longisland

Huntington, WV

#232 Jun 15, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
<quoted text>
I am not what you think. I have very good morals. I already said I messed up.
Did you even read my first post? I offered and when he said "ok", I changed my mind and did not want to do it. He made me because he had power over me and he knew I did not want to lose my job. I have quit anyways and made a wreck of things.
I just want things to be better. If he will stay with me I will never let another man make me do anything like this again.
In reference to this being the 2nd time in over 20 years for something like this to happen to us it is because at my bachelorette party before we got married a male dancer put his privates in my face and my girlfriends were cheering me on. I had too much to drink and one thing led to another. Yes I was wrong then too but I was pressured by my peers.
that don't count guys do it all the time. that's what the party is for. espically if the dancer was hot lol ..... not
the catnapper

Hurricane, WV

#233 Jun 15, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
He says he wants to work it out!! I am so happy and relieved. Love to all of you who gave great advice. XOXO
Poor guy.

“Easy does it... ”

Level 5

Since: Nov 12

Location hidden

#234 Jun 16, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
Enough bashing me. I know and have said what I did was wrong.
My husband has decided to spend the weekend at him mothers along with our children so I am stuck home alone being bored :(. I might go catch a movie with some friends to try to take my mind off things. As a now unemployed person (yikes), I have more free time on my hands.
I hope by Monday that my husband comes back to his senses and comes home. We have been together for so long that for him to throw it all away over a hiccup would be devastating to our family.
I want to be the wife he wants me to be but he needs to be a little more forgiving in my opinion. I regret what I did and have apologized over and over. I just want this all to go away.
A "hiccup" doesn't exactly = blowing another guy,let alone your boss. And things like that do not just go away.

I know this probably just a troll fishing and just looking for bites. And if it isn't, you at least get an "A" from me for originality on a possible scenario. And more than a little scratching of my head on how anybody would look for advice on a site like this one.

On the off chance it's true (which I highly doubt)... if he does forgive you , then you'd better check and see what he was into while you've been married. Because a man that was true to YOU all that time, is not going to very forgiving on a little "oopsie" as you've been describing. He'd be serving divorce papers soon.

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Dr Ruth

Chesapeake, VA

#237 Jun 16, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
A few weeks ago my supervisor called me into his office and told me he was cutting back and needed to let me go. In a moment of lunacy, I offered him oral if he kept me employed. He sat there for a minute just looking at me and said "ok". I told him I really did not want to do it, but he insisted. At that point I was very scared and went ahead and did it since he was making me.
Now he wants more and is telling me he is going to anonymously tell my husband if I do not do it more often. He made me do this but I do not think my husband will understand. I do not know what to do now. I am ready to quit my job because of this. It is not right. Can someone tell me how to let my husband know I was forced to do this?
go see a psychologist, and hopefully he/she will get you to feeling like a "MAN" again. You have pervert tendencies and want to act as though you are a woman in heat. lots of mountain men do this when they don't get to see anything but animals when they don't get out of the hollar to see people. good luck to you.
lol

Latham, NY

#238 Jun 16, 2013
Dr Ruth wrote:
<quoted text>go see a psychologist, and hopefully he/she will get you to feeling like a "MAN" again. You have pervert tendencies and want to act as though you are a woman in heat. lots of mountain men do this when they don't get to see anything but animals when they don't get out of the hollar to see people. good luck to you.
Very neat observation. Are you saying that you think the OP is a man pretending to be a woman lollollol?
lola

United States

#239 Jun 16, 2013
R3ster wrote:
Offer ur husband oral while u tell him.... It'll smoothe everything over!?!
bahhahaaaa
observer

Charleston, WV

#240 Jun 16, 2013
There is only 1 way for him to forget about what you have done and go on living the life you were both living before you made this horrible decision. He leaves you and finds a real woman that will love him and be faithful to him and completely forget about your existence. Or an unlimited amount of hard drugs and alcohol. Thats it. Im surprised nobody on here has replied by telling you to tell god about it and he will heal everything lol..
kenova harley man is gay

Kenova, WV

#241 Jun 16, 2013
R3ster wrote:
Offer ur husband oral while u tell him.... It'll smoothe everything over!?!
use a white flag
Dee

Ashland, KY

#242 Jun 16, 2013
I blow my boss every day, but he's my husband ;)
evastetruck is bi sexual

Kenova, WV

#243 Jun 16, 2013
A wrote:
will you come work for me
des te dud hut
Lycan

United States

#244 Jun 16, 2013
Dee wrote:
I blow my boss every day, but he's my husband ;)
Hooray!!!!!
The only reason there isn`t world peace is because we don`t have enough women like you.
Daniel Aldridge is Bi

Kenova, WV

#245 Jun 16, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
A few weeks ago my supervisor called me into his office and told me he was cutting back and needed to let me go. In a moment of lunacy, I offered him oral if he kept me employed. He sat there for a minute just looking at me and said "ok". I told him I really did not want to do it, but he insisted. At that point I was very scared and went ahead and did it since he was making me.
Now he wants more and is telling me he is going to anonymously tell my husband if I do not do it more often. He made me do this but I do not think my husband will understand. I do not know what to do now. I am ready to quit my job because of this. It is not right. Can someone tell me how to let my husband know I was forced to do this?
guts
Love thy neighbor

United States

#246 Jun 16, 2013
Who gives the boss a bj then quits? Should have got a raise or promotion.
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Since: Jun 13

Huntington, WV

#249 Jun 17, 2013
Did you really tell him?
IdiotCumGobbling Slut

Huntington, WV

#250 Jun 17, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
I came here looking for advice on how to handle telling my husband. I understand some of you are "projecting" at me, but I need anonymous advice on what to do. Bashing me is not going to change anything. What's done is done.
Learn what projecting means before you use it, dumbass.
IdiotCumGobbling Slut

Huntington, WV

#251 Jun 17, 2013
nasty wrote:
fill a sex discimanation clame against him and say he ask you and you said no......and tell your husband he is lieing. sue the crap out of him and dont back down...make him look like the bad guy
With your horrendous spelling and vast ignorance of simple terms, you should NOT be handing out legal advice.
IdiotCumGobbling Slut

Huntington, WV

#252 Jun 17, 2013
curious wrote:
this is just awful. too bad all that's left of the plae you met is that nice hard wood . pun intended . floor . I mean he could come back to wv and find another ho. all they did was change the name again right guys. its still a club . jug and jilt or some thing lol pitty.
WTF are you babbling about?
Level 3

Since: Jun 13

Location hidden

#253 Jun 17, 2013
So was it the Jug Quilt place on Rt.60? I bet it was. I have heard a few stories about that place.
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strike3

Proctorville, OH

#255 Jun 17, 2013
well glad that they worked it out as she said, if thats true.. however, If I was him and Im a woman mind you, she would be gone, ok she said he needs to be more forgiving, why should he be more forgiving he isnt the one who blew somebody, ok he has decided to spend the weekend with her and try work it out and if thats true why in the h3ll is she on topix? looks to me like she'd be tryin to fix her mistake... but who am I to say rite??
Woman here too

Germany

#256 Jun 17, 2013
strike3 wrote:
well glad that they worked it out as she said, if thats true.. however, If I was him and Im a woman mind you, she would be gone, ok she said he needs to be more forgiving, why should he be more forgiving he isnt the one who blew somebody, ok he has decided to spend the weekend with her and try work it out and if thats true why in the h3ll is she on topix? looks to me like she'd be tryin to fix her mistake... but who am I to say rite??
So right girlfriend!

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