High Member

Point Pleasant, WV

#396 Jun 26, 2013
If he ends it, then good for him. Have a nice day.
coochie

Blairsville, PA

#397 Jun 27, 2013
Gulch lafsta
Woman who made mistake

Montréal, Canada

#398 Jun 27, 2013
evastetruck wrote:
You can try to get counseling but I doubt you getting you husband to go sad to say but hind site truly is 20/20 that's you question everything before you do it. It may be to late for your marriage but life does go on
I am beginning to see that - about life going on. He is back to ignoring my calls and text messages. I am willing to make this work, but I won't wait around indefinitely.
OATH KEEPER

Bradenton, FL

#399 Jun 27, 2013
Zaphod wrote:
Cheating isn't as bad as regifting.
..........I took an OATH to defend the USA from all enemies , domestic and international Bilderbergs..........our domestic enemies at AIPAC and the JDL fifth column are demanding more unnecessary wars for the media- military complex and CNN - CHABAD NEWS NET honchos Wolf Blitzer , Rupert Dalsimer Murdoch , jonathan dalsimer Pollard , aldrich ames Marshak , Stubi Norman Pollard and Ethel Rosenberg Gotlieb......see WAR IS A RACKET by general smedley Butler , FIVE BROKEN CAMERAS , Goldstone Report , BY WAY OF DECEPTION and ATTACK OF THE THEOCRATS .
Dalsimer Suxe Marshak

Bradenton, FL

#400 Jun 27, 2013
NW Lurker wrote:
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And trolls are still trolls... hehe.
.........Treason is a speciality of Bankster mike Raphan , Peter Becht Madoff , Abe Foxman / Hillel BUND and the Dick OBAMA Nixon zio-stooges of the AIPAC Fusion Centers..........the ENRON / Lehman Bros / Koch Bros ILLUMINATI war mungers demand more privatization of the endless wars for profits ........see IBM AND THE HOLOCAUST by edwin Black , bill Gertz and Jack Welch.
holy crap

Proctorville, OH

#401 Jun 27, 2013
High Member wrote:
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Well ma'am, I been trying to figure this out. And I found out that he has to love you enough to make it work.
What I recommend is that you get another girl and you and her work on his sexual satisfaction for one night to make it even between you and him. That's what would make me feel better.
You could give him out of control hot sex to show him that he is still The Man that is in control of your body.
Other than that, show him that you are genuinely sorry and do everything that you can to let him know that you want to make it (the marriage) work.
bringing in another woman is not the answer, they are already having problems because of a third wheel how is 4 gonna make it any better
holy crap

Proctorville, OH

#402 Jun 27, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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I am beginning to see that - about life going on. He is back to ignoring my calls and text messages. I am willing to make this work, but I won't wait around indefinitely.
This doesnt even sound rite, ok you done something wrong and you know you did and your sorry, why are you making your husband pay for it "but I won't wait around indefinitely" how can you even say this, if you ask me I don't think you love him the way you say you do, how can you just throw that away over a mistake that you made, I think that this has been a long time coming for you and I think there is more to the story than what you are telling people, by not wanting to wait tells me that you are ready to get out of this marriage and this was the perfect thing for you to do that, people on here is trying to help you but they cant do that if your not being honest with them..
Woman Who IS A Mistake

United States

#403 Jun 27, 2013
Phew, this took some time but look at the insanity of this person:
Woman who made mistake wrote:
A few weeks ago my supervisor called me into his office and told me he was cutting back and needed to let me go. In a moment of lunacy, I offered him oral if he kept me employed. He sat there for a minute just looking at me and said "ok". I told him I really did not want to do it, but he insisted. At that point I was very scared and went ahead and did it since he was making me.
Now he wants more and is telling me he is going to anonymously tell my husband if I do not do it more often. He made me do this but I do not think my husband will understand. I do not know what to do now. I am ready to quit my job because of this. It is not right. Can someone tell me how to let my husband know I was forced to do this?
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I know it was wrong so please do not bash me. I really do not want my husband finding out.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I came here looking for advice on how to handle telling my husband. I understand some of you are "projecting" at me, but I need anonymous advice on what to do. Bashing me is not going to change anything. What's done is done.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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Not in a million years. I really just do not want my husband finding out. I do not want our children to look at me different either if they would ever find out. I am so sorry.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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Is that really relevant? Go away.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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Nice try, but I am being genuine.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
Truthisalwaysbest...Thank you for your advice. I really appreciate it. The thought of letting my husband down is so saddening to me.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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Thank you for being real <3
Really means a lot to have real advice given to me.
XOXO
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I plan on telling my husband tonight. My mother in law is going to be watching our children. I know this is going to hurt him but at least I can clear my conscious. I am scared.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
Well. He gets home in about 3.5 hours. Wish me luck people :\ I am nervous.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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Do you think I should not tell him? I am having second thoughts. I am so very confused.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I am heartbroken.
I told him and he yelled so bad. I thought he was going to hit me. All I could do was tell him I was sorry and cry. He left for about an hour and came home. He said he can't understand how I could think it let alone do it. He hugged me and told me it would be ok. We kissed and he told me to give it to him like I did my manager. It made me feel very sleazy and I asked him to give me time. He then blew up at me again and took off. I am at a loss. Our children will be gone until tomorrow morning at his moms house and I do not know where he is or when he will be back. Someone please tell me it will be ok.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
There is no bright side but I now cannot be threatened by my manager. I do not know what to do.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
He is still not home. I tried calling his cellular phone but it is going straight to voice mail. He has not been to his mothers home which I find surprising. I understand him being upset, but I am his wife and need him now. I am genuinely sorry. I texted my manager and told him that I was sorry but I am not coming back. He has not replied. I forwarded the text I sent him to my husband as well but I think he has his cellular turned off. I will never do anything like this again. I do not want our marriage to end.
Woman Who IS A Mistake

