Wife obsessed with Facebook

Wife obsessed with Facebook

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Billy

Wagoner, OK

#1 Nov 6, 2012
Can someone please tell me why my wife of 8 years wakes up and gets on facebook, gets off of work and goes straight to Facebook and pretty much sits on Facebook until she goes to bed, when she has a day off she is sitting on Facebook? Please someone tell me what is so important about everyone else's lives. Facebook is pretty sucky if you ask me. I have Facebook but I don't obsess over it. I am ready to divorce her over it.
LOL Cat

Akron, OH

#2 Nov 6, 2012
It's an addiction. No different than oxy.
curious

Ashland, KY

#3 Nov 6, 2012
She is cheating bub trust me
hmm

Ashland, KY

#4 Nov 6, 2012
she is not cheating if she was she wouldnt be on face book all the time she would be gone all the time...

i am just like her i am on facebook all the time....dont divorce her....if you havent told her how u feel about it then let her know it bothers you...if she wasnt on facebook would you be spending time with her? if so tell her you need more time with her trust me girls love that sh*t....she does work so u have to let her have some her time and if she wants to spend it on facebook be ok with that but just tell her u need some of her time as well and that u are unhappy in your marriage....good luck
Waterboy

United States

#5 Nov 6, 2012
As mama says " Facebook is the devil " if she ain't cheating, give her time demons from the past will reappear and she will be tempted and she has no more interest in you then that, she will invite the temptation
face it billy

Ashland, KY

#7 Nov 8, 2012
she's cheating and if you explain like "hmm" says, she'll only try and hide it.

“Easy does it... ”

Since: Nov 12

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#8 Nov 8, 2012
Billy wrote:
Can someone please tell me why my wife of 8 years wakes up and gets on facebook, gets off of work and goes straight to Facebook and pretty much sits on Facebook until she goes to bed, when she has a day off she is sitting on Facebook? Please someone tell me what is so important about everyone else's lives. Facebook is pretty sucky if you ask me. I have Facebook but I don't obsess over it. I am ready to divorce her over it.
Maybe I'm just curious, but couldn't you just see who she's talking to on there? And about just what at any time you wish? If she deletes history & cookies and she is wiping it out regularly, then I would be suspicious.

Instead of divorcing her, take her by the hand... lead her to the car and take her out to dinner or a movie or something. If she takes out her Iphone or whatever in the process, snatch it from her and threaten to throw it in the river,lol.

And then bring her back home and make mad, passionate,primitive love to her. With animal noises included... talk dirty , get nasty, whatever ya gotta do.

If she breaks out the Iphone in the middle of all that , have your lawyer draw up the papers.... It's a done deal.

Linda.

United States

#9 Nov 11, 2012
Billy wrote:
Can someone please tell me why my wife of 8 years wakes up and gets on facebook, gets off of work and goes straight to Facebook and pretty much sits on Facebook until she goes to bed, when she has a day off she is sitting on Facebook? Please someone tell me what is so important about everyone else's lives. Facebook is pretty sucky if you ask me. I have Facebook but I don't obsess over it. I am ready to divorce her over it.
sound like to me you are ready to divorce her anyways. Nothing wrong with Facebook. At less your wife is home not out running the street..
Linda.

United States

#10 Nov 11, 2012
Will Munny wrote:
<quoted text>Maybe I'm just curious, but couldn't you just see who she's talking to on there? And about just what at any time you wish? If she deletes history & cookies and she is wiping it out regularly, then I would be suspicious.

Instead of divorcing her, take her by the hand... lead her to the car and take her out to dinner or a movie or something. If she takes out her Iphone or whatever in the process, snatch it from her and threaten to throw it in the river,lol.

And then bring her back home and make mad, passionate,primitive love to her. With animal noises included... talk dirty , get nasty, whatever ya gotta do.

