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wondering

Covington, VA

#1 Jan 14, 2014
Can anyone tell me why this guy creates so much drama in his life? I mean who really believes he's being stalked? And all the suicide threats for attention....Really? He's just an attention seeker. The best thing to do is ignore it. If you have kids out there running with him you need to get them away before they go on a downward spiral with him. Such a drama queen!! And so are his "followers" Get a life Toph and grow the hell up!!!

Since: Sep 13

Alexandria, VA

#2 Jan 15, 2014
wondering wrote:
Can anyone tell me why this guy creates so much drama in his life? I mean who really believes he's being stalked? And all the suicide threats for attention....Really? He's just an attention seeker. The best thing to do is ignore it. If you have kids out there running with him you need to get them away before they go on a downward spiral with him. Such a drama queen!! And so are his "followers" Get a life Toph and grow the hell up!!!
Oh come on is he really bothering you? Why not try the normal thing and, oh I don't know, f*cking ignore it?
1x3x1x2

Ashburn, VA

#3 Jan 15, 2014
His followers? That's cute.
jop

Alexandria, VA

#4 Jan 16, 2014
I like how you say the best thing to do is ignore it, yet here you are talking about it on a public forum. It doesn't affect your life so why concern yourself with it?

Since: Sep 13

Covington, VA

#5 Jan 16, 2014
jop wrote:
I like how you say the best thing to do is ignore it, yet here you are talking about it on a public forum. It doesn't affect your life so why concern yourself with it?
Because I consider him a friend, it's one thing to complain about something that doesn't physically bother you, but talking sh*t about one of my friends p*sses me off to no end.
Sims

Covington, VA

#6 Jan 16, 2014
Maybe he needs serious help?
wondering wrote:
Can anyone tell me why this guy creates so much drama in his life? I mean who really believes he's being stalked? And all the suicide threats for attention....Really? He's just an attention seeker. The best thing to do is ignore it. If you have kids out there running with him you need to get them away before they go on a downward spiral with him. Such a drama queen!! And so are his "followers" Get a life Toph and grow the hell up!!!
lol

Eagle Rock, VA

#7 Jan 16, 2014
whiny, suicidal, drug addict who influences children to do negative things
1x3x1x2

Ashburn, VA

#8 Jan 16, 2014
I've seen him around. He's one of those guys you have in every small town. The cliché mtv metal head. People like that are generally harmless, they're just annoying. I think saying he has "influence" or "followers" is a big exageration.
Sven

Sweden

#9 Jan 16, 2014
I've seen this guy's rants on facebook. He's harmless - even to himself. He's threatened to end it a million times and hasn't done it. So, I doubt he could influence or harm your children in anyway... unless getting them stoned and blackout drunk is harming them.
Sims

Covington, VA

#10 Jan 16, 2014
Sven wrote:
I've seen this guy's rants on facebook. He's harmless - even to himself. He's threatened to end it a million times and hasn't done it. So, I doubt he could influence or harm your children in anyway... unless getting them stoned and blackout drunk is harming them.
Getting them stoned and black out drunk is harming him. It's not his place to make that choice for other people's children. Sounds like he needs help more than critism, but first he needs to make the first unselfish decision and get away from children.
funny

Covington, VA

#11 Jan 16, 2014
You guys
obviously dont know topher. Hes definitely not a drug addict and even if he drinks hes of age which throws your arguement out the window. And until you get to know him or walk in his shoes maybe you should keep your nose out of it. Try respecting someones life instead of trying to make it a loving hell. Which by the way you failed horribly at.
Okf

Eagle Rock, VA

#12 Jan 17, 2014
funny wrote:
You guys
obviously dont know topher. Hes definitely not a drug addict and even if he drinks hes of age which throws your arguement out the window. And until you get to know him or walk in his shoes maybe you should keep your nose out of it. Try respecting someones life instead of trying to make it a loving hell. Which by the way you failed horribly at.
we don't need to try he's doing ok enough on his own
around

