RIP Amy Matney Stacy
Sue Charles

Grundy, VA

#22 Feb 19, 2010
I meant LOSS...excuse my spelling.
Ashley Hensley

Grundy, VA

#23 Apr 1, 2010
Amy has been on my mind a lot lately, our kids are good friends, and as the sports season's progress I keep thinking about how she would have been right there with her kids if they chose to participate... I am coaching t-ball this year and if her youngest one decided to play with mine (I think he would have if he had the choice) I know she would have been right there helping me. I regret not being able to go to her funeral because of the snow.
Amy and I were friends and we talked often, although with both of us working we had not been able to talk much recently. I think about her often, and remember the last day that I talked to her, she seemed on top of the world. I have a friend that calls on occasion who sounds just like Amy on the phone, and it makes my heart hurt when I hear her voice, because for just a second, I think it is her.
I pray for the family, and for her children. I did not know her husband all that well, but he is in my prayers too. She has been on my mind a lot lately and I just wanted to let her family know they were still in my prayers.
Curious

Abingdon, VA

#24 Aug 14, 2010
Ethan Little wrote:
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If you have any questions on amy i am sure the family will be sure to tell you the whole thing that has actually went on with her. There is a lot more to the whole thing than what other's try to say or what they think they know.
What actually went on with her?
nobodyyouknow

Grundy, VA

#25 Aug 17, 2010
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nobodyyouknow

Grundy, VA

#26 Aug 17, 2010
from what people have said he drove her crazy said he was mean to her i dont know how someone like that can live with themselves
nobodyyouknow

Grundy, VA

#27 Aug 17, 2010
he ----> her husband
Some people

Abingdon, VA

#28 Aug 19, 2010
nobodyyouknow wrote:
he ----> her husband
People like to talk about things they really dont know. Mean to her...how was he mean to her, and how did he drive her 'crazy'? That's so funny, I know this family, and her husband is the most humble person I know! His mom and dad are Christian people too, who never have a bad thing to say about anyone and would give you the shirt off their backs if you needed it. I can't believe that people talk about them like this!!
Friend of the Family

Grundy, VA

#29 Aug 19, 2010
Some people wrote:
<quoted text>
People like to talk about things they really dont know. Mean to her...how was he mean to her, and how did he drive her 'crazy'? That's so funny, I know this family, and her husband is the most humble person I know! His mom and dad are Christian people too, who never have a bad thing to say about anyone and would give you the shirt off their backs if you needed it. I can't believe that people talk about them like this!!
What? You sure the hell dont know what your talking about. Seen the black eyes and other bruises on her. Took all the shit she could handle.Just ask the other side of the family. The matneys Know what she went through.
uthinkuknowbutud ont

Grundy, VA

#30 Aug 19, 2010
I THINK THEY SHOULD ARREST ALL OF THEM FOR MENTAL ABUSE. AND HOW DO YOU KNOW THE WHOLE STORY "SOME PEOPLE"? UNDER YOUR NAME IT STATES YOU ARE FROM LEBANON. COME TO HURLEY AND YOU WILL FIND OUT MORE THAN YOU THINK YOU KNOW.
also

AOL

#31 Aug 19, 2010
No one know what happens behind closed doors but I knew Amy and something drove her over the edge (if she did pass by her own hand which "I question myself" before anyone makes a big deal out of this it is just my feelings not anything that has been said) because she loved those kids and I can never see her leaving them in that way. Amy was sweet and nice An every time I walked up to her she greeted me with a smile. I miss you.
High School Friend

Waterloo, Canada

#32 Aug 22, 2010
I never knew she was having problems, every time I saw her out and about she had a smile on her face. I saw her and her husband together not long before her death and they seemed happy! If only she could have told someone or would have gotten some help with what she may have been struggling with. God bless her husband and those two little boys. I hope the Lord brings them all some peace some how.
crazy

Waterloo, Canada

#33 Sep 2, 2010
also wrote:
No one know what happens behind closed doors but I knew Amy and something drove her over the edge (if she did pass by her own hand which "I question myself" before anyone makes a big deal out of this it is just my feelings not anything that has been said) because she loved those kids and I can never see her leaving them in that way. Amy was sweet and nice An every time I walked up to her she greeted me with a smile. I miss you.
Why would there even be questions...I'm sure the situation was investigated fully! She died by her own hand! No one knows what she was thinking and we never will. Yes it is a sad situation but nothing is going to change what has happened. I can't imagine the loss and the sadness that this family feels even after all this time. Her sons and her husband are in my prayers still!
u dont know

United States

#34 Sep 4, 2010
she had to beg for every penny she got from her "humble" husband he would hand his check over to his daddy the "good" christian man and amy had to go ask for a check or money anytime she needed it and often was denied. she often said how everyone thought her father in law was a good man but no body knew how he did stuff. she started subbing at the caf. to make money she had to take that money to buy the kids stuff for that christmas her "humble" husband didn't want to give her any.

and far as not laying a hand on her, there are police reports and court records, he bruised her up really bad when the oldest baby was 8 weeks old and she left for a year, and i seen stuff after

and that "humble" husband and "good" christain parents sent that baby boy to K this year didn't go with him or anything, never took him to show him where his class was he was just standing in the hall way bawling his little eyes out, he didn't even know the name of what teacher he was supposed to be in we had to check. they didn't even care, drove the oldest one to bevins for a year, but couldn't even go with him on the first day of K in the town they live in

