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nurse holli

United States

#21 Sep 27, 2013
Wants to Be a Mommy Again wrote:
<quoted text> Yes, take note, young fellows. If a woman feels like she knows what she wants in life and you don't "fit the bill" then move on. I don't know exactly want I want in life. What I want now might be different than what I want later in life. Right now, I want a man I am attracted to and love and I would like to have another child someday before my biological time clock ticks out. If knowing what I want in life and working hard to get where I am makes me a selfish woman then so be it.
What do you do for a living making 50k?
Lycan

United States

#22 Sep 27, 2013
Wants to Be a Mommy
"I don't believe I have led him on in any way. I pay my own way when we go out and have been as honest to him from the very beginning"

lol! Sure.
So what makes him think you guys are (and have been) dating? Let alone makes him ask if you want to get married?

Wants to be a Mommy
"I don't think I've damaged his self esteem...."

I said he has low self esteem, I didn`t say you caused it. I said you just so happen to be there to tell him you can do better. Which is exactly what you`re doing.

Wants to be a Mommy
"I am college educated, make over $50,000 a year. I own my own house and I have a new vehicle to drive. I receive $1000 a month in child support as well....."

You sound like the perfect match for that 40 yr old loser cliche still wearing his letterman jacket from nineteen eighty-suck and driving a corvette or camero working at his dad`s dealership.
yep

Madison, WV

#23 Sep 27, 2013
Wants to Be a Mommy Again wrote:
<quoted text> Yes, take note, young fellows. If a woman feels like she knows what she wants in life and you don't "fit the bill" then move on. I don't know exactly want I want in life. What I want now might be different than what I want later in life. Right now, I want a man I am attracted to and love and I would like to have another child someday before my biological time clock ticks out. If knowing what I want in life and working hard to get where I am makes me a selfish woman then so be it.
Give it a rest. If you knew what you wanted, you wouldn't even be here asking for advice. As it is, you're seeing/dating/screwing some guy you're not attracted because you say he's a good guy and is good to your child, but have no idea how to proceed. I'd say it's more to do with the extra income he gives you, and you don't want to drop him before you've found his replacement.

At your age and appearance, you're not going to get an attractive, financially secure, decent man who will give you the time of day. Too much baggage and not enough reward, because there are better options than you based on what you've said. Honestly, what is in it for him, your charming demeanor? Besides, your values themselves are suspect, being that you've strung along what you call a good man for 10 months to the point he proposed, yet here you are looking for justification to ditch him. But you're not selfish?
Wants to Be a Mommy again

Ashland, KY

#24 Sep 27, 2013
FYI - My daughter was at her dad's house during the day yesterday as he was off and I was off yesterday today and spent a very nice evening yesterday with my daughter. I did get on here today for awhile at different times since I was off and when my daughter was napping or playing. Why am I explaining myself to you - a person that just wants to put a person on the defensive?2922
Wants to Be a Mommy again

Ashland, KY

#25 Sep 27, 2013
I meant to say . . . I was off yesterday and today for anyone that wants to put me on the defensive again.
Bobby

United States

#26 Sep 28, 2013
. You need to dump him for a slim, trim, in shape guy who goes through women like a kid goes through popcorn at the movies.

Get with a big buff stud who will use and abuse you. It's what you need. You will have your 15 minutes of fame.
Nancy

Chesapeake, VA

#27 Sep 28, 2013
Wants to Be a Mommy Again wrote:
<quoted text> Yes, take note, young fellows. If a woman feels like she knows what she wants in life and you don't "fit the bill" then move on. I don't know exactly want I want in life. What I want now might be different than what I want later in life. Right now, I want a man I am attracted to and love and I would like to have another child someday before my biological time clock ticks out. If knowing what I want in life and working hard to get where I am makes me a selfish woman then so be it.
What we have here is a troll! Congratulations "Wants to Be a Mommy Again". Once again you have succeded in gathering a bunch of sad " Dr Phils, Dr Ruths Etc; and made a laughing stock out of them just to say you "coulddo it". So I say to you again' Congratulations'! Nancy
Mammaw

