My boss made me do something terrible...

My boss made me do something terrible please help

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Woman who made mistake

Montréal, Canada

#1 Jun 11, 2013
A few weeks ago my supervisor called me into his office and told me he was cutting back and needed to let me go. In a moment of lunacy, I offered him oral if he kept me employed. He sat there for a minute just looking at me and said "ok". I told him I really did not want to do it, but he insisted. At that point I was very scared and went ahead and did it since he was making me.

Now he wants more and is telling me he is going to anonymously tell my husband if I do not do it more often. He made me do this but I do not think my husband will understand. I do not know what to do now. I am ready to quit my job because of this. It is not right. Can someone tell me how to let my husband know I was forced to do this?
Woman who made mistake

Montréal, Canada

#2 Jun 11, 2013
I know it was wrong so please do not bash me. I really do not want my husband finding out.
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R3ster

Chester, VA

#5 Jun 11, 2013
Offer ur husband oral while u tell him.... It'll smoothe everything over!?!
hahahaha

Export, PA

#6 Jun 11, 2013
R3ster wrote:
Offer ur husband oral while u tell him.... It'll smoothe everything over!?!
Lol you made me spit out my coffee rofl. I'm still laughing. Thanks for brightening my day :)
he is lying

Tempe, AZ

#7 Jun 11, 2013
Your boss is bluffing. Do NOT tell your husband. I was in the position of your boss at one time and took advantage of someone. I threated the same thing but did not mean it. Trust me - your boss is bluffing.
divorced dad

Houston, TX

#8 Jun 11, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
A few weeks ago my supervisor called me into his office and told me he was cutting back and needed to let me go. In a moment of lunacy, I offered him oral if he kept me employed. He sat there for a minute just looking at me and said "ok". I told him I really did not want to do it, but he insisted. At that point I was very scared and went ahead and did it since he was making me.
Now he wants more and is telling me he is going to anonymously tell my husband if I do not do it more often. He made me do this but I do not think my husband will understand. I do not know what to do now. I am ready to quit my job because of this. It is not right. Can someone tell me how to let my husband know I was forced to do this?
Your post made me trigger. How dare you blame your boss. I was betrayed and it is because my ex made a choice to do things like you are alleging you were forced to do. You should have kept your mouth shut (literally) and let your manager terminate your position.
Bakersfield

Saint Albans, WV

#9 Jun 11, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
A few weeks ago my supervisor called me into his office and told me he was cutting back and needed to let me go. In a moment of lunacy, I offered him oral if he kept me employed. He sat there for a minute just looking at me and said "ok". I told him I really did not want to do it, but he insisted. At that point I was very scared and went ahead and did it since he was making me.
Now he wants more and is telling me he is going to anonymously tell my husband if I do not do it more often. He made me do this but I do not think my husband will understand. I do not know what to do now. I am ready to quit my job because of this. It is not right. Can someone tell me how to let my husband know I was forced to do this?
Well I don't blame your boss. Someon female offers me that and I'm gonna cave and let her. What'd you expect?
Bakersfield

Saint Albans, WV

#10 Jun 11, 2013
Btw, what company do you work for?
hahaha

Chesapeake, OH

#11 Jun 11, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
A few weeks ago my supervisor called me into his office and told me he was cutting back and needed to let me go. In a moment of lunacy, I offered him oral if he kept me employed. He sat there for a minute just looking at me and said "ok". I told him I really did not want to do it, but he insisted. At that point I was very scared and went ahead and did it since he was making me.

Now he wants more and is telling me he is going to anonymously tell my husband if I do not do it more often. He made me do this but I do not think my husband will understand. I do not know what to do now. I am ready to quit my job because of this. It is not right. Can someone tell me how to let my husband know I was forced to do this?
You are literally a [email protected] You blew a guy for money plain and simple. I hope your poor husband finds out soon so you don't make a fool out of him for very long. And now you're blaming your boss?! YOU offered. He didn't ask. Geez lady.
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“Be Kind...Step Back...Realize!”

