Affairs in Work Place
MakesUWonder

Fairview, OK

#41 Oct 28, 2012
Hate seeing it wrote:
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When it is "in your face" it is hard to ignore...I get what you are saying tho, do you suggest someone confront these people? I have thought about just letting the two I work with know that people are talking and then just think no mind my own business...I guess it bothers me so much because I really like his wife and hate that he is doing her wrong and I think will regret his actions.
I think we as a society have accepted "mind my own business" far to long. Everyone tends to turn their backs and pretend nothing is going on then discuss it in gossip groups. No one wants to confront the people involved. When this happens exactly who are the guilty party? And when your friend asks "why didn't anyone say anything?" There is nothing wrong with confronting the other two either.
Hate seeing it

Kansas City, MO

#42 Oct 28, 2012
MakesUWonder wrote:
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I think we as a society have accepted "mind my own business" far to long. Everyone tends to turn their backs and pretend nothing is going on then discuss it in gossip groups. No one wants to confront the people involved. When this happens exactly who are the guilty party? And when your friend asks "why didn't anyone say anything?" There is nothing wrong with confronting the other two either.
I agree with you, I am just very nervous about doing it. So, do you suggest I say something to the cheaters or to my friend? You are right the entire school is gossiping about it and I am just as gulity I join in the gossip as well. I will try to get up the courage to say something instead of continuing to just gossip...but I ain't gonna lie I am very nervous about doing it.
worker

Coffeyville, KS

#43 Oct 28, 2012
Hate seeing it wrote:
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I agree with you, I am just very nervous about doing it. So, do you suggest I say something to the cheaters or to my friend? You are right the entire school is gossiping about it and I am just as gulity I join in the gossip as well. I will try to get up the courage to say something instead of continuing to just gossip...but I ain't gonna lie I am very nervous about doing it.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Sometimes that includes keeping your mouth shut.
MakesUWonder

Fairview, OK

#44 Oct 28, 2012
worker wrote:
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Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Sometimes that includes keeping your mouth shut.
Yeah, and back when people had morals they made sure the whole town knew who the adulturers were. They were punished by humility, looked down upon, something that I feel should be brought back into society. Then maybe, just maybe people would have a sense of guilt when they do wrong. People turn their backs way to often on way to many things. Then when someone tries to do the right thing they get called a shit stirrer or whatever else. But hey then again, maybe the person will get divorced, marry the person they were screwing around with and do the same thing all over again! OR maybe they will do it to eachother while everyone smiles and says oh hey well what did you expect??
sysco

Coffeyville, KS

#45 Oct 28, 2012
cheating happens at many locations that allow EVCO foods to serve their establishments.
true

United States

#46 Oct 29, 2012
MakesUWonder wrote:
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Yeah, and back when people had morals they made sure the whole town knew who the adulturers were. They were punished by humility, looked down upon, something that I feel should be brought back into society. Then maybe, just maybe people would have a sense of guilt when they do wrong. People turn their backs way to often on way to many things. Then when someone tries to do the right thing they get called a shit stirrer or whatever else. But hey then again, maybe the person will get divorced, marry the person they were screwing around with and do the same thing all over again! OR maybe they will do it to eachother while everyone smiles and says oh hey well what did you expect??
This is very true so many times these people that have had these affairs and broke up families just walk around with huge smiles on their faces because everyone acts like it is no big deal at all. Everyone is still so nice to them and pretends like nothing ever happened. I don't care if its your relationship or not this person has done their spouse and children wrong and they have no right to walk around acting like they have done nothing wrong. In today's society nobody owns up to what they have done and it is really sad.
Gutter

Wichita, KS

#47 Oct 29, 2012
The ones that do this need to crawl back in the gutter where they came from. AND most people agree with this if they are truthful.
Shadow Walker

