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Curious

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Feb 18, 2013
 

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Why is it that so many people on here are so interested in who's cheating on who. Does it really affect them personally to know if someone from St. Mary's is sleeping with a co-worker, or if a nurse is screwing the doctor or the boss? This doesn't change their ability to do their job.
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Mount Lookout, WV

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Feb 18, 2013
 
Curious wrote:
Why is it that so many people on here are so interested in who's cheating on who. Does it really affect them personally to know if someone from St. Mary's is sleeping with a co-worker, or if a nurse is screwing the doctor or the boss? This doesn't change their ability to do their job.
Yes!! If they would worry about their own relationships, there may not be so many affairs!! I could give a flying f$$k who's screwing who!!
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Saint Albans, WV

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Feb 18, 2013
 
Curious wrote:
Why is it that so many people on here are so interested in who's cheating on who. Does it really affect them personally to know if someone from St. Mary's is sleeping with a co-worker, or if a nurse is screwing the doctor or the boss? This doesn't change their ability to do their job.
Some people like to watch others burn and have their lives turned upside down. Then there are some people that like to be the one that actually throws a match on it.
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Feb 18, 2013
 
It's probably to let there spouse know that this goes on at St. Mary's?!?! I would want to know if my spouse is cheating on Me if they worked there!!

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Feb 18, 2013
 
kinda like the car races,there's always a crash and some folks like that!
Curious

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It's probably to let there spouse know that this goes on at St. Mary's?!?! I would want to know if my spouse is cheating on Me if they worked there!!
I can understand wanting to know if my spouse was cheating, but would you really want to find out through topix?
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Feb 18, 2013
 
Sure
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Mount Lookout, WV

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Feb 18, 2013
 
Curious wrote:
<quoted text>I can understand wanting to know if my spouse was cheating, but would you really want to find out through topix?
Not by this site, a more reliable person
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Roanoke, VA

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Feb 19, 2013
 
I found out I was being cheated on from topix. I know first hand how it feels to be betrayed and hurt by someone you love. I also know how it feels when u have a gut feeling something just isn't right, and for months and even years have no evidence of a wrong doing, but still feel an uneasiness in your heart. I can honestly say I am thankful that I found out I was being cheated on period! I don't care how I found out, that's not what was important to me. What's important is I was laying down with a lier and cheater every night and had no idea! I'm glad I found out and honestly if it wasn't for topix I doubt I would have. So yes, if u know of a person being unfaithful you should post it and hopefully the spouse will find out. This is something a spouse deserves to know regardless. Not only bc of the betrayal but bc of std's as well. And if u think or suspect your spouse of cheating then it's ok to dig a little. Trust your gut feelings.
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Feb 19, 2013
 
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I can understand wanting to know if my spouse was cheating, but would you really want to find out through topix?
. Most people that know u would already know the truth and they r just waiting on someone else to tell u!
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<quoted text>. Most people that know u would already know the truth and they r just waiting on someone else to tell u!
Yes, but most of the people on here are jealous women or men that just want to cause problems in other relationships, cause their not happy
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Feb 19, 2013
 
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Yes, but most of the people on here are jealous women or men that just want to cause problems in other relationships, cause their not happy
. Very true, but someone knows when there is really something wrong and would know if its true or not.
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Feb 19, 2013
 
Educated wrote:
I found out I was being cheated on from topix. I know first hand how it feels to be betrayed and hurt by someone you love. I also know how it feels when u have a gut feeling something just isn't right, and for months and even years have no evidence of a wrong doing, but still feel an uneasiness in your heart. I can honestly say I am thankful that I found out I was being cheated on period! I don't care how I found out, that's not what was important to me. What's important is I was laying down with a lier and cheater every night and had no idea! I'm glad I found out and honestly if it wasn't for topix I doubt I would have. So yes, if u know of a person being unfaithful you should post it and hopefully the spouse will find out. This is something a spouse deserves to know regardless. Not only bc of the betrayal but bc of std's as well. And if u think or suspect your spouse of cheating then it's ok to dig a little. Trust your gut feelings.
I agree that every person has an absolute right to know if their spouse is cheating on them. They have every right. I just wish it could be told in a more discrete manner versus a bunch of people knowing your intimate troubles. But at the same time, if I found out my spouse was cheating on me, I would be so utterly tore up I'm sure I wouldn't care who all saw the news. It's just an awful thing all around no matter what way you put it. Cheaters do deserve to be caught though and if this is the only way, then so be it.
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Feb 19, 2013
 
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I agree that every person has an absolute right to know if their spouse is cheating on them. They have every right. I just wish it could be told in a more discrete manner versus a bunch of people knowing your intimate troubles. But at the same time, if I found out my spouse was cheating on me, I would be so utterly tore up I'm sure I wouldn't care who all saw the news. It's just an awful thing all around no matter what way you put it. Cheaters do deserve to be caught though and if this is the only way, then so be it.
this is exactly how I felt. I was so very upset over the betrayal. But at the same time It was like adding salt to a cut the fact that everyone saw it on here. But in the end I feel that I was being honest and true in the relationship and no matter how many people saw it; I could still walk away from it with my head held high.
And I agree that their are some people who probably post stuff on here that's not true just as a means of starting trouble with others, but in my case all that was posted was true.
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Feb 19, 2013
 
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Not by this site, a more reliable person
I would certainly want to find some way to independently confirm what I learned on Topix.
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Feb 19, 2013
 