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#17 Jun 11, 2013
No job is worth ruining your life over. You really made a bad choice dear. You should have shut your mouth and let him fire you. You offered it first, so you can't blame him for expecting it again because you willingly said you would do it to begin with.

You have to tell your husband...because you never know if the threats are meant or not. You will go on not knowing, and even if it doesn't come out today or tomorrow, you will worry for the rest of your life until it does, or your conscious will get the better of you and you will tell him anyway.

Why agonize and destroy yourself internally when you can get it over with now...Plain and simple. BE HONEST! And quit sucking it to get yourself out of trouble. Do what we all do; get back up, knock off the dust and move on!
its not cheating

Secaucus, NJ

#18 Jun 11, 2013
Woman who made mistake wrote:
A few weeks ago my supervisor called me into his office and told me he was cutting back and needed to let me go. In a moment of lunacy, I offered him oral if he kept me employed. He sat there for a minute just looking at me and said "ok". I told him I really did not want to do it, but he insisted. At that point I was very scared and went ahead and did it since he was making me.
Now he wants more and is telling me he is going to anonymously tell my husband if I do not do it more often. He made me do this but I do not think my husband will understand. I do not know what to do now. I am ready to quit my job because of this. It is not right. Can someone tell me how to let my husband know I was forced to do this?
If that's all you did then it is not cheating. If you would have went all the way with your boss then that is cheating. Do not tell your man. Like the other guy said, I think your boss is bluffing.

“Be Kind...Step Back...Realize!”

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#19 Jun 11, 2013
its not cheating wrote:
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If that's all you did then it is not cheating. If you would have went all the way with your boss then that is cheating. Do not tell your man. Like the other guy said, I think your boss is bluffing.
What planet do you come from where if you are married...and you such another man off that is not your husband...that is not cheating?

Oral sex is still sex. I really hope you dont have children to tell that to and mold their mind to be a functioning member of society.

What is wrong with people today?!?!?!?!
lingering thoughts

Huntington, WV

#20 Jun 11, 2013
TruthIsAlwaysBest wrote:
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What planet do you come from where if you are married...and you such another man off that is not your husband...that is not cheating?
Oral sex is still sex. I really hope you dont have children to tell that to and mold their mind to be a functioning member of society.
What is wrong with people today?!?!?!?!
Well said. Idk what the heck is wrong with people today either!
wrong

Romania

#21 Jun 11, 2013
TruthIsAlwaysBest wrote:
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What planet do you come from where if you are married...and you such another man off that is not your husband...that is not cheating?
Oral sex is still sex. I really hope you dont have children to tell that to and mold their mind to be a functioning member of society.
What is wrong with people today?!?!?!?!
?what? this is 2013...just sayin.
fitgirl1284

Export, PA

#22 Jun 11, 2013
fitgirl1284 is very pretty. She is popping up in the dating ad's.

That being said, what the op did is wrong.
fitgirl1284

Export, PA

#23 Jun 11, 2013
wrong wrote:
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?what? this is 2013...just sayin.
Your point?

“Be Kind...Step Back...Realize!”

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#24 Jun 11, 2013
wrong wrote:
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?what? this is 2013...just sayin.
Monogamy, an honest relationship, not having any sexual relation with anyone but your significant other...JUST SAYIN'! Yeah, it is 2013...but that doesn't mean values and self respect have changed any!
twelve

Huntington, WV

#25 Jun 11, 2013
Wear a microphone and tape the transaction. Then blackmale him.
sherm

Saint Louis, MO

#26 Jun 11, 2013
would you do it again?
Woman who made mistake

Montréal, Canada

#27 Jun 11, 2013
I came here looking for advice on how to handle telling my husband. I understand some of you are "projecting" at me, but I need anonymous advice on what to do. Bashing me is not going to change anything. What's done is done.

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