how can I make my wife divorce me

how can I make my wife divorce me

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unhappy husband

Vienna, WV

#1 Sep 13, 2013
I want out. How can I get her to divorce me? I want her to file so I don't hurt her feelings. I'm just tired of being married. I'm afraid to tell her the truth.
Michelle

Milton, WV

#2 Sep 13, 2013
Hell, just show her this post and she'll drop your wimp a$$ in a moment. If that doesn't work, try to get it hard, have an affair and make sure you take pictures with your cellphone...use her cellphone if you want it to go quick.
Man Up

United States

#3 Sep 13, 2013
Just tell her how you feel . She may hate it now but in the long run you both will be better off and be happier !
Curious

Greenup, KY

#4 Sep 13, 2013
How much to you stand to lose? Are you really sure that this is what you want, for always, or just for tonight? How long have you been married? And exactly how much better do you think your life will be if you are divorced? Just the fact that you don't want to hurt her feelings is reason enough to think you still love her.
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Since: Oct 12

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#5 Sep 13, 2013
If fear is the reason for wanting her to file, then, No fear. You want out. You File. Complicated turned simple.
for better or worse

Kenova, WV

#6 Sep 14, 2013
Just wondering why you want out? What did your wife do? How long have you been married? Vows should be taken serious these days. You both made a commitment with god and yourselves for better or worse. Have you tried everything to make it work? Or do you just runaway and never actually face the problems. Maybe you both need to sit down and talk communication is the key in a marriage.
for better or worse

Kenova, WV

#7 Sep 14, 2013
unhappy husband wrote:
I want out. How can I get her to divorce me? I want her to file so I don't hurt her feelings. I'm just tired of being married. I'm afraid to tell her the truth.
First of all how do you just get tired of being married? Let me guess you are selfish and could care less of her. If you truly weren't selfish you'd be with her trying to make your marriage work. Stop being a coward.
Also you probably have cheated on her and want to live the life if chasing different women.
How old are you? It seems like you need to grow up and act like an adult.
Derper

Huntington, WV

#8 Sep 14, 2013
The fact that you believe you'll hurt HER feelings is your way of saying that you're the big prize in this relationship. She'll be losing alllll the grandeur that is you. Riiiight.

Men that say they are afraid of divorcing a woman for fear of hurting her feelings sure never seem to be afraid of WASTING HER TIME.
lawyer jake

United States

#9 Sep 14, 2013
Show her that picture of you being tea bagged by your boyfriend George ....I think that will get the ball rolling.
unhappy husband

Export, PA

#10 Sep 15, 2013
Thank you all for your help.

Been together over 20 years.

I've recently came to the conclusion that she must like belittling me and bossing me around. I've been living in denial for so long that I just accepted her treatment. Now that I'm older, I don't want to keep being unhappy with her. Im sick of it and want out but I dont want to hurt her feelings.
Ex girl friend

Pawleys Island, SC

#11 Sep 15, 2013
unhappy husband wrote:
I want out. How can I get her to divorce me? I want her to file so I don't hurt her feelings. I'm just tired of being married. I'm afraid to tell her the truth.
j. Just show her ur little penis
been divorced

Greensburg, PA

#12 Sep 15, 2013
tell one of her boy friends. im sure they would like to get you out of the way

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Since: Sep 13

Arcadia, CA

#13 Sep 15, 2013
unhappy husband wrote:
I want out. How can I get her to divorce me? I want her to file so I don't hurt her feelings. I'm just tired of being married. I'm afraid to tell her the truth.
Have gender realignment surgery; you can't lose.

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Since: Aug 13

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#14 Sep 15, 2013
unhappy husband wrote:
Thank you all for your help.
Been together over 20 years.
I've recently came to the conclusion that she must like belittling me and bossing me around. I've been living in denial for so long that I just accepted her treatment. Now that I'm older, I don't want to keep being unhappy with her. Im sick of it and want out but I dont want to hurt her feelings.
u want her to file cuz u dont want to hurt her feelings??? i dont kno of any divorce that sumone's feelings didnt get hurt.... what is it that ur wanting?
to get caught cheating? hurt her feelings
hook her up w/one of ur friends? hurt her feelings
she files the divorce & u do nothing to fix ur broken marriage... sign the papers & tell her thank u? hurt her feelings.

no wonder she belittles & bosses u..... ur goofy. 20 yrs & ur tired of it? then man up & take ur a$$ to the court house & file for divorce ..... its easyyyy.
Dead Rabbit

Huntington, IN

#15 Sep 15, 2013
If you want her to leave on her own, I can help. Leave a contact.
unhappy husband

Derry, PA

#16 Sep 15, 2013
I guess I'm afraid to make the first move. I just don't want to be with her anymore. She's just a constant nagging person who seems to be impossible to please. I've let her boss me around and belittle me for too long. Yes I love her. It's impossible for me not to but she's always going to be a crabby person and I'd be happier alone I think. If I file I think it'll crush her and I don't want to do that. I wish she would just divorce me instead.

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Since: Aug 13

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#17 Sep 15, 2013
unhappy husband wrote:
I guess I'm afraid to make the first move. I just don't want to be with her anymore. She's just a constant nagging person who seems to be impossible to please. I've let her boss me around and belittle me for too long. Yes I love her. It's impossible for me not to but she's always going to be a crabby person and I'd be happier alone I think. If I file I think it'll crush her and I don't want to do that. I wish she would just divorce me instead.
sounds like u dont wanna hurt her feelings cuz ... cuz ur scared of her. what she will do.
Gary

Stollings, WV

#18 Sep 15, 2013
Tell her your in love with me!
blacky mcblackard

Chesapeake, OH

#19 Sep 15, 2013
Stick it in her butt
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wifey

Avella, PA

#21 Sep 16, 2013
Your posts on here show exactly why she bosses you around and belittles you. The fact is, you're a puss and no woman can ever respect a man like you. If we can't respect you, we certainly can't treat you well. A real man says his piece no matter what the consequences. Maybe if you grow a pair and get more assertive, you can someday get what you want out of life. Maybe, just maybe, if you took charge your wife would start to see you as a man and the relationship would totally change.

My man takes charge all the time. He asserts himself without being bossy and it makes me feel very feminine and protected to be with a man who I know is decisive and strong.

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