Midlothian, VA

#13 Jan 17, 2014
You are obviously in denial about your friend. He is an addict. He is a borderline alcoholic too. And the argument doesn't 'go out the window' if the argument is that he Is of age---and hanging out with teens. And getting them high, and getting them drunk. He is stuck in this mind set where he is still looking out at the world as if they are his peers, his friends. As if he is still a teen in his own mind, and I think he probably is. But, he isn't a teen. He is an adult. Whatever he 'will be' he already is. He grew up and just hasn't caught onto that fact yet. He's still running around like a kid, with kids, to do kid stuff. And he puts himself out there, so don't act like he has a right to privacy. If he wants privacy he needs to keep his self private. If he is going to put himself and his problems out for public viewing and discussion then that's what will happen. He just needs to grow up. If he wants to drink and use that's on him, but he needs to hang out with other adults while he does it. Contributing to the delinquency of a minor carries a Manditory sentance of 15 years. For each offence. That means if a kid is even in the same room while he "tokes" he goes to prison for 15 years. That's not trying to "make his life hell". That's giving him a wake up call. Because he is already a loser who will live and die working low paying jobs, living in crappy cheap apartments, eating crap and drinking crap. And that's kind of sad. But he doesn't need to follow the stereo type of poor white trash all the way down the drain and add felon to it. He doesn't have to be soooo damn standard issue and follow the role all the way. Maybe if he gets a few rude awakenings he could actually break character and instead of being such a tool actually make himself into more, into something. He was cool once, before he forgot to grow up.
funny wrote:
You guys
obviously dont know topher. Hes definitely not a drug addict and even if he drinks hes of age which throws your arguement out the window. And until you get to know him or walk in his shoes maybe you should keep your nose out of it. Try respecting someones life instead of trying to make it a loving hell. Which by the way you failed horribly at.
Sho(TheGrimHeape r)

Covington, VA

#14 Jan 17, 2014
around wrote:
<quoted text>You are obviously in denial about your friend. He is an addict. He is a borderline alcoholic too. And the argument doesn't 'go out the window' if the argument is that he Is of age---and hanging out with teens. And getting them high, and getting them drunk. He is stuck in this mind set where he is still looking out at the world as if they are his peers, his friends. As if he is still a teen in his own mind, and I think he probably is. But, he isn't a teen. He is an adult. Whatever he 'will be' he already is. He grew up and just hasn't caught onto that fact yet. He's still running around like a kid, with kids, to do kid stuff. And he puts himself out there, so don't act like he has a right to privacy. If he wants privacy he needs to keep his self private. If he is going to put himself and his problems out for public viewing and discussion then that's what will happen. He just needs to grow up. If he wants to drink and use that's on him, but he needs to hang out with other adults while he does it. Contributing to the delinquency of a minor carries a Manditory sentance of 15 years. For each offence. That means if a kid is even in the same room while he "tokes" he goes to prison for 15 years. That's not trying to "make his life hell". That's giving him a wake up call. Because he is already a loser who will live and die working low paying jobs, living in crappy cheap apartments, eating crap and drinking crap. And that's kind of sad. But he doesn't need to follow the stereo type of poor white trash all the way down the drain and add felon to it. He doesn't have to be soooo damn standard issue and follow the role all the way. Maybe if he gets a few rude awakenings he could actually break character and instead of being such a tool actually make himself into more, into something. He was cool once, before he forgot to grow up.
Well nonetheless, this is America, so you're argument is garbage, crunch, I'll add it to the heap. He's permitted to do whatever his heart desires, simple as that.
hmm

Eagle Rock, VA

#15 Jan 17, 2014
[QUOTE who="Sho(TheGrimHeaper) "]<quoted text>
Well nonetheless, this is America, so you're argument is garbage, crunch, I'll add it to the heap. He's permitted to do whatever his heart desires, simple as that.[/QUOTE]

Not if it's illegal.
around

Midlothian, VA

#16 Jan 17, 2014
[QUOTE who="Sho(TheGrimHeaper) "]<quoted text>
Well nonetheless, this is America, so you're argument is garbage, crunch, I'll add it to the heap. He's permitted to do whatever his heart desires, simple as that.[/QUOTE]
Bzzzz! Wrong again. This is america and we are premited to do certain things within a narrow and well defined spectrum of behavior. We can Not do many of these things if we are felons. We lose even those privileges we do have. We can not for instance- provide alcohol to minors, drive drunk, use substances deemed illegal, etc. If we do things like these then men with guns can kick our doors in, beat us, mace us, taze us, and drag us away to a cage and put their fingers in our a**holes.
What toph is doing often ends like that. In real life. And not just for him, for whoever is with him. So people who actually want what's best for him would try to make him understand where he stands and what he is heading for. Its not like I'm making anything up here. His picture is online with alcohol and teens, with drugs and paraphernalia.Its kind of depressing to watch people distroy their lives. He probably knows who I am, and he probably thinks I'm an a**hole because I don't hang with him anymore and avoid him now but I grew up. That's all. I'm an adult with adult friends. He should try it.
Sho(TheGrimHeape r)

Clairton, PA

#17 Jan 17, 2014
around wrote:
[QUOTE who="Sho(TheGrimHeaper) "]<quoted text>
Well nonetheless, this is America, so you're argument is garbage, crunch, I'll add it to the heap. He's permitted to do whatever his heart desires, simple as that."

