My boss made me do something terrible...
Vostrofiftyeight zeroone

Tempe, AZ

#351 Jun 24, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
A few weeks ago my supervisor called me into his office and told me he was cutting back and needed to let me go. In a moment of lunacy, I offered him oral if he kept me employed. He sat there for a minute just looking at me and said "ok". I told him I really did not want to do it, but he insisted. At that point I was very scared and went ahead and did it since he was making me.
Now he wants more and is telling me he is going to anonymously tell my husband if I do not do it more often. He made me do this but I do not think my husband will understand. I do not know what to do now. I am ready to quit my job because of this. It is not right. Can someone tell me how to let my husband know I was forced to do this?
16 pages of trash. You do the crime, you do the time. Hope he leaves your cheating hind end.
DaB

Salt Rock, WV

#352 Jun 24, 2013
You sound fun! Can I be your boss?
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dumbusername

Greensburg, PA

#354 Jun 24, 2013
Vostrofiftyeightzeroone wrote:
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16 pages of trash. You do the crime, you do the time. Hope he leaves your cheating hind end.
But I agree with you.
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old vet

Huntington, WV

#356 Jun 25, 2013
Sorry for you about the bashing and the situation. Maybe telling your husband is the best choice. It could be easier than him finding out some other way. Hopefully he will be at least somewhat understanding. All relationships have rocky times and yours is one of them. I'm sure he will be angry but most of us get over anger. Anyway, may you have the best of luck.
the betrayed

Huntington, WV

#357 Jun 25, 2013
old vet wrote:
most of us get over anger.
Not me. I am still with my spouse after many, many years, but my anger is still there. I wish I had left when I found out. I regret staying.
the betrayed

Huntington, WV

#358 Jun 25, 2013
Reading this just infuriates me. I wish I could let the anger go. I never blow up over it anymore, but I still seethe inside at times. I hate this and want to be "normal" again.
bingo

Huntington, WV

#359 Jun 25, 2013
the betrayed wrote:
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Not me. I am still with my spouse after many, many years, but my anger is still there. I wish I had left when I found out. I regret staying.
thats y she shuld nvr had told him. she'd done him a better favor if she had just packed her bags & left.
Faithfool

Front Royal, VA

#360 Jun 25, 2013
the betrayed wrote:
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Not me. I am still with my spouse after many, many years, but my anger is still there. I wish I had left when I found out. I regret staying.
It's never too late. Leave now. If you are still that angry you will be better off.
mr doe

Hurricane, WV

#361 Jun 25, 2013
the betrayed wrote:
Reading this just infuriates me. I wish I could let the anger go. I never blow up over it anymore, but I still seethe inside at times. I hate this and want to be "normal" again.
You should leave if you cant move past the betrayal.
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Woman who made mistake

Montréal, Canada

#363 Jun 26, 2013
I am heartbroken. He has told me he just can't get past this and has asked me to move out. He is being unfair as he knows I gave up my job for him. I am unemployed and have no where to go.

We had been getting along fine and now BAM he drops this on me. He told me he forgave me but can't forget. I thought this was all behind us.

I do not know what to do or say to him. He is my best friend and the father of my children. Why can't he move beyond this?

I am so sorry for rambling. I just want things to be like they were before.
Woman who made mistake

Montréal, Canada

#364 Jun 26, 2013
I am sorry and do not want to lose him.
Zaphod

Proctorville, OH

#365 Jun 26, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I am heartbroken. He has told me he just can't get past this and has asked me to move out. He is being unfair as he knows I gave up my job for him. I am unemployed and have no where to go.

We had been getting along fine and now BAM he drops this on me. He told me he forgave me but can't forget. I thought this was all behind us.

I do not know what to do or say to him. He is my best friend and the father of my children. Why can't he move beyond this?

I am so sorry for rambling. I just want things to be like they were before.
I'm sure your boss would take you back. Just blow him again.
Woman who made mistake

Montréal, Canada

#366 Jun 26, 2013
I do not know what I can do to make him get over this.

It has been over 2 weeks and things were going great.

I am afraid he is cheating on me now or thinking about it.
Woman who made mistake

Montréal, Canada

#367 Jun 26, 2013
I might just be being paranoid. I don't know but it is making me worry.
Woman who made mistake

Montréal, Canada

#368 Jun 26, 2013
Zaphod wrote:
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I'm sure your boss would take you back. Just blow him again.
That is not very nice. I only want my husband, no one else.
holy crap

Proctorville, OH

#369 Jun 26, 2013
Lady you have really gotten yourself in a mess, but you did do the right thing by telling him, you think your going crazy now? what do you think it would have been like if ya hadnt told him? maybe you should consider counseling with your husband he may be able to get over it better by talking to someone else other than you, but the man was hurt by you its not something that he is going to forget about if he ever does
Army Chick

Huntington, WV

#370 Jun 26, 2013
holy crap wrote:
Lady you have really gotten yourself in a mess, but you did do the right thing by telling him, you think your going crazy now? what do you think it would have been like if ya hadnt told him? maybe you should consider counseling with your husband he may be able to get over it better by talking to someone else other than you, but the man was hurt by you its not something that he is going to forget about if he ever does
^^props^^
Trudy

Glen Allen, VA

#371 Jun 26, 2013
Never tell a spouse, confess your sin to God, don't do it again and move on with a humble and loving heart.
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High Member

Point Pleasant, WV

#373 Jun 26, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I am heartbroken. He has told me he just can't get past this and has asked me to move out. He is being unfair as he knows I gave up my job for him. I am unemployed and have no where to go.

We had been getting along fine and now BAM he drops this on me. He told me he forgave me but can't forget. I thought this was all behind us.

I do not know what to do or say to him. He is my best friend and the father of my children. Why can't he move beyond this?

I am so sorry for rambling. I just want things to be like they were before.
If I was in his shoes, I couldn't find away to get over it either. I couldn't and wouldn't bare any sexual contact or relations with her.
Maybe it's time to move on?
Army Chick

Huntington, WV

#374 Jun 26, 2013
High Member wrote:
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If I was in his shoes, I couldn't find away to get over it either. I couldn't and wouldn't bare any sexual contact or relations with her.
Maybe it's time to move on?
Another insightful post.

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