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low drive wife

Greensburg, PA

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Aug 4, 2013
 
I feel like I could go without it forever. I'm not depressed or out of shape. I'm just never in the mood anymore. I'm only 39 I do have kids. I feel like I'm cheating my husband out of happiness but I just don't have the urges anymore. Am I alone?
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Charleston, WV

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#2
Aug 4, 2013
 
Have u had your estrogen and hormone levels checked? My aunt went through a similar situation with her husband. She went to the Dr. Only to find out her levels were low. Honestly it may be something small, a doctors visit couldn't hurt. Good luck
Jerry

Chesapeake, VA

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Aug 4, 2013
 
low drive wife wrote:
I feel like I could go without it forever. I'm not depressed or out of shape. I'm just never in the mood anymore. I'm only 39 I do have kids. I feel like I'm cheating my husband out of happiness but I just don't have the urges anymore. Am I alone?
I don't think your old man cares, he is tapping somone one on the side and don't you think for a minute that he isn't. I know if my wife wasn't enjoying sex with me that is exactly what I would do.
I am married

Saint Albans, WV

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Aug 4, 2013
 
low drive wife wrote:
I feel like I could go without it forever. I'm not depressed or out of shape. I'm just never in the mood anymore. I'm only 39 I do have kids. I feel like I'm cheating my husband out of happiness but I just don't have the urges anymore. Am I alone?
My wife is like you. I am sorry but I look at other women all the time wondering what it would be like to be "with" them. I am afraid I am going to stray. Keep that in mind and it'd be better for you to fake it with your husband before he strays. True story.
shawn

Oak Hill, WV

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Aug 4, 2013
 
low drive wife wrote:
I feel like I could go without it forever. I'm not depressed or out of shape. I'm just never in the mood anymore. I'm only 39 I do have kids. I feel like I'm cheating my husband out of happiness but I just don't have the urges anymore. Am I alone?
I am 40 year old white male. Average build and height. I do the 24 hour fitness three times per week. I have normal blood work, good physical condition.

I have virtually no interest in sex anymore. I am single and not dating at the time. I work full time plus. I have hobbies and recreation. I am of course a straight man. I find women attractive and every now and then one will catch my eye. I believe I could go quite a long time without being interested in sex.

To give you an idea, last time I had sex was approximately a year or so ago.

It rarely crosses my mind anymore. I probably don't even notice women flirting anymore. I am a home security technician and I am sure I pass up a lot of opportunities for a relationship.
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light eyes

Houston, TX

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Aug 4, 2013
 
Jerry wrote:
<quoted text>I don't think your old man cares, he is tapping somone one on the side and don't you think for a minute that he isn't. I know if my wife wasn't enjoying sex with me that is exactly what I would do.
Is this all you men think about? Wow.
light eyes

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Aug 4, 2013
 

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low drive wife wrote:
I feel like I could go without it forever. I'm not depressed or out of shape. I'm just never in the mood anymore. I'm only 39 I do have kids. I feel like I'm cheating my husband out of happiness but I just don't have the urges anymore. Am I alone?
Sorry gf. I am with you. I think it is our husbands fault honestly. They need to bring more flowers, do date nights, clean the house, help with the kids, and make us feel pampered once in a while. No effort from them them = no effort from us :)
Aggie

Charleston, WV

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#9
Aug 4, 2013
 
No, you are not alone. The majority of women get tired of sex. I told my husband that although I loved Snickers bars, if I ate one every night of the week, for years, I would get tired of them, too.

