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justin

Huntington, WV

#42 Aug 24, 2012
My son does not respond to be spanked timeout works for him, however my daughter responds to being spanked better than timeout. So really depends on child. Before you start with the crap there is a difference between being spanked and child abuse.
yearight

United States

#43 Aug 24, 2012
princess_momma wrote:
I believe in punishment....this is what I do with my child....If he runs through the house after telling him not to run, I smack his hand....when I put him to bed, if he cries and cries, I go in to his room, tell him thats enough, he needs to go to sleep. I leave, he cries again I go in there and ask him if he wants me to spank his butt he says no, I leave...when and if he does it a third time, I spank his little butt...there is nothing wrong with that...if they are misbehaving in public....take them to the bathroom stall and smack there butt after telling them to stop whatever they are doing...I got spanked with a belt when I was a child, and at the time I was hurt...I was always told WHY I was being spanked....it didnt humiliate me...I understand why my dad did it and I am glad he did...I will punish my child however I see fit...I am a single mother, and I will be my sons friend, but I will be his mother first....I wont beat him, thats wrong and def not the way to do it...but if he needs his hand or his butt smacked, I will do it and I will tell him WHY i did it...I also stand him in time out....
in other words, you hit your kids all the time. what a good mother you must be. are you sitting drinking your mountain dew and smoking a cigarette? whatever and whoever you are, you are scaring your children. kids like yours will learn to live in fear of you and that is what you ultimately want. power play, that is all it is.
pa to the pa papa

Huntington, WV

#44 Aug 24, 2012
Statistics is not something you want to bring into this. Time and time again it has been showen that children should be raised to there surroundings,so you
start whith society in hole. All countries all over the world you are governed(herded) that if you do harm to some one you have harm done to you. There for if your child hurts someone or something spank them. If your child steals something take something that belongs to them and so on an so on.(3.1 Judaism)
So you ask why I said don't bring statistics into this.
Society is based on if your hurt you get hurt, a person hits a police officer he will get hit back a country attacks another country they will get attacked back. so to say you think we should change our method of punishment for our children is ludicris, until you change the world then dont raise your children to live in a world that doesn't exists.
dont agree

United States

#45 Aug 24, 2012
justin wrote:
My son does not respond to be spanked timeout works for him, however my daughter responds to being spanked better than timeout. So really depends on child. Before you start with the crap there is a difference between being spanked and child abuse.
why do you call it crap? see, all of this is just crap right. no, sorry is the most important lesson an adult can learn.
abuse is abuse. go ahead and spank, whoop as it is called, awful terminology, what ever. you will be sorry.
typical

United States

#46 Aug 24, 2012
meagain wrote:
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and you are the kind of person who cant read, comprehend, or much less have any compassion in you. i can tell by your anger. see how angry this mess got you? no control at all. i cant imagine how you take out your anger on your kids?
let me see, how long will they be on medication or in jail to control their anger that their parents have taught them? not long i can tell you that. grow up and quit torturing your kids
look who is taking up for the children and look who is advocating (look up the meaning, lol) hitting children.

why do you think CPS was founded in the first place idiot?
people like you. that is why. go find a kid to hit, maybe you will feel like a superior human being.
cps says

United States

#47 Aug 24, 2012
Actually cps is not against spanking a child. Call them ask them. Beating and spanking them on butt is two different things at least in their book it is. Parents are allowed to spank a child.

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Since: Dec 08

Barboursville

#48 Aug 24, 2012
Stop the madness2 wrote:
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Alot of words...as was said, there is a difference between BEATING and Whopping, and just because I bust my kids but, don't mean I don't love my kids. You are way to judgmental with all the words you just wrote down. My boy, 12 just last night came in from his friends house 3 hours late, he knew better but decided he didn't want to listen. I met him at the door with a paddle and yes, I busted his ass. He knew he did wrong, and he also knows I love him. You are the pathetice one to think just because we bust our kids a$$ that we don't love them, that is just ignorance talking amongst all the words! I WAS BEAT, and not with a paddle, with a belt, broom handle, shoe, fist...or what ever was closest. Busting my boy's a$$ with a paddle, THAT IS NOT BEATING! So take all you're pathetic words and go judge other people, people who do beath their kids!
Oh, I get it. Instead of raising your child with a deep sense of right from wrong (which takes more time and ingenuity than spanking them) you have taught him that if you want to do something badly enough then the crime is worth the punishment. He clearly stayed late knowing you were going to whip him when he got home. So, tell me again, how is that kind of parenting working out for you.

