Cheating husband I read his texts I a...

Cheating husband I read his texts I am scorned

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Heartbroken Wife

Saint Albans, WV

#1 Dec 4, 2013
Married men, why do you or have you cheated? My husband says it is because I was not intimate often enough with him. I went through his cell and found texts from several women he is having flings with. I am going to tell their husbands and make their like a living he11 now. Just trying to get an idea on why men cheat.
past cheater

Huntington, WV

#2 Dec 4, 2013
Heartbroken Wife wrote:
Married men, why do you or have you cheated? My husband says it is because I was not intimate often enough with him. I went through his cell and found texts from several women he is having flings with. I am going to tell their husbands and make their like a living he11 now. Just trying to get an idea on why men cheat.
If you don't give it up, we will find some one who will. My ex was a prude. Once maybe twice a month at best, and alway missionary (boring.) After three years I started getting it from other women. Found one that i liked, and had a 5 year affair. We decided we wanted to be together and got our divorces, and 20 years later we are still happy and screwing 6-7 days a week. Humans aren't meant to be monogamous. If you want your guy to be faithful, screw him so much that he wont be able to get it up with anyone else.
Silent Majority

Chesapeake, OH

#3 Dec 4, 2013
Heartbroken Wife wrote:
Married men, why do you or have you cheated? My husband says it is because I was not intimate often enough with him. I went through his cell and found texts from several women he is having flings with. I am going to tell their husbands and make their like a living he11 now. Just trying to get an idea on why men cheat.
Women do it too...and its just as hurtful. I would tell their husbands too. They hav a right to know.

Im sorry you are going through this...
J n T

Chesapeake, VA

#4 Dec 4, 2013
You cheaters are losers! You don't know how to treat you spouse. You are not happely married cause most of you slept around before you were married and now you are sleeping with used stuff. Now you wonder why your spouse wants to go back to their old habits. Me and my spouse have never been with another and are happy as can be! You all figure it out..
Maverick

Waynesboro, VA

#5 Dec 4, 2013
Past Cheater is right on the button bout that. We both work and have a child and the of our share household duties . But its the same crap im goin through . I even explain openly bout my needs and considered hers also.I myself have been texting another woman but nothing has happen but can if things dont change.
A man who cheats

Huntington, WV

#6 Dec 4, 2013
Heartbroken Wife wrote:
Married men, why do you or have you cheated? My husband says it is because I was not intimate often enough with him. I went through his cell and found texts from several women he is having flings with. I am going to tell their husbands and make their like a living he11 now. Just trying to get an idea on why men cheat.
The answer to your question is written in your own post. He has told you were not intimate enough with him.

Look at what you wrote and you will see the answer to your question. You should have paid more attention to his needs and desires.

Move on and if you get another chance with another guy, you better pay attention to a mans needs.
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Heartbroken Wife

Saint Albans, WV

#8 Dec 4, 2013
You men sound terrible. I didn't deserve to be cheated on. He has another thing coming. I'm out for revenge. Why should I sleep with my husband if I'm tired? Men just don't understand.
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lol

Latrobe, PA

#11 Dec 4, 2013
u deserved it the guy told u to do more stuff duh.
Heartbroken Wife

Saint Albans, WV

#12 Dec 4, 2013
No one deserves what I'm going through. It's not fair.
NOT ALL MEN CHEAT

United States

#13 Dec 4, 2013
Ok look its just not men that cheat There's woman out there that haves good husbands and BF's and they cheat all the time,sometimes putting there side piece in front of there good man they have. And they turn round and smile in there boyfriends or husbands face Come on woman if your not having sex with your BF or husband and are a complete *itch to him all the time and hide stuff from him. You get what you derserve at the end and if he finds out your cheating and his not you can bet he will have the last laugh. NOT ALL MEN CHEAT there's good guys out there,when you get 1 don't treat him like *hit. Let's be honest ladies there's not to many good hearted,faithful,100% to there woman,devoting ,good looking men in this day in age. If you ever find him don't mess it up with scum bag
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curious