United States

#404 Jun 27, 2013
and more...
Woman who made mistake wrote:
He is still not home and did not go to work this morning! His secretary told me he called in though.
He is at least texting me now asking me all kinds of questions about what I did. I really do not want to talk about it though and that is upsetting him. He already knows what happened and living it over and over again can't undo what happened.
He needs to get over it. I am struggling with how I can make this better for him and do not think me telling him more details is going to help.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
To clarify, we live in Canada. We met many years ago at a club called Desotos that is next door to Radio Shack in Barboursville as we are both from Barboursville. There was a K-mart there but I heard the company filed bankruptcy years ago.
He came home finally and he told me it is his fault. He said he should have been a better provider so that I would not have had to work and be put into a situation where I may lose a job.
He again asked me to do something to him and I asked him for a little more time as I am still recovering emotionally from everything that happened. He told me that he too is emotionally spent and that if I can't do for him what I was forced against my will to do to my manager that he was going to ask me to leave our residence.
I am not leaving. I accept that what I did is wrong but it does not justify splitting up our family. I will not leave.
I wish he would calm down and let this go. We have been together for over 24 years and this is only the 2nd time we have had an issue of this nature.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I just want to go back to the way things were. I hope he will feel the same way.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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I am not what you think. I have very good morals. I already said I messed up.
Did you even read my first post? I offered and when he said "ok", I changed my mind and did not want to do it. He made me because he had power over me and he knew I did not want to lose my job. I have quit anyways and made a wreck of things.
I just want things to be better. If he will stay with me I will never let another man make me do anything like this again.
In reference to this being the 2nd time in over 20 years for something like this to happen to us it is because at my bachelorette party before we got married a male dancer put his privates in my face and my girlfriends were cheering me on. I had too much to drink and one thing led to another. Yes I was wrong then too but I was pressured by my peers.
Woman Who IS A Mistake

United States

#405 Jun 27, 2013
even more...
Woman who made mistake wrote:
Enough bashing me. I know and have said what I did was wrong.
My husband has decided to spend the weekend at him mothers along with our children so I am stuck home alone being bored :(. I might go catch a movie with some friends to try to take my mind off things. As a now unemployed person (yikes), I have more free time on my hands.
I hope by Monday that my husband comes back to his senses and comes home. We have been together for so long that for him to throw it all away over a hiccup would be devastating to our family.
I want to be the wife he wants me to be but he needs to be a little more forgiving in my opinion. I regret what I did and have apologized over and over. I just want this all to go away.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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Please do not take my username and turn this into a joke. I am a real person so do not poke fun at me or try playing games by stealing my username. My husband is home and we are going to have a great weekend with the kids. Tomorrow is fathers day and I am going to make it special for him.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
He says he wants to work it out!! I am so happy and relieved. Love to all of you who gave great advice. XOXO
Woman who made mistake wrote:
We are still trying to work things out. It has been so hard on me the last week. We had a great fathers day. Funny thing is, he wanted to go to my favorite eatery.
He is afraid when I find another job that I will be put into another situation like this again. I promised him I will not hurt him again but he would rather me stay home with our children.
I am glad he did not let this stand in the way of our future. I am a lucky gal. He is supposed to take me away this weekend. He even sent me flowers yesterday. Something he only did 3 times last year. Hopefully this will make our marriage better. It was not bad, I just did not like the thought of losing my job and not having money to shop and buy things for our family.
I think everything is going to be ok although he is still asking me questions. I wish he would stop. All he is doing it hanging on to a accidental mistake.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I am not trying to minimize what my manager did in any way, I just want my husband to stop living this memory over and over. He is only torturing himself by asking so many details.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
We are still working it out. Last night was our best evening yet! He did not ask me any questions (yay!). I had told him Wednesday that the constant questions were taking a toll on me. He agreed to try to hold them back some. This made me very happy :).
I think he is finally getting over it.
XOXO to everyone who gave advice.
If anyone has any ideas on how to keep my marriage going strong, I will keep checking in. I am very happy! I will not let anyone do me the way my ex manager did. Yes I share some of the responsibility but I wanted to back out. Anyways, it is water under the bridge and I do not want to keep reliving it over and over.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
ps. On a side note we got to go to Niagara Falls today! So beautiful. Loved it and so did the kiddos.
Woman Who IS A Mistake

