My boyfriend won't stop talking to his ex-wife

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BetterthanX

Lancaster, WI

#1 Mar 16, 2011
My bf and I have been dating for over a year. I want to take it to the next level with him, but he won't agree to engagement or just says "we might". His ex always calls and texts him and he acts all chummy with her. He says they just have a good friendship because of the kids. The ohter night he went out on the porch and stayed forever. I went out there and he was talking on his cell. He hung up quick and said he was saying good night to his kids. She has not dated anyone that I know of since they split. I'm wondering if this is typical behaviour for ex husbands and ex wives. When I got divorced from my husbands, I sure as hell didn't stay BFF's with them. Is this usually what happens? I'm worried and I want her out of his life. What should I do? Also, how can I get phone and text records?
Sammich

Lancaster, WI

#2 Mar 16, 2011
How long was they broke up before you got him? Are they divorced or seperated?
sounds 2 me

Manchester, KY

#3 Mar 16, 2011
sounds 2 me he still loves her and he's useing you for a peice of ass yep been there i loved mine too.
BetterthanX

Lancaster, WI

#4 Mar 16, 2011
Sammich wrote:
How long was they broke up before you got him? Are they divorced or seperated?
Well, truthfully, they were together when we got together but he told me they were unhappy and he wanted to leave her. And apparently he wants me or he wouldn't be with me. She got fat and didn't look attractive to him anymore and he wanted better. He said he filed for divorce in May 10 but I have not seen the divorce papers because he said she has it and he don't want to ask her for a copy. And why would he still love her? He's with me, living with me and he tells me all the time he loves me. How can I get phone records and text records? I'd love to know what she is trying to do and when I find out, she is going to be sorry. She lives in another town and his kids won't come to our house, he goes to see them at her house. He won't even make his kids (boy and girl) stay with us and I told him if he pays child support he could put her in jail for keeping them. He just says "she's a good person and I can't do that and if the kids don't want to come, I won't make them". I really need help here, not critism or judgement. I want that left over out of our life.
Mustnotbe

Lancaster, WI

#5 Mar 16, 2011
As good as his ex. Are you insane or just retarded? You can't get his cell records unless your are the owner of the phone, I'm thinking. And I bet my paycheck he is banging her everytime he goes over there, LOL. Karma baby, you don't mess with some woman's man and expect him to be faithful to you. I thought we'd discussed this before. Hire a Private Eye or stay clueless. I bet they aren't divorced.
goodn now

Manchester, KY

#6 Mar 16, 2011
back when i use to cat around i would tell all my strange peices that i loved them!
MuchbetterthanX

Lancaster, WI

#7 Mar 16, 2011
I own the cell you condesending big mouth. I'm not a homewrecker. He didn't want her anymore and found someone BETTER and left her fat a@@. So I'll go to AT&T and get MY phone records and when I find out she is trying to get him back I will reveal her name and post the messages on topix! She is lost weight and trying to look better lol. I will say it's too late to "try" to look good now. If he wanted anyone else but me he wouldn't be here. And there is no fing way he sleeps with her. No fing way.
Sammich

Lancaster, WI

#8 Mar 16, 2011
Oh my my sweetie pie. You own the cell phone and he's calling and texting her LMAO oh honey, he's using you so bad. Do you pay the bill? Please tell me you don't.
MuchbetterthanX

Lancaster, WI

#9 Mar 16, 2011
sounds 2 me wrote:
sounds 2 me he still loves her and he's useing you for a peice of ass yep been there i loved mine too.
If he loved her, would he not be with her? U are so wrong. He left, not her. He is with me, she has no one. She tells him anytime she gets asked out trying to make him jealous. He gives her advice on men and tells her the ones who ask are not good for her. He is trying to be her friend and she is using that to keep contact. Yo don't know me. She had a "minor" operation and had the nerve to call him and ask would he go to the store for her. And she lives 2 counties away. He went but it was because she was too lazy to go and he didn't want his kids to be without. She is the one with the problem, not me. and yes, I pay the cell bill what does it matter. He doesn't work presently because he lost his job about 5 months ago. All his unemployment and cash go to his children. He promised as soon as he finds a new job, he will help me pay OUR bills. I need advice, not judgement.
i luv pizza

Manchester, KY

#10 Mar 16, 2011
MuchbetterthanX wrote:
I own the cell you condesending big mouth. I'm not a homewrecker. He didn't want her anymore and found someone BETTER and left her fat a@@. So I'll go to AT&T and get MY phone records and when I find out she is trying to get him back I will reveal her name and post the messages on topix! She is lost weight and trying to look better lol. I will say it's too late to "try" to look good now. If he wanted anyone else but me he wouldn't be here. And there is no fing way he sleeps with her. No fing way.
youre retarded getting on here and talking stupid shit. now every one knows youre a homewrecker and a ==== as fred sanford would say YOU BIG DUMMY!
Mustnotbe