Bzzzz! Wrong again. This is america and we are premited to do certain things within a narrow and well defined spectrum of behavior. We can Not do many of these things if we are felons. We lose even those privileges we do have. We can not for instance- provide alcohol to minors, drive drunk, use substances deemed illegal, etc. If we do things like these then men with guns can kick our doors in, beat us, mace us, taze us, and drag us away to a cage and put their fingers in our a**holes.
What toph is doing often ends like that. In real life. And not just for him, for whoever is with him. So people who actually want what's best for him would try to make him understand where he stands and what he is heading for. Its not like I'm making anything up here. His picture is online with alcohol and teens, with drugs and paraphernalia.Its kind of depressing to watch people distroy their lives. He probably knows who I am, and he probably thinks I'm an a**hole because I don't hang with him anymore and avoid him now but I grew up. That's all. I'm an adult with adult friends. He should try it.
You factoring hectopascal, regardless of the circumstances he can do whatever he wants. If he gets caught there will be repercussions but until then nothing. That's what it is to live in a free country.
around

Washington, DC

#18 Jan 17, 2014
Guess you're the kind of friend that sees someone standing on a ledge and says "he can do whatever he wants, its his choice" huh? Cause that's basically where Toph is. Nice friend. You going to write him in the jar too? Send his $50 every month for however long so he can get what he will def want/need while he's there? No. Your just a fair weather friend who will defend his "right" to throw his life away then be nowhere around once he's really in the sh*t. That's all he's got right now, fair weather friends and users, and the poor guy doesn't even realize it.
Your right about one thing. "Until then Nothing". He is a nothing, doing nothing, for no one. He works a nowhere job for nothing pay. He just barely exists at all, and for what? So he can play video games. So he can watch tv. So he can get drunk and high. A self serving and pointless existance, the life of a virus, the purpose to consume as much as he can before he is consumed himself. And then? Well, nothing of course.
around

Washington, DC

#19 Jan 17, 2014
If he is really doing what he Wants, then why is he depressed? If he is really with people who make him happy, why isn't he? See, that's where your whole point breaks down. "Its a free country and he can do whatever he wants (until he gets caught)" if he doesn't even enjoy a bit of it. Is That what he Wants? To be depressed and think about suicide? And if not, Why isn't he doing the things that Will make him happy? Could it be because he doesn't have the SUPPORT he needs from friends? Because the people he is hanging out with aren't pushing him toward happiness but holding him down? Maybe. He could be happy. Everyday. He just needs to change his life and friends out. Do something real with his days. With his life. Get away from people who think its just fine the way it is and find the passion of doing something he loves.
But what do I know? I'm just happy. And fulfilled. And doing something everyday. And I just want the same for him. But what do I know.
Sho(TheGrimHeape r)

Springfield, VA

#20 Jan 17, 2014
around wrote:
Guess you're the kind of friend that sees someone standing on a ledge and says "he can do whatever he wants, its his choice" huh? Cause that's basically where Toph is. Nice friend. You going to write him in the jar too? Send his $50 every month for however long so he can get what he will def want/need while he's there? No. Your just a fair weather friend who will defend his "right" to throw his life away then be nowhere around once he's really in the sh*t. That's all he's got right now, fair weather friends and users, and the poor guy doesn't even realize it.
Your right about one thing. "Until then Nothing". He is a nothing, doing nothing, for no one. He works a nowhere job for nothing pay. He just barely exists at all, and for what? So he can play video games. So he can watch tv. So he can get drunk and high. A self serving and pointless existance, the life of a virus, the purpose to consume as much as he can before he is consumed himself. And then? Well, nothing of course.
So zetta slow, you don't really think I'm a friend of his do you? You yoctograms are all the same. I'm just a free spirit supporting another.

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