Kenova, WV

#15 Dec 4, 2013
Well in my relationship I beg for family time and one on one time. But he never will spend quality time with us. Why would it should I always be willing to have sex. It should work both ways. You have to give and take in a relationship. It's not just one sided. He has cheated in the past and I forgave him and he promised not to do it again. Well guess what he is. He has a whole secret life that he thinks I don't know about but guess what I do. Just waiting on the right time to drop the bomb. I've never cheated on him never had the desire or heart to do that. Have I been tempted yes but I took my wedding vows seriously till death do part and adultery is a sin. I don't like it nor do I appreciate it. I am a good person who has been through a lot.
lol

Chesapeake, OH

#16 Dec 4, 2013
Heartbroken Wife wrote:
You men sound terrible. I didn't deserve to be cheated on. He has another thing coming. I'm out for revenge. Why should I sleep with my husband if I'm tired? Men just don't understand.
Tired once or twice...ok. Tired every time...excuse. Everyone has nights that they don't feel like it but I'm guessing if you'd have given it up 3-4 tines a week he would have been happy. I went through the same with my EX. Now I'm happily remarried and we are intimate almost every day and have been for years.
Hey

Greensburg, PA

#17 Dec 4, 2013
Heartbroken Wife wrote:
You men sound terrible. I didn't deserve to be cheated on. He has another thing coming. I'm out for revenge. Why should I sleep with my husband if I'm tired? Men just don't understand.
I too was cheated on by my husband,yes revenge is sweet.I got a hold of her husband,we called each one of them to meet us out at a public place,there i sat holding her husbands hand!He divorced her,as i did my ex.
A man who cheats

Huntington, WV

#18 Dec 4, 2013
Heartbroken Wife wrote:
You men sound terrible. I didn't deserve to be cheated on. He has another thing coming. I'm out for revenge. Why should I sleep with my husband if I'm tired? Men just don't understand.
stfu. yes, i am projecting.
My boss forced me

France

#19 Dec 4, 2013
_-zaphod-_ wrote:
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Maybe there's a reason. He might be getting blackmailed by a football coach or something.
codeword jibberjabber ;)
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Heartbroken Wife

Saint Albans, WV

#21 Dec 4, 2013
Really, as a woman gets older her body and desires change. I don't think I would have done a thing differently. I have my email with the proof of my husbands affair partners ready to send to the slvts husbands when he gets off work. There's no turning back.
LMFAO

United States

#22 Dec 4, 2013
REALLY that hole I'm getting older and my body doesn't desire sex any more for women is B.S. Striaght like that,you don't want sex but you still Masturbate come on woman get real. If you don't want sex then why you do you Masturbate makes no sense. Smfh
typical

Latrobe, PA

#23 Dec 4, 2013
Typical comments from the men. Love to hear another females point of view.
40something

Proctorville, OH

#24 Dec 4, 2013
Just saying, this may not be what you want to hear but I would have sex everyday almost if I could, my bf for some reason isnt in to alot of sex but however he will take all the oral sex I give him, WTH?? rite... I don't know he said its because he had to beg his ex for it when they was married, he's 42 now, and I really find that hard to believe... maybe your just not happy in the relationship, come on girl, why would you not want to have sex? good luck to ya
J n T

Chesapeake, VA

#25 Dec 4, 2013
Heartbroken Wife wrote:
Married men, why do you or have you cheated? My husband says it is because I was not intimate often enough with him. I went through his cell and found texts from several women he is having flings with. I am going to tell their husbands and make their like a living he11 now. Just trying to get an idea on why men cheat.
Not all men cheat on their wives! I don't and never will. I love my wife and would do nothing to bring hurt or shame to her. She is my life, she has given me a wonderful family, three children who have gone on and are succesful in life. She is a great wife and mother. She has always been true to me since the day I met her in my teen years. Our marriage was founded on love and the princepals of God through the teachings of both our parents. I do bragg on my wife because I'm a husband that believes in being faithful and putting my wife and children first... My children are as faithful as any parent could ask of a children.. I said that to say that I am a business owner and have had many people working for us, and I've had numerous chances to cheat on my entire Family. There are women in the work force today that will do things hoping to climb the ladder to success, but I would rather go home at night , tell my wife that L*** K*** no longer works for us and tell her why than for her and my Children to be broken hearted... Men! If you love your wife, love her with all your heart, treat her with kindness and respect her at all times. Your wife should not go through life with heart broken wounds. I can't imagine my wife being hurt. Women! Love and respect your husbands.

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