Lancaster, WI

#11 Mar 16, 2011
I was only gining input you asked for you freak. If you can't take advice, don't get on here and ask for it. I bet you are trying to cause problems with a someone who don't deserve it and you will finally give a name just to embarrass her and the family she is trying to raise while her husband is spoounging off a stupid whore. KNow what you are? A sugar momma.
MuchbetterthanX

Lancaster, WI

#12 Mar 16, 2011
I'm not retarded or a hore. I am the victim here. You dumb hillbillys are missing the point. When he got with me he was already unhappy. I let him tell me his toubles and we bonded. If is not using me, we didn't sleep together for 19 days. He said he respected me to much to sleep with me right off. When he wants to go see his KIDS I help him with gas and I even called her and asked if I could buy the kids school clothes. She smarted off to me and said "I don't need you're charity". SHE is the one who is retarded and all you Leslie counthy hicks too. He was lucky when he left and got out of your little hick town. Get an fing life. He's moved up in the world now. He is 2 county away from Leslie co bumed f'd egipt.
krzy

Manchester, KY

#13 Mar 16, 2011
MuchbetterthanX wrote:
<quoted text>If he loved her, would he not be with her? U are so wrong. He left, not her. He is with me, she has no one. She tells him anytime she gets asked out trying to make him jealous. He gives her advice on men and tells her the ones who ask are not good for her. He is trying to be her friend and she is using that to keep contact. Yo don't know me. She had a "minor" operation and had the nerve to call him and ask would he go to the store for her. And she lives 2 counties away. He went but it was because she was too lazy to go and he didn't want his kids to be without. She is the one with the problem, not me. and yes, I pay the cell bill what does it matter. He doesn't work presently because he lost his job about 5 months ago. All his unemployment and cash go to his children. He promised as soon as he finds a new job, he will help me pay OUR bills. I need advice, not judgement.
youre such a dumbass are you blonde haired im thinking i know ya.
MuchbetterthanX

Lancaster, WI

#14 Mar 16, 2011
oh go eat your pizza Lamont. I am 47 year old. I think I can tell when i'm getting palyed.
Crazy

Harpursville, NY

#15 Mar 16, 2011
You want him out of your life? Thank again sweetheart! This want never happen, as long as he's a good father, she will always be in his life. When it comes to "men" dont never say he would not do that to me!!!!!! Just remember one BIG thing if you took him, you can bet someone else can too. As far as getting the phone records are concerned, sounds like you dont trust him, trust is the number one thing in a relationship. It comes before love, and sounds like you are in for a big let down if you dont already know this. I'm not being mean I'm just stating most all relationships number one fault. NO TRUST!!!! When it's not there or is gone you might as well pack you bags and leave, because there's no getting it back. Sorry sweetie!
Sammich

Lancaster, WI

#16 Mar 16, 2011
So lemme get u staight. You are 2 counties away and you say he's moved up? LMFAO. So you either took him to Jackson, London, Pineville. LMFAO, wow, your sure are citified. I bet you got all yer teef an everthang. Listen bitch, I was trying to be nice to you but if you've messed with a Leslie County girl, you better learn Karate cause if she ever gets mad enough your citified arse will be hurting. How dare you get on HER town and try to start problems. why don't you post in jackson or london or Pineville where the smart people live. Us leslie county people don't like people like you you homewrecking whore.
yep yep

Manchester, KY

#17 Mar 16, 2011
47 yrear old home wrecker?????4910
Blowhard

Williston, SC

#18 Mar 16, 2011
He's lying to you. He's bangin her an the grocery store was just a "story" to get him out of the house. I'm betting you didn't go? He's playing u like a fiddle ! An don't get all offensive u asked 4opinions. I'm not gonna sugar coat it for ya. He's screwing her an they ain't divorced. Sorry sweetie kick him out an move on. If he was serious about u he wouldn't say maybe plus ge hung up when u went outside,.hello???
MuchbetterthanX

Lancaster, WI

#19 Mar 16, 2011
No LONDON IP address, I am not blonde and you don't know me. I might just put her name on here. Then I can find out what kind of person YOU Leslie County people think she it. She has a Facebook page and must lay on Facebook cause she comments all the time to all her friends. Shes not at all pretty. She was a fat a@@ who wishes she would have stayed skinny and kept her man. I am everyting she is not. He told me that and you all can go to hell.
Layla

Lancaster, WI

#20 Mar 16, 2011
U r 47? How old is he? Do you have kids at home? Just wondering. Where do you live then because you made it sound like you were from here and she lived away from Leslie. Where did he work when he got laid off? Answer this and it will help us understand the situation better. Thanks.

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