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<quoted text>. Very true, but someone knows when there is really something wrong and would know if its true or not.
Agreed
Educated

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Feb 19, 2013
 
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I would certainly want to find some way to independently confirm what I learned on Topix.
well when I first saw it, I went straight to the source (her!) I knew he would deny it so I made sure I got plenty of facts before I even approached him. That way he didn't have time to cover his tracks or come up with any additional lies. And I created a fake email address solely for the purpose to communicate with the other woman more discreetly. So once the email address was contacted there were no more topix post between us. Chances are; if you feel like something is wrong: 9 times outta 10 it is! Trust your instincts. However like I said if u are seriously suspecting something; DO NOT accuse him constantly or even give any clues u are, this will just cause him to be more careful. Men are so predictable. When they feel they are getting by with it they will eventually get comfortable. Also just a heads up; men even tho they do some of the most stupid things are not completely dumb. They know we have access to look at cell phones and they know how to erase all the evidence while leaving everything in between. A completely empty phone would raise an eyebrow. I did look at his phone a few times and he had plenty of family calls text etc but nothing with the other woman! He had her in contacts under a different name (male) and would erase text between them so I assumed the contact was a rarely contacted acquaintance. He was able to carry on this little affair for several months behind both our backs so he was very crafty. He really only was with her a few hours a week and claimed it was because he was a "single parent" etc, not admitting that his wife was actually at home!
Hawk

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Feb 20, 2013
 
Educated wrote:
<quoted text>well when I first saw it, I went straight to the source (her!) I knew he would deny it so I made sure I got plenty of facts before I even approached him. That way he didn't have time to cover his tracks or come up with any additional lies. And I created a fake email address solely for the purpose to communicate with the other woman more discreetly. So once the email address was contacted there were no more topix post between us. Chances are; if you feel like something is wrong: 9 times outta 10 it is! Trust your instincts. However like I said if u are seriously suspecting something; DO NOT accuse him constantly or even give any clues u are, this will just cause him to be more careful. Men are so predictable. When they feel they are getting by with it they will eventually get comfortable. Also just a heads up; men even tho they do some of the most stupid things are not completely dumb. They know we have access to look at cell phones and they know how to erase all the evidence while leaving everything in between. A completely empty phone would raise an eyebrow. I did look at his phone a few times and he had plenty of family calls text etc but nothing with the other woman! He had her in contacts under a different name (male) and would erase text between them so I assumed the contact was a rarely contacted acquaintance. He was able to carry on this little affair for several months behind both our backs so he was very crafty. He really only was with her a few hours a week and claimed it was because he was a "single parent" etc, not admitting that his wife was actually at home!
Oh shit. Damn that had to be awful. Sorry you had to go through that.

Of course I don't want to get too personal so if you don't want to answer, that's understandable. What made her get on here to put his name in the first place? Did she suspect he was lying?
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Feb 20, 2013
 
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Oh shit. Damn that had to be awful. Sorry you had to go through that.
Of course I don't want to get too personal so if you don't want to answer, that's understandable. What made her get on here to put his name in the first place? Did she suspect he was lying?
what's funny is, another girl that he worked with was asking if he was single bc apparently she had a crush, then someone answered for her saying yes he has a girlfriend whom he works with. That conversation went back and forth a few times before I saw the thread. When I saw it my heart sank and literally I felt as if every vital organ in me stopped working! I replied to all letting them know I was the mother of his child and we were engaged getting married in a month. Then I gave contact info so we could swap details. He was home when it all happened so once I made contact with her; I made him sit right here and listen to the whole heart wrenching conversation. Talk about painful! It took me a lot to heal and honestly I still haven't healed from everything. But we were able to go through some extensive counseling sessions and really came together stronger then ever (crazy I know). Now we are married and have an amazing relationship. He's fully aware of the damage he caused and really does make it up to me every single day! We faithfully attend church and fellowship with other couples. We found out no relationship is perfect and we all make mistakes yes some way bigger then others, but when its all said and done we have faith that what's broken will be made whole and maybe all this had to happen to bring us to a place of happiness. But it Definitly had to be brought to light. If he wouldn't have gotten caught then we would have never been able to move forward.
Hawk

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Feb 20, 2013
 
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<quoted text>what's funny is, another girl that he worked with was asking if he was single bc apparently she had a crush, then someone answered for her saying yes he has a girlfriend whom he works with. That conversation went back and forth a few times before I saw the thread. When I saw it my heart sank and literally I felt as if every vital organ in me stopped working! I replied to all letting them know I was the mother of his child and we were engaged getting married in a month. Then I gave contact info so we could swap details. He was home when it all happened so once I made contact with her; I made him sit right here and listen to the whole heart wrenching conversation. Talk about painful! It took me a lot to heal and honestly I still haven't healed from everything. But we were able to go through some extensive counseling sessions and really came together stronger then ever (crazy I know). Now we are married and have an amazing relationship. He's fully aware of the damage he caused and really does make it up to me every single day! We faithfully attend church and fellowship with other couples. We found out no relationship is perfect and we all make mistakes yes some way bigger then others, but when its all said and done we have faith that what's broken will be made whole and maybe all this had to happen to bring us to a place of happiness. But it Definitly had to be brought to light. If he wouldn't have gotten caught then we would have never been able to move forward.
I'm glad to hear things worked out for you then. I wish you the best.

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