If your marriage is good, you love your husband, and he is good to you, it is best, as someone else said, to fake it.
Z-phod

Marietta, GA

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#10
Aug 4, 2013
 
buy a vibrator.
eco diver

Ford City, PA

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#11
Aug 4, 2013
 
Dear married women...don't get upset when your man cheats if you don't play around with him. Men are sexua1 beings and it's a basic need for a man. It's also your duty as a wife to keep your man satisfied.
nympho

Charleston, WV

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Aug 4, 2013
 
eco diver wrote:
Dear married women...don't get upset when your man cheats if you don't play around with him. Men are sexua1 beings and it's a basic need for a man. It's also your duty as a wife to keep your man satisfied.
Lol
Lycan

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Aug 4, 2013
 

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low drive wife wrote:
I feel like I could go without it forever. I'm not depressed or out of shape. I'm just never in the mood anymore. I feel like I'm cheating my husband out of happiness but I just don't have the urges anymore. Am I alone?
You a horrible spouse. Not for the lack of sex, but because you believe "you" have to be in the mood for "him".
So if you`re not in the mood to cook, your kids go hungry?
A good man will support his wife, say for example if she was crippled in an accident and couldn`t physically have sex or enjoy it. But the very notion you`re "not" in the mood so he has to go without is a horrible, horrible, horible, view on marriage.
And this also goes for husbands and thier duty as well.
But perhaps you would understand more if your husband wasn`t in the mood to come home to you anymore.
Derper

Huntington, WV

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#14
Aug 4, 2013
 
Do any of you think that there is such a thing as being asexual? No interest in sex at all, with anyone?
Lycan

Quincy, MI

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Aug 4, 2013
 
light eyes wrote:
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Sorry gf. I am with you. I think it is our husbands fault honestly. They need to bring more flowers, do date nights, clean the house, help with the kids, and make us feel pampered once in a while. No effort from them them = no effort from us :)
I can agree with that, up untill people start treating marital duty such as house hold chores, helping, sex etc as a weapon. Men or women.
But seriously, a woman holding out sex for a purpose shows her worth in a relationship.
Tudors Biscuits

Saint Albans, WV

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Aug 4, 2013
 
eco diver wrote:
Dear married women...don't get upset when your man cheats if you don't play around with him. Men are sexua1 beings and it's a basic need for a man. It's also your duty as a wife to keep your man satisfied.
Agreed, then the females complain when a spouse steps out on them. Makes no sense to me.
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Aug 4, 2013
 
low drive wife wrote:
I feel like I could go without it forever. I'm not depressed or out of shape. I'm just never in the mood anymore. I'm only 39 I do have kids. I feel like I'm cheating my husband out of happiness but I just don't have the urges anymore. Am I alone?
No you are not alone. I am similar in age to you and I could care less about having intimate relations with my husband. I just do not have the energy after taking care of the kids, work, shopping, etc. It wears a person down.
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#18
Aug 4, 2013
 
I am forty something man. I started using testosterone treatment (prescription). It is expensive ($100 a week) but it works. I agree with get blood levels checked.
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Huntington, WV

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Aug 4, 2013
 
hmmm wrote:
Have u had your estrogen and hormone levels checked? My aunt went through a similar situation with her husband. She went to the Dr. Only to find out her levels were low. Honestly it may be something small, a doctors visit couldn't hurt. Good luck
..Something small, you wish.
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Aug 4, 2013
 
low drive wife wrote:
I feel like I could go without it forever. I'm not depressed or out of shape. I'm just never in the mood anymore. I'm only 39 I do have kids. I feel like I'm cheating my husband out of happiness but I just don't have the urges anymore. Am I alone?
Even if u r not in the mood, u still need to play around with him!!
Like flirting and show that u r still into him and u love him! Tell him it may help if he gives u a rub down all over it will relax u and help u get in the mood!! If it's doesnt put u in the mood u need to satisfy him no matter if u r in the mood or not!!

Watch an adault film together and it may help and a lot of foreplay even if u r not in the mood!!
Just remember once u start if will just keep feeling better and better!!!

Been in this situation many of times but I always want to please my man who is good to me!! I don't want him to go out to get it from someone else!!!!!!
divorced

Greensburg, PA

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#21
Aug 5, 2013
 
Falling into a situation like this caused me to get divorced. My ex husband found someone he ended up liking more than me and he blamed it all on our lack of doing it. It's my fault.

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