Ashland, KY

#28 Sep 30, 2013
Wants to be a Mommy again almost sounds like she could be my daughter. I have a daughter that is 32 with a five year old boy that is dating a man that has had a vasectomy and doesn't desire it to be reversed. She wanted at least one more child before she divorced. I'm fairly sure she would like to meet someone that could have one more child. I don't see anything special in the guy she is going with - nothing specialabout his personality, doesn't have that good of a job, isn't a handyman, isn't good looking. The list of negatives about him far exceed the good things about him. Heaven forbid, I open my mouth and say anything negative about this guy! I'd drive her right into marrying him if I did. I'm just keeping my mouth shut and keeping my fingers crossed. I am hoping he is just a companion to her for the time being and she will consider dating offers from other men if any ask her. She's only been divorced six months and dating this guy started about a month after she got divorced. It is worrisome to me, however, I don't want her to settle for less than she wants in life. Isn't that what every parent wants for their children - not to settle for less than they want?
jus sayin-

Proctorville, OH

#29 Sep 30, 2013
Wants to Be a Mommy Again wrote:
<quoted text> You are obviously one of those lowlife guys that can't get a woman that he finds attractive judging by your name calling me (a conceited bitch). I'll give you some advice - no woman that isn't trashy will ever be attracted to a man that refers to women as being a "bitches" or calls a woman a "bitch". I don't consider myself conceited at all. I am of average weight and fight ten pounds of excessive weight from time to time. I'm no knockout, but I do the best with what I have to work with. I never said anything as being beautiful, so don't put words into my mouth that aren't there, or are you just a poor reader? I am not rich -$50,000 a year is a good salary, but is not rich. I imagine you are probably one of those guys that doesn't work and doesn't want to and sits around drinking or abusing drugs. You don't write in a matter that an educated person would write. Yes, I am college educated, but that doesn't make me brilliant. It did help me get a good career. I worked hard to get where I am. Applying oneself in college and making good grades is a full time job that requires hard work and dedication and I also worked 30 hours a week when I was in college waiting tables. You are obviously an envious person that never went to college and begrudge people that do well in life. I think I will remain single than to settle with someone I don't really love even if that means I won't have any additional children - if that's what you call marrying myself. You aren't really deserving of a response, but I don't like guys that refer to a woman as a "bitch".
2780
50,000 is a good income round here
to yep-

Proctorville, OH

#30 Sep 30, 2013
yep wrote:
<quoted text>
Give it a rest. If you knew what you wanted, you wouldn't even be here asking for advice. As it is, you're seeing/dating/screwing some guy you're not attracted because you say he's a good guy and is good to your child, but have no idea how to proceed. I'd say it's more to do with the extra income he gives you, and you don't want to drop him before you've found his replacement.
At your age and appearance, you're not going to get an attractive, financially secure, decent man who will give you the time of day. Too much baggage and not enough reward, because there are better options than you based on what you've said. Honestly, what is in it for him, your charming demeanor? Besides, your values themselves are suspect, being that you've strung along what you call a good man for 10 months to the point he proposed, yet here you are looking for justification to ditch him. But you're not selfish?
To yepp- I thought it was 10 months too, and when I mentioned that in my post she said she had only been with him for 3 months..
No name Jane

Ashland, KY

#31 Sep 30, 2013
to yep- wrote:
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To yepp- I thought it was 10 months too, and when I mentioned that in my post she said she had only been with him for 3 months..
If you had read the original poster's comments thoroughly, or had average reading skills, you would have read that she had been DIVORCED for TEN months and had been SEEING the guy for THREE months. That's the trouble with you troller's on Topix or people that want to jump on the being negative bandwagon and start ripping things apart that someone has said - YOU DON"T HAVE GOOD READING SKILLS or you want to twist words around that someone has said because you enjoy being a troll so much.
No name Jane

Ashland, KY

#32 Sep 30, 2013
I can see the "trolls" are starting to take over this discussion. "Trolls" want to be negative and cut people down and start controversies. "Trolls" don't have good reading skills and even if they can comprehend most of what they've read, as an average person can, they like to twist words others have written around. "Trolls" especially enjoy using mind manipulation tactics and hope others will fall for their mind manipulation methods - they also like to use "gas lighting" ploys. I'm off here now and won't be back. I know the "trolls" will have to have the final word and cut me down and nitpick and do all the things "trolls" do on here. "Trolls" especially have to have the last word, so I say to all the "trolls" out there - go ahead and take your last word, I won't be back on here to view it anyway. Take over now with your last comments and words - "trolls" - "GO FOR IT!"

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