Level 3

Since: Dec 08

Barboursville

#49 Aug 24, 2012
princess_momma wrote:
I believe in punishment....this is what I do with my child....If he runs through the house after telling him not to run, I smack his hand....when I put him to bed, if he cries and cries, I go in to his room, tell him thats enough, he needs to go to sleep. I leave, he cries again I go in there and ask him if he wants me to spank his butt he says no, I leave...when and if he does it a third time, I spank his little butt...there is nothing wrong with that...if they are misbehaving in public....take them to the bathroom stall and smack there butt after telling them to stop whatever they are doing...I got spanked with a belt when I was a child, and at the time I was hurt...I was always told WHY I was being spanked....it didnt humiliate me...I understand why my dad did it and I am glad he did...I will punish my child however I see fit...I am a single mother, and I will be my sons friend, but I will be his mother first....I wont beat him, thats wrong and def not the way to do it...but if he needs his hand or his butt smacked, I will do it and I will tell him WHY i did it...I also stand him in time out....
So the last thing your child remembers before going to sleep is that his princess_mommy spanked him. You know, I have gone to sleep at night when I am sad and it is not a good feeling. You could have achieved the same result with your putting to bed ritual minus the whipping.

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Since: Mar 12

New York, NY

#50 Aug 24, 2012
meagain wrote:
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and you are the kind of person who cant read, comprehend, or much less have any compassion in you. i can tell by your anger. see how angry this mess got you? no control at all. i cant imagine how you take out your anger on your kids?
let me see, how long will they be on medication or in jail to control their anger that their parents have taught them? not long i can tell you that. grow up and quit torturing your kids
No, actually all of what you said is the complete opposite but see if you knew me you would know that! Anger and angry who in the hell said I am or was angry? Where did you get that? Can't someone say something without being angry? And as for my babies..if infact I have any (which is none of your business) I would never punish them being "Angry" or in the heat of a moment. That's that!

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Since: Mar 12

Charleston, WV

#51 Aug 24, 2012
justin wrote:
My son does not respond to be spanked timeout works for him, however my daughter responds to being spanked better than timeout. So really depends on child. Before you start with the crap there is a difference between being spanked and child abuse.
I agree completely!

Level 1

Since: Mar 12

Charleston, WV

#52 Aug 24, 2012
cps says wrote:
Actually cps is not against spanking a child. Call them ask them. Beating and spanking them on butt is two different things at least in their book it is. Parents are allowed to spank a child.
Exactly, I completely agree! You don't have to beat your kids but you do have to instill morals and values..sometimes that means you have to discipline your children whatever way "works" best for them.

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Since: Sep 10

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#53 Aug 24, 2012
For your information I dont spank my child all the time....he does real good not running through the house. and when I do put him to bed, he actually goes to bed....very seldom do I have to spank him. Who are you to assume I do this stuff??? My child is not scared of me. He loves me more then anything and I love him more then anything in the world. I show it every day all day.(when I am not at work) when I pick him up from daycare I spend every waking moment with him. We watch movies, and I read to him. We play outside where he can run all he wants. Why would you say I must "hit" my kid all the time??? there is a BIG diffrence between hitting and spanking....spanking is teaching the child disipline ONLY when he needs it and telling him WHY he is being spanked...Hitting is what cowards do just for the hell of it. Another thing...I dont drink Mt. Dew...I drink Dr. Pepper...and I don't smoke nor allow it around my child. My child right now is laughing and playing and we are watching something on Babyfirst TV...after this he will finish eating...then I will eat...after he is done and I am done, I will read to him...we will watch a movie, I will give him a bath...put him to bed, read him a bed time story, and he will go to bed. So again....I have NEVER HIT my child, nor will I EVER HIT my child...
yearight wrote:
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in other words, you hit your kids all the time. what a good mother you must be. are you sitting drinking your mountain dew and smoking a cigarette? whatever and whoever you are, you are scaring your children. kids like yours will learn to live in fear of you and that is what you ultimately want. power play, that is all it is.