Saint Louis, MO

#48 Oct 30, 2012
Dont get your honey where you make your money
Beaner

Coffeyville, KS

#49 Oct 30, 2012
true wrote:
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This is very true so many times these people that have had these affairs and broke up families just walk around with huge smiles on their faces because everyone acts like it is no big deal at all. Everyone is still so nice to them and pretends like nothing ever happened. I don't care if its your relationship or not this person has done their spouse and children wrong and they have no right to walk around acting like they have done nothing wrong. In today's society nobody owns up to what they have done and it is really sad.
Henry Hyde, Newt Gingrich, Arnold Sartzeneger, Bill O'Rielly, Jimmy Swaggert. Boy we all love them.
Hate seeing it

Kansas City, MO

#50 Oct 30, 2012
I decided to mind my own business...they will get caught and whatever will be will be. Karma is a bitch and they will get theirs. I do feel bad for both their families but, whether I say something or not they are going to find out eventually. I do work with these people I don't want to stir up problems for myself at work...that may sound selfish but, I like my job and enjoy going to work everyday and don't want to risk messing that up. I plan to steer clear of them and try not to get caught up in the gossip about them. Maybe if I ignore it, it will go away.
sad

United States

#52 Nov 8, 2012
These people that have these affairs have a lot of nerve though breaking up families and ruining everyone's lives including their own. Right now they may think that life seems great to them but it will come back to bite them in the a** someday no matter what they do or say.
loster

Independence, KS

#53 Nov 9, 2012
Gwiz wrote:
It has nothing to do with the place of employment. It has everything to do with the lack of a moral compass on the employees part.
Can't lack much more morale than what Standard is lacking right now... BTW who is banging there???
Matcor

United States

#54 Nov 9, 2012
The two Matcor employees that work in the office that had the affair and broke up two families definitely don't have any morals and are very selfish too. For Matcor to sit back and not do anything about it is pretty bad and really does make the company look bad.
Sounds like

United States

#55 Nov 9, 2012
Amanda is really bitter
Hate seeing it

Kansas City, MO

#56 Nov 10, 2012
worker wrote:
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Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Sometimes that includes keeping your mouth shut.
Yep...you are right! Not saying anything..eventually they will get what's coming to them. Just hope it doesn't destroy innocent bystanders!
Sounds like

United States

#57 Nov 10, 2012
Maybe this has nothing to do with Amanda and has everything to do with Rick and Megan!
D-no

United States

#58 Dec 4, 2012
Very confused, but, a very good subject.... I wondering what are Christians good for nowadays. Nothing I guess. One minute it's a spiritual warfare next it's off with their heads. Which is it gonna be. I'm so sick of this evil society. If Christians are to be like the Mesiah when will they recognize. Always criticizing someone else to try and cover up their own BS. The Mesiah went and helped people that was possessed by evil spirits and demons by casting them out. I have many issues that I deal with daily. But in no way do I try to hide it so that I won't get caught. I may try to be discreet with it but not disrespectful. But maybe this is what happens when you are being taught a false doctrine. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. My suggestion is go to one of the people that you think is doing wrong and straight up let them know what you are thinking politely. Then take it from there
happy horseshat

Coffeyville, KS

#62 Dec 7, 2012
Amazon is real bad. I worked with a lady last year she had a husband and like 4 kids at home. She worked days had a security guard on nites and a shipping guy on days she was screwing all the while her hubby was home with the kids. And the dude in shipping was messing with another girl on nites.
Cindy

Coffeyville, KS

#63 Dec 7, 2012
Sick of it wrote:
It is crazy how many affairs go on inside the work places here in Indy. It is also crazy that nothing is ever done to these people that have the affairs and break up families by the businesses.
MYOB, as Dear Abby or Ann Landers so wisely used to say and as I still say.
Stephen Stills

Coffeyville, KS

#65 Dec 7, 2012
happy horseshat wrote:
Amazon is real bad. I worked with a lady last year she had a husband and like 4 kids at home. She worked days had a security guard on nites and a shipping guy on days she was screwing all the while her hubby was home with the kids. And the dude in shipping was messing with another girl on nites.
If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with.

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