondering too WHAT IS THE PROBLEM????
I Can Relate

Irvine, KY

#19 Apr 25, 2011
I'm a male facing similar problems,and the best advice I can give you is move on,or be consumed with what they are doing to you. One or the other.
wondering the same

Paris, KY

#20 Apr 26, 2011
I feel it has come down to this choice true n i kept praying Lord is it me what else do I do? Then a still small voice says what else wud you have done different and all I can answer is nothing so its not me I CAN SAY MAYBE I LUVED TOOO MUCH DID TOOO MUCH:) BUT time marches on....

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