Level 1

Since: Sep 10

Location hidden

#54 Aug 24, 2012
No that's not the last thing he remembers...the last thing he remembers is me reading him a bedtime book, telling him I love him and giving him lots of kisses...I havnt had to spank him in months...he knows when I say its time for bed, its not time to play, that it is time for bed. All I have to do is ask him..do You want a spanking? He says no, I then tell him to go to sleep...tell him I love him , he tells me the same and goes to sleep....Thankyou very much.
wvcinder wrote:
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So the last thing your child remembers before going to sleep is that his princess_mommy spanked him. You know, I have gone to sleep at night when I am sad and it is not a good feeling. You could have achieved the same result with your putting to bed ritual minus the whipping.

“These are the good old days.”

Level 4

Since: Mar 12

Location hidden

#55 Aug 24, 2012
mimi wrote:
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now that quote has gotte alot of kids beaten and abused severely int he name of God. People just love to use that quote from the bible to beat on their kids. i agree with the other person who wrote that long message--people love to beat their kids, they get off on it. awful. its abuse and you cant get around it.
ignorance and stupidity. it takes a brain and energy to deal with kids, not the rod.
Stupid is as stupid does. The ones doing that would beat their kids anyways.
Clancy

Chesapeake, VA

#56 Aug 24, 2012
whoopins wrote:
Whoopins are good for kids. I got plenty of them. Kept me straight. And today its keeping my son straigt but because he knows he will get his butt spanked he rarely needs one. I jave an awesome kid. Polite consoderate loving and eats his veggies too. But I also have a wonerful man who.has stepped up to father him that makes a big difference for me anyway. Doing it alone was very hard but God answered my prayers.
I'm glad all them thar butt whoopins made a perfect parent out of you! And I know all them thar but whoopins is gonna make a good youngun out of that thar son of yourn. Now you make him eat his veggies, beans, taters, and cabbage cause that will put big ole muscles on that thar boy and when he gats married and have a boy then he will be ready to put sum whoop as on his son, then Gramps and Granny will have them a big ole gran boy that will start the butt whoopin cycle all over again. Yuall will be remembered as the family that whooped up on your kids.
whoopins

United States

#57 Aug 25, 2012
Clancy wrote:
<quoted text>I'm glad all them thar butt whoopins made a perfect parent out of you! And I know all them thar but whoopins is gonna make a good youngun out of that thar son of yourn. Now you make him eat his veggies, beans, taters, and cabbage cause that will put big ole muscles on that thar boy and when he gats married and have a boy then he will be ready to put sum whoop as on his son, then Gramps and Granny will have them a big ole gran boy that will start the butt whoopin cycle all over again. Yuall will be remembered as the family that whooped up on your kids.
Yes siree. U come on up me holler and all my kin will give u a whoooopin too! Make em rough n tough cuz this here world ain't daisies n tulips my friend.:)
big b

Huntington, WV

#58 Aug 25, 2012
whoopins wrote:
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Yes siree. U come on up me holler and all my kin will give u a whoooopin too! Make em rough n tough cuz this here world ain't daisies n tulips my friend.:)
you mean a violent person who has no communication skills and deals with every thing with there fists just what the world needs another wantabee bad ass .
i know

United States

#59 Aug 26, 2012
big b wrote:
<quoted text>you mean a violent person who has no communication skills and deals with every thing with there fists just what the world needs another wantabee bad ass .
It's wannabe. Ex- U are a wannabe, wigger! Ex2- I am an educated wannabe bad @$$!

Correct punctuation is important. Are you refering to a violent individual who has anti-social disorder and anger issues? The world doesn't need anymore of those. We are in enough trouble as it is, with Obama as president.
There you have it. I have made your simple statement look a little more refined and upgraded you to high school graduate! You are very welcome!
ignorant still is pleny

United States

#60 Aug 27, 2012
Clancy wrote:
<quoted text>I'm glad all them thar butt whoopins made a perfect parent out of you! And I know all them thar but whoopins is gonna make a good youngun out of that thar son of yourn. Now you make him eat his veggies, beans, taters, and cabbage cause that will put big ole muscles on that thar boy and when he gats married and have a boy then he will be ready to put sum whoop as on his son, then Gramps and Granny will have them a big ole gran boy that will start the butt whoopin cycle all over again. Yuall will be remembered as the family that whooped up on your kids.
and you are exactly what is wrong with this world, ignorant, stupid, pathetic, and wanting the cycle of abuse to stay strong. millions of dollars are spent of the tax payers money trying education you illiterate morans each year, but sub humans like you just cant stand to be educated. well, you cant be educated. there are generations and generations like you, beat, spank, belt whipping, hit, humuliate, good ole boy mentality. you should be put in jail. someone one of your offspring (that means children) will be jailed. i am sure.

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