I am tired of everyone defending his family they gave her heck and made her life so rough, the father in law more than any. amy had no access to the money and was basically in a corner over stuff. i miss her and I am tired of people putting it all off on her. I will defend her if no one else will.
OKAY

Waterloo, Canada

#35 Sep 19, 2010
u dont know wrote:
she had to beg for every penny she got from her "humble" husband he would hand his check over to his daddy the "good" christian man and amy had to go ask for a check or money anytime she needed it and often was denied. she often said how everyone thought her father in law was a good man but no body knew how he did stuff. she started subbing at the caf. to make money she had to take that money to buy the kids stuff for that christmas her "humble" husband didn't want to give her any.
and far as not laying a hand on her, there are police reports and court records, he bruised her up really bad when the oldest baby was 8 weeks old and she left for a year, and i seen stuff after
and that "humble" husband and "good" christain parents sent that baby boy to K this year didn't go with him or anything, never took him to show him where his class was he was just standing in the hall way bawling his little eyes out, he didn't even know the name of what teacher he was supposed to be in we had to check. they didn't even care, drove the oldest one to bevins for a year, but couldn't even go with him on the first day of K in the town they live in
I am tired of everyone defending his family they gave her heck and made her life so rough, the father in law more than any. amy had no access to the money and was basically in a corner over stuff. i miss her and I am tired of people putting it all off on her. I will defend her if no one else will.
First of all the Stacy family are good christian people! If we are gonna do this then let's lay out a few more facts, shall we?
The hubby did hand over the check book to his dad but only after she couldn't be trusted with the check book. Numerous over drafts, bill not being paid, checks being wriitten and hidden inside of books and even in the Bible! She ran him in dept with credit cards almost 25000 dollars! That is when she left, and to correct you she left when the youngest son was 8 weeks old. Not the oldest as was said but it was due to her being irresponsible with money, not abuse!
Maybe you should ask about all the credit card bills and the fraudulant names she was using and the bill collectors calling for people that don't even exist.
Also, she and her husband went together Christmas shopping and bought the boys all kinds, including a Wii with numerous games, and
All kinds of clothes and things!
Second, her husband didn't not abuse her the way it is being said, her was holding her so she would calm down because she was going off on one of her tyrants! Yet again!
As far as the baby going to Kindergarten alone...that's def BS because he took him to meet the teacher and the baby will tell you himself that's a big ole lie because it never happened!
I'm sick of all the sainthood that is being put on Amy! Maybe the people that are talking this crap need to ask the kids about what they went thru, and get the story straight for a change! Otherwise this needs to stop! She's gone, let her rest in peace and leave Her husband and those babies alone to live in some peace!
stupid people

Grundy, VA

#36 Sep 20, 2010
i knew them well and i think he killed her. he was a prick to her in way's that you have no idea.him his sis his mom and dad should be in jail for murder.
wow

Waterloo, Canada

#37 Sep 20, 2010
Um...I would say that is a big jump if I do say so! Tell us all why each one of them should be tried for anything?
JUDGEMENT DAY

Grundy, VA

#38 Sep 22, 2010
[QUOTE whand as far as ho="wow"]Um...I would say that is a big jump if I do say so! Tell us all why each one of them should be tried for anything?
[/QUOTE]that low life stacy family will go to hell they are nothing and i dont care who likes it...jeff has always been a smart ass he needed help in school..and as far as his mom and dad they hide their meaness behind the church and yell i live on brushy and i know so dont say it isnt true Amy is a good person and her family are good people...they will get justice for her death on judgement day....words will drive you to kill yourself and she was talked to like she was trash under their feet..and if they can go to bed and sleep they are cold hearted and they show their true colors..yellow right down the back....
wow

Waterloo, Canada

#39 Sep 22, 2010
JUDGEMENT DAY wrote:
<quoted text>that low life stacy family will go to hell they are nothing and i dont care who likes it...jeff has always been a smart ass he needed help in school..and as far as his mom and dad they hide their meaness behind the church and yell i live on brushy and i know so dont say it isnt true Amy is a good person and her family are good people...they will get justice for her death on judgement day....words will drive you to kill yourself and she was talked to like she was trash under their feet..and if they can go to bed and sleep they are cold hearted and they show their true colors..yellow right down the back....
If you live on Brushy then you should just let everyone know who you are then...you have to be old enough to have went to school with Jeff? So that narrows it down too. I'm sick of all of this crap! Its never ending!
Ethan Little

Wise, VA

#40 Sep 27, 2010
Everyone noes and goes on about all of this. The whole family has had encounters with Amy since she has passed, me recently i had a dream with her in it, i have saw her doing everyday things. I am just speaking from the families part on both sides let this die down please. It is doing nothing but bringing an up roar on both sides. We both get the blame for wat is being said on this by each other. PLEASE LET THISE DIE DOWN. It is hard enough for us all to deal with a death among us, but this has gotten out of hand.
Thank you, Amy's nephew
May God Bless You

Waterloo, Canada

#41 Sep 30, 2010
For these two families to have lost some one dear to them, they sure is a lot of Turmoil and blame placed on each of them! Amy was a nice person but no one knows what she was thinking when she committed suicide. There have been a lot of things said whether true or not, but these two families need to grieve for her passing. Anger is a part of that grieving process! May God Bless you All!

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