what do i do
betrayed

Foristell, MO

#1 Jan 24, 2013
What do I do?Just found out my husband and my best friend had an affair but was a while back (from what i'm told). I love him but this is so crazy.. I need help!!!
soybaby

Steelville, MO

#2 Jan 24, 2013
betrayed wrote:
What do I do?Just found out my husband and my best friend had an affair but was a while back (from what i'm told). I love him but this is so crazy.. I need help!!!
You leave him or you go to therapy and accept the fact he either made a mistake or he may possibly do it again. Coming from a wife that did the second part, once a cheater always a cheater in some form or fashion. You have to accept it or move on. Sorry you have to go through w that.
jill

Brookfield, CT

#3 Jan 24, 2013
cut his balls off
Truely

Farmington, MO

#4 Jan 24, 2013
He will cheat again. I know, I am one.And I was probably with " soybaby's" husband. Lmao
betrayed

Argyle, MO

#5 Jan 24, 2013
I wish I could just make all of this disappear, esp for the kids. I also wish he would have chose some random stranger rather than who it is. If you cant trust your husband or your best friend, who can u trust?
soybaby

Steelville, MO

#6 Jan 24, 2013
Truely wrote:
He will cheat again. I know, I am one.And I was probably with " soybaby's" husband. Lmao
Doubtful, not from around here, just on here because I was looking for Missouri history sites, some topix do post those things.
soybaby

Steelville, MO

#7 Jan 24, 2013
betrayed wrote:
I wish I could just make all of this disappear, esp for the kids. I also wish he would have chose some random stranger rather than who it is. If you cant trust your husband or your best friend, who can u trust?
You trust yourself to step up and make the best decisions you can. You take care of the kids, and be as amicable as possible with the dad no matter what happens, it's not the kids' fault dad has issues.
local

Chesterfield, MO

#8 Jan 24, 2013
Have a threesome with them both. Make it rough. Enjoy it and own that shit. Show them whats up. You might not take my advice, but trust me you would have your answer when it's over.
betrayed

Argyle, MO

#9 Jan 25, 2013
local wrote:
Have a threesome with them both. Make it rough. Enjoy it and own that shit. Show them whats up. You might not take my advice, but trust me you would have your answer when it's over.
There might be some truth to that... I just don't know if I'm strong enough to do that! I wanna beat her ass too bad!
Your Conscience

Chesterfield, MO

#10 Jan 25, 2013
Trust me, you are stronger then you could ever imagine. Everything you have ever been through made you who you are. Every experience created walls. Once you learn to tear down those walls and admit that you are you, not the person everyone else wants you to be. Anything is possible.
betrayed

Foristell, MO

#11 Jan 25, 2013
Your Conscience wrote:
Trust me, you are stronger then you could ever imagine. Everything you have ever been through made you who you are. Every experience created walls. Once you learn to tear down those walls and admit that you are you, not the person everyone else wants you to be. Anything is possible.
Thank you for your comment and you're right. Very well put.
Always real

Saint Louis, MO

#12 Jan 25, 2013
Your welcome.
Been there

United States

#13 Jan 25, 2013
First, take a deep breath, next take a step forward towards tomorrow, don't look back and keep walking to the future...
Yesterday is over, today doesn't matter and tomorrow is brand new...
The past is what it is... The past, don't go back
The future is what is coming and that is what you want to look forward too
Don't do anything that will cause dismay in the eyes of your children and be the bigger person, it's surprising on how much that works.
Live life with no regrets, only living experiences and life lessons
hmmmm

Kennett, MO

#14 Mar 10, 2013
Is this Monique? I know that Dale Browers cheated on you with your best friend so thats why I'm asking. It sure was nice to see the kids playing ball. You deserve better than that if it is but if not, everyone deserves better than that.

Since: Jan 13

United States

#15 Mar 10, 2013
Ever heard the country song I gotta ex ol man and and an ex best girlfriend! I think thats your best bet. In my opinion and I know first hand been there done that...you need to get rid of both. In most cases once a cheater always a cheater. Wash your hands of both and move on. Good luck!!
Jilted

Foristell, MO

#16 Mar 10, 2013
Lady,
You should be glad its a girlfriend. It could have been your brother or uncle.
Get the drift? LMAO

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