If she breaks out the Iphone in the middle of all that , have your lawyer draw up the papers.... It's a done deal.
amen brother.
jd

Marion, OH

#11 Nov 11, 2012
Mine is always on Facebook too. I didn't check her page because she is entitled to her privacy but I did offer to watch the kids so she can go do whatever for however long and she didn't go. Give a dog enough rope it will hang itself.
boring life

Pickerington, OH

#12 Nov 12, 2012
I am on facebook a decent amount I must say. But if I have a choice of spending time with my husband or being on Facebook....HE wins without a doubt!! Facebook is a good and mind- numbing experience. When a person cannot be social with their spouse usually there is a REASON they don't want to be!! Maybe you are lame and an absolute douche bag and she is doing it intentionally to tune you out. Bet you never thought of that one :P My ex husband was a complete idiot. He ranted and raved about the most stupid crap and never shut his mouth. He was hateful and mean toward everyone. So yeah, I LIVED on the computer or with my nose in a book - anywhere I could tune out his BS!!! Why doesn't she want to spend any time with you?
jd

Marion, OH

#13 Nov 12, 2012
boring life wrote:
I am on facebook a decent amount I must say. But if I have a choice of spending time with my husband or being on Facebook....HE wins without a doubt!! Facebook is a good and mind- numbing experience. When a person cannot be social with their spouse usually there is a REASON they don't want to be!! Maybe you are lame and an absolute douche bag and she is doing it intentionally to tune you out. Bet you never thought of that one :P My ex husband was a complete idiot. He ranted and raved about the most stupid crap and never shut his mouth. He was hateful and mean toward everyone. So yeah, I LIVED on the computer or with my nose in a book - anywhere I could tune out his BS!!! Why doesn't she want to spend any time with you?
Which one are you talking to
wtfever

Lancaster, OH

#14 Nov 12, 2012
Do you make any effort to talk to her about her day? Do you take an active interest in anything she does? These could both be reasons.
Here's the one I'm gonna ask that might sound mean but it's an honest question and you don't have to answer us, just answer it yourself. When you say that she gets on facebook when she gets home from work is she the only one working? Because if she comes home from work and you've been there all day not working, she's probably looking to trade-up.
There's also the age old adage "if you think she's cheating she probably is."
Or it could just be there's nothing on television to watch and she really likes farmville.
hmm

Ashland, KY

#15 Nov 14, 2012
Have you checked out the possibility that she may be playing a turn-based game like Farmville? Within the game, if your timing is regular and fairly frequent, you can make bank. It is also a possibility that your wife is a gamer. I truly hope that is the case...if so: welcome.:)
hmm

Ashland, KY

#16 Nov 14, 2012
sorry, typos... minus the also.
Kentucky Girl

Greenup, KY

#18 Nov 16, 2012
I'm married & play on facebook alot. Its really nice to catch up w/old friends you haven't seen or heard from in years. But thats it. Is is addicting in a way, I guess. I really wouldn't take it personal though. Thats probably 'her thing'. But , I would plan things,just for the two of you. She may just be bored. Just cause your bored , doesn't mean she'll cheat. Just let her know you love her. Thats all we want to know.
Catwalk

Ashland, KY

#19 Nov 16, 2012
She likes it in all holes , there , I said it .
Kentucky Girl

Greenup, KY

#20 Nov 16, 2012
ur disgusting
wifey

Ardsley, NY

#21 Nov 16, 2012
I'm on face book, I don't get out much, it's no differant than someone setting on the phone talking, My face book is logged in on my husbands phone too. I have nothing to hide, just enjoy it
Thank you

Columbus, OH

#22 Nov 16, 2012
Very nicely said.
Kentucky Girl wrote:
I'm married & play on facebook alot. Its really nice to catch up w/old friends you haven't seen or heard from in years. But thats it. Is is addicting in a way, I guess. I really wouldn't take it personal though. Thats probably 'her thing'. But , I would plan things,just for the two of you. She may just be bored. Just cause your bored , doesn't mean she'll cheat. Just let her know you love her. Thats all we want to know.

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