Where to meet decent guys?

Where to meet decent guys?

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Lovelorn

New York, NY

#1 Jun 29, 2013
I'm a nice, fairly pretty college-educated girl that just moved back to Ilion for awhile (I grew up here). It seems very welfarey these days and I'm just wondering are there literally any decent places to find men around here? Any bars that aren't also crackhouses?
College-educated

Stafford Springs, CT

#2 Jun 30, 2013
Welfarey. Hahahahahaa
Fact

Carthage, NY

#3 Jun 30, 2013
I am ight here no sarcasm :)
Me Too

United States

#5 Jul 1, 2013
I am a decent, college educated male with a good job and I wonder where to find a lady such as yourself!
JudenRaus

Hartford, CT

#6 Jul 4, 2013
Let me guess...fairly pretty college educated=overweight feminist dyke?
Want to know why such an amazing catch as yourself will die alone with your cats? Look in the mirror, most of your answers are there.
Ate Ball

New York, NY

#7 Jul 6, 2013
Sorry nice guys finish last.
valley resident

New York, NY

#8 Jul 6, 2013
Lovelorn wrote:
I'm a nice, fairly pretty college-educated girl that just moved back to Ilion for awhile (I grew up here). It seems very welfarey these days and I'm just wondering are there literally any decent places to find men around here? Any bars that aren't also crackhouses?
Side Street and Belly Up are the best bars around here.
Reality check

Ilion, NY

#9 Jul 6, 2013
Lovelorn wrote:
I'm a nice, fairly pretty college-educated girl that just moved back to Ilion for awhile (I grew up here). It seems very welfarey these days and I'm just wondering are there literally any decent places to find men around here? Any bars that aren't also crackhouses?
well we can only hope you meet a College Educated guy, working it your place of employment that hires College Educated people! I didn't see college types in those places. Try Tom Cavallos place on Genessee St. Thirtys crowd, smartly dressed. Good luck....it's a wasteland out there.
Mohawk Valley Diva

Syracuse, NY

#10 Jul 10, 2013
You'll have to cast your net farther out, like Syracuse, Albany, etc. The valley is a wasteland for decent singles of ANY age...All the good ones truly are taken...

Not all women who are without someone are fat, ugly or stupid...In fact, all the fat, ugly and stupid ones seem to be taken around here. No, there are those of us who are PICKY and won't be with just anyone for the sake of being with someone.

Incidentally, I prefer my cat's company to most of the people in the valley...at least HE has a pedigree...
Valley Girl

New York, NY

#11 Jul 10, 2013
Spoken like a true superficial valley girl. Your opinion is so high you will never find what your looking for. Hate to break it to you honey no one is perfect. Not even you and most of the self serving arrogant "beautiful women" of central New York. That is why a good amount of the real successful guys from around here want nothing to do with the likes of people like you. Just continue to look for the a-holes and losers with the fast line. And after a few months you find out. Your nothing but a notch on his belt. Maybe those girls you consider inferior know how to care for their man. Instead of grading them by their bank accounts. I was just like you once when I was young I lost a man I really cared about with an attitude like yours. Turns out he became more successful than any of the others. Do not be stupid like I was. Stupid and arrogant are so unbecoming.
Resident

New York, NY

#12 Jul 10, 2013
You could try taking a class, join a club, golf league, church, volunteer at any organization. You'd meet people with similar interests and do some good too. Good luck to you.
Lovelorn x2

New York, NY

#13 Jul 14, 2013
To "Valley Girl" -

Not a single word in my first post related to the financial status of a man. I was asking where to find a guy around here without 15 illegitimate children and a drinking problem. A P.O.S. with a million dollars is still a P.O.S. A fellow educated, conservatively raised valley girl such as yourself should know very well how few educated, self-supporting men (under the age of 35, that don't live with mommy or off HUD/HEAP and food stamps) live around here. I'm sorry you lost the welfare man of your dreams, but don't imply what I asked was layered with income prejudices. I simply get tired of listening to nonstop boasts about bloated gun-cabinets and rants about unfair child support payments from every guy I meet around here.
Lucky

New York, NY

#14 Jul 14, 2013
My name is Lucky. I'm tall, with short hair. If you don't like me at first, I will grow on you. I only have one eye, and I spit sometimes. My two friends, Lefty and Righty are always with me, and you must love them as well. I enjoy long wet kisses and dark, moist areas. I have a nice personality, and will rub off on you.
Jama

Herkimer, NY

#15 Jul 20, 2013
Lovelorn wrote:
I'm a nice, fairly pretty college-educated girl that just moved back to Ilion for awhile (I grew up here). It seems very welfarey these days and I'm just wondering are there literally any decent places to find men around here? Any bars that aren't also crackhouses?
EXCUSE me they are called,"Welfarians," in Ilion!! LOL
Jama

Herkimer, NY

#16 Jul 20, 2013
Lucky wrote:
My name is Lucky. I'm tall, with short hair. If you don't like me at first, I will grow on you. I only have one eye, and I spit sometimes. My two friends, Lefty and Righty are always with me, and you must love them as well. I enjoy long wet kisses and dark, moist areas. I have a nice personality, and will rub off on you.
Alright Lucky---get Lucky!! Post it on Craig's list dude.
Cristobal Catalani

Ashburn, VA

#18 Sep 2, 2013
never thought i would find one that was totally free, they all usually ask you for a credit card, but this one didnt! i was able to chat and use every feature of the site for free, send and receive messages, check my flirts and even free video chat. you guy and girls should really check this one out! its definitely worth a look http://tinyurl.com/ldsxpkt
Uly

Herkimer, NY

#19 Sep 8, 2013
Lovelorn wrote:
I'm a nice, fairly pretty college-educated girl that just moved back to Ilion for awhile (I grew up here). It seems very welfarey these days and I'm just wondering are there literally any decent places to find men around here? Any bars that aren't also crackhouses?
Try JDS at last call. You go to Topix for advice with this---Really? LOL
Gotta B Kiddin

Washington, DC

#20 Oct 22, 2013
Go to Utica...Albany Cuse' but here...hmmmm
Sunshine Puppies

Utica, NY

#21 Nov 20, 2013
Ain't that the truth Gotta B Kiddin. I don't even know why I'm still living in this area.
Good Times

Syracuse, NY

#22 Nov 21, 2013
The last of the decent guys were in the post war generation... in other words, born before 1965.

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