Married men who cheat

Married men who cheat

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Curious

Georgetown, KY

#1 Oct 27, 2012
Married cheating men will NEVER leave!
Yep

Greenbrier, AR

#2 Oct 27, 2012
Very true..so who was the one who convinced you he was leaving?
i know

Chesterfield, MO

#3 Oct 27, 2012
mine doesn't cheat with other women just with his drugs. I wonder if he could possibly care about another human at all. If he found another woman it might be easier to get rid of him. But I guess they just want the best of both worlds and whatever else they can get. Why leave?
Yep

Greenbrier, AR

#4 Oct 27, 2012
Cause you may think its not with other women but if a nasty chick has drugs they will do anything to get them and if you want to take the chance of getting something Ajax won't wash off more power to you. Look up diseases that are spread by snorting pills with someone, needles, some can even transfer on joints due to saliva! Not a chance I would personally take!
Slow joe

Clarksville, TN

#5 Oct 27, 2012
Can't cheat every nite.....always good to have something at home to go home to
Yep

Greenbrier, AR

#6 Oct 27, 2012
Slow joe wrote:
Can't cheat every nite.....always good to have something at home to go home to
Do you at least tell chicks you got someone at home? Or are you worthless like all others and convince them you're single and then break the news when she wants to come to your place?
Slow joe

Clarksville, TN

#7 Oct 27, 2012
No I don't play that game....let them know up front I got someone at home
i know

Chesterfield, MO

#8 Oct 27, 2012
yep. I know what your saying. I've already had those same thoughts, so I stay away from him sexually already, but I do still care about him and worry he will die. But I wish I could move on completely because living with him draggs me down. My heart goes out to others who lie awake wondering where their man is or what they will bring home.
Yep

Greenbrier, AR

#9 Oct 27, 2012
I have been in a similar situation in the past. Best thing I ever done for my kids and myself was walk away. It's not and never will be easy. But it is worth it eventually! And slow joe...you just be with the one you are honest with! Obviously the one you call home means nothing to you if you're looking elsewhere so why not just leave and save everyone heart ache!
I feel ya

London, KY

#10 Oct 28, 2012
i know wrote:
yep. I know what your saying. I've already had those same thoughts, so I stay away from him sexually already, but I do still care about him and worry he will die. But I wish I could move on completely because living with him draggs me down. My heart goes out to others who lie awake wondering where their man is or what they will bring home.
I understand what you are saying completely, it is really hard when you love someone who you know is not good for you..It is hard to leave or completely remove them from your life, even when you know you should. Love sucks sometimes..I'm in the same boat you are..with the drugs and I know that most likely he is cheating also,,but I still can't make myself leave either..He is a good person underneath all the madness that comes along with drugs, and above all he is a good father; so I feel really stuck also..I know we deserve a better life, but I still love him and want this to work, even when I know the odds are not in my favor...All I can say is good luck,,and to know that you are not alone...
he is not home

Mansfield, OH

#11 Oct 28, 2012
To slow Joe, Have you ever heard.....while the cats away, the mouse will play ?
If you leave your woman at home a lot so you can run around, she will find something to do. It will not include you. LOL
winslow

United States

#12 Oct 29, 2012
keep in mind: Men who will cheat with you, will also cheat on you. I should know because I am one of them.
Wow

Georgetown, KY

#13 Oct 29, 2012
So you're cheating on the wife & the girlfriend?
Yep

Greenbrier, AR

#14 Oct 29, 2012
His name is prolly Brian! Always cheating on the ones he cheats on his girlfriend with! Never ending story!
mail jigalo

London, KY

#15 Oct 30, 2012
I cheat on everybody I come in contact with!! And the ladies like it and beg for more, they don't mind, just simply wait their turn!!
who

London, KY

#16 Oct 30, 2012
Yep wrote:
His name is prolly Brian! Always cheating on the ones he cheats on his girlfriend with! Never ending story!
Brian who...
Confused

London, KY

#17 Nov 1, 2012
Why do people start threads like this, if they have no intentions of letting people know who they are talking about..if you comment or start a thread like this, you should at least let others know who you are talking about. You should warn others so they don't also get hurt the way you did..If I or even a friend of mine had been through what you have been through, I would put the name out there, to try to keep this from happening to others.. It's just the respectful thing to do..I really don't know why you would even bother with posting anything, if your not going to tell people who it was. This is why so many people get hurt..the same way you did..Warn people about him..or if you know someone is cheating post it, cause I sure would hate to be blindsided by a smooth talker, the way you were..You are just giving them an easy out, so they can go do it again...It doesn't matter if it's a girl or a guy..if they cheat,, then let people know, tell the world, so you can help make sure no one else has to feel that same kind of pain..Good Luck, and I hope you find happiness..
Matter

Irvine, KY

#18 Nov 1, 2012
Confused wrote:
Why do people start threads like this, if they have no intentions of letting people know who they are talking about..if you comment or start a thread like this, you should at least let others know who you are talking about. You should warn others so they don't also get hurt the way you did..If I or even a friend of mine had been through what you have been through, I would put the name out there, to try to keep this from happening to others.. It's just the respectful thing to do..I really don't know why you would even bother with posting anything, if your not going to tell people who it was. This is why so many people get hurt..the same way you did..Warn people about him..or if you know someone is cheating post it, cause I sure would hate to be blindsided by a smooth talker, the way you were..You are just giving them an easy out, so they can go do it again...It doesn't matter if it's a girl or a guy..if they cheat,, then let people know, tell the world, so you can help make sure no one else has to feel that same kind of pain..Good Luck, and I hope you find happiness..
It would not matter if someone is warned, they do not believe you and will go after that smooth talker anyway.
wondering

Somerset, KY

#19 Nov 1, 2012
I feel ya wrote:
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I understand what you are saying completely, it is really hard when you love someone who you know is not good for you..It is hard to leave or completely remove them from your life, even when you know you should. Love sucks sometimes..I'm in the same boat you are..with the drugs and I know that most likely he is cheating also,,but I still can't make myself leave either..He is a good person underneath all the madness that comes along with drugs, and above all he is a good father; so I feel really stuck also..I know we deserve a better life, but I still love him and want this to work, even when I know the odds are not in my favor...All I can say is good luck,,and to know that you are not alone...
Thanks for sharing..I felt like I was reading my own story lol. It's nice to know I'm not alone. Good luck :)
Matter

Irvine, KY

#20 Nov 1, 2012
I feel ya wrote:
<quoted text>
I understand what you are saying completely, it is really hard when you love someone who you know is not good for you..It is hard to leave or completely remove them from your life, even when you know you should. Love sucks sometimes..I'm in the same boat you are..with the drugs and I know that most likely he is cheating also,,but I still can't make myself leave either..He is a good person underneath all the madness that comes along with drugs, and above all he is a good father; so I feel really stuck also..I know we deserve a better life, but I still love him and want this to work, even when I know the odds are not in my favor...All I can say is good luck,,and to know that you are not alone...
You are in total denial, and sounds like you are condoning his drug use. Staying in the relationship is like telling him it is okay to use drugs and cheat, cause he knows you will put up with it.

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