United States

#406 Jun 27, 2013
more...
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I am heartbroken. He has told me he just can't get past this and has asked me to move out. He is being unfair as he knows I gave up my job for him. I am unemployed and have no where to go.
We had been getting along fine and now BAM he drops this on me. He told me he forgave me but can't forget. I thought this was all behind us.
I do not know what to do or say to him. He is my best friend and the father of my children. Why can't he move beyond this?
I am so sorry for rambling. I just want things to be like they were before.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I am sorry and do not want to lose him.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I do not know what I can do to make him get over this.
It has been over 2 weeks and things were going great.
I am afraid he is cheating on me now or thinking about it.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I might just be being paranoid. I don't know but it is making me worry.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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That is not very nice. I only want my husband, no one else.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
Perhaps some of you think this is funny. It is nothing to laugh about.
I will NOT entertain the thought of telling him it is OK to be with another woman. I will not degrade myself to that just to let him "get even". If he were to do that, it means he thought about it before committing the act whereas with me, it was a random mistake I tried to get out of. My ex-manager should have let me change my mind.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I am ignoring the negative posts.
I am not burdened with guilt over what happened with my ex-manager because I told my husband, but I am now plagued with worry that he is throwing our marriage away. I do not want it to end. I love our lifestyle and the happy marriage we have built.
He needs to re-consider asking me to leave. I do not want it to end.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I just fear that he may be done with me. I have to find a way to make him see he is making a poor decision.
Woman who made mistake wrote:
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I am beginning to see that - about life going on. He is back to ignoring my calls and text messages. I am willing to make this work, but I won't wait around indefinitely.
Woman Who IS A Mistake

United States

#407 Jun 27, 2013
The op sounds like a real winner. Look at the crazy things she has written. It is all about her making herself the victim. My gosh! This infuriates me.
Woman Who IS A Mistake

United States

#408 Jun 27, 2013
sure was a lot of copying and pasting her posts lol.
holy crap

Proctorville, OH

#409 Jun 27, 2013
Woman Who IS A Mistake wrote:
sure was a lot of copying and pasting her posts lol.
lol thanks! makes it easier to follow up on her and what she posts, I'm waitin for to mess up on this one lol I still think there is more to the story than what shes telling:)
schrodinger

Huntington, WV

#410 Jun 27, 2013
She seems very selfish and narcissistic. I know that what she did is wrong but I think her boss is even worse.I wish she would report what happend.if I was her husband I would make sure he lost his job and I would definitely want to talk to him, eye to eye.
Faithfool

Alexandria, VA

#411 Jun 27, 2013
Why? So he could be reminded that his wife OFFERED and GAVE the guy a BJ?

Why would he subject himself to this?
anon

Huntington, WV

#412 Jun 27, 2013
Just go back to blowing him since that seems to be what you love to do anyway, stop with the emotional bullshit excuses to you husband deepthroat. Go tell your bosses wife. Just shut the hell up about it. you can take the girl out of the trailer park but you can't take the trailer park out of the girl!!!!!!!
State Champs in Thirteen

Lavalette, WV

#413 Jun 27, 2013
holy crap wrote:
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lol thanks! makes it easier to follow up on her and what she posts, I'm waitin for to mess up on this one lol I still think there is more to the story than what shes telling:)
I think so too.
State Champs in Thirteen

Lavalette, WV

#414 Jun 27, 2013
schrodinger wrote:
She seems very selfish and narcissistic. I know that what she did is wrong but I think her boss is even worse.I wish she would report what happend.if I was her husband I would make sure he lost his job and I would definitely want to talk to him, eye to eye.
I have heard that word before and don't have time to look it up, but what does "narcissistic" mean? My apologies if I seem stupid.
sherm

Fenton, MO

#415 Jun 27, 2013
anon wrote:
Just go back to blowing him since that seems to be what you love to do anyway, stop with the emotional bullshit excuses to you husband deepthroat. Go tell your bosses wife. Just shut the hell up about it. you can take the girl out of the trailer park but you can't take the trailer park out of the girl!!!!!!!
suckie,suckie

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