this is a plea to the christian hard working people of Ider alabama. How would you feel if after working 2 jobs u and ur abusive husband seperated and u and ur 3 daughters went home to mom in cleveland just to have ur husband stalk ur work and home. then u have a car accident. your mother dies. grandfarther dies. and then your son commits suicide all in a 2 year time frfame. then u r strugglin for a moment just to have a " friend" ask u to come stay with her and your husband . not to worry everything is fine until u step into ider and a crooked lawyer and judge give primary custody to the child abuser and domestic violent man who choked u in front of ur children. only because i did not have 3000 to give to a lawyer on the spot. and after all that ur ex husband shuts his phone off cuz he knows u have no car and tells u that i cant talk to my children because i could not walk 250 miles every week and piggy back the children to visit their mother while my ex drives 2 vehicles did i mention for the whole 10 years we were married i worked 1 to 2 jobs and took care of his sisters brothers and his children and i have my hs diploma 3 years parenting classes and proof of domestic violencethat i endured and i went to school for hcoa and getting my associates degreefor computers. i endured a stroke last mayand the 10 yrs we were married he only worked 2 1/2 years. i am hoping that someone can explain that a child especially girls need their mother not someone who only lets them bathe once a week please find it in ur heart to let me see my children. through god all things are possible. amen. for bobbi and sky land hicks ur mommie i love you tanya marie sprague.