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happy man

Chapmanville, WV

#122 Apr 17, 2014
I'm quite disgusted with the main line of this thread. I've been with my girl for 2 years. When I came into the picture she finished high school, put herself through college while working 2 jobs. She got settled into her pick off a career and she has a beautiful 2 bedroom home for herself and her daughter. Honestly. I don't and will never see it as me taking them in. As I had the same materials I also had family money and more than willing parents. She took me into her home and their hearts. She has told her 7 year old everything about her donor and she continues to call me dad. If your heart can be in it as much as your head is it can be quite rewarding.
Hmm

Huntington, WV

#123 May 1, 2014
There's usually a reason why a single mother is a single mother. I wouldn't mess with one either. They are too drama filled. There are plenty of women in Huntington who don't have children and who are of age.
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Huntington, WV

#124 May 1, 2014
Also none of you mothers can say you're "doing it on your own" if you're getting child support, daycare, or help from family members with bills or babysitting, because then, NO, you're not doing it on your own. Women have a habit of saying they're "independent" when they get help from multiple sources.
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MarylandDad

Arnold, MD

#126 Jul 11, 2014
Don't think I could respect any woman who didn't put her kids before a man, including me.
truth

Charleston, WV

#127 Jul 11, 2014
Well its 2014 and im happy to know that men are now smart enough to stay away from these kinds of trashy women. Well except for black men. For some odd reason blacks dont care how trashy or how many kids a white woman has. It doesnt bother them at all lol..
oh no he didnt

Woodstock, GA

#128 Jul 28, 2014
oh no yep I just farted...yep real hard...it stinks its wet and I dont want to move -_- jk braahhh! Single girls text 4793310622
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Realman

United States

#130 Aug 1, 2014
working mom wrote:
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typical sounding like a lot of the guys I have dated why bother dating at all if you dont want 2 eccpet babies along with a girl you no it is man like u that make me not want to go out on dates or invite u into my home when a woman offers to share her life with u she is in love not just looking for a surogate father for her family u need 2 grow up
After living with half a dozen women and sleeping with over 200 women I can confirm that single mothers are definitely easy to conquer.
henry

Tampa, FL

#131 Aug 1, 2014
Divorced Dad wrote:
I have learned after my divorce that single women with kids are very easy to have relations with, but I refuse to commit to them if they have kids.
I do not want to jibber jabber with them about their children or get involved with the day to day activities of raising someone else's offspring.
For me, I want a relationship with the lady I choose to date, not her kids. Most of them want a man to be a dad to their children but I do not want that. I am in it primaries for a good time.
I often have to act like I like the kids, but I really don't.
I am constantly amazed at how easily they fall for the same lines that I use to get into bed with women when I was younger. It seems like the ones with kids are easier than the ones without kids. I always find this interesting but I am growing tired of boring conversations about their kids. Do any of you other men feel the same?
ur about as deep as a bird bath
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Murrysville, PA

#132 Aug 1, 2014
Truth
guess again

East Bank, WV

#133 Aug 2, 2014
Sorry but that's not true of us all. I'm single and a mother but I'm far from easy.
I have met my dream man

Roanoke, VA

#134 Aug 9, 2014
Divorced Dad wrote:
I have learned after my divorce that single women with kids are very easy to have relations with, but I refuse to commit to them if they have kids.
I do not want to jibber jabber with them about their children or get involved with the day to day activities of raising someone else's offspring.
For me, I want a relationship with the lady I choose to date, not her kids. Most of them want a man to be a dad to their children but I do not want that. I am in it primarily for a good time.
I often have to act like I like the kids, but I really don't.
I am constantly amazed at how easily they fall for the same lines that I use to get into bed with women when I was younger. It seems like the ones with kids are easier than the ones without kids. I always find this interesting but I am growing tired of boring conversations about their kids. Do any of you other men feel the same?
I am a single woman with kids looking for a hit it and split it. I like a good conversation but I dont like relationships. Just a friend with benefits. I.know this is a catch 22, but I normally won't even consider a man who has kids.I want to meet you! Normally, men get too attached to me.
gearbanger85

Lawnside, NJ

#135 Aug 27, 2014
working mom wrote:
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typical sounding like a lot of the guys I have dated why bother dating at all if you dont want 2 eccpet babies along with a girl you no it is man like u that make me not want to go out on dates or invite u into my home when a woman offers to share her life with u she is in love not just looking for a surogate father for her family u need 2 grow up
I totally agree with him and I am all grown up. No one wants to be around some other man's kids. It's even worse with bratty boys. They are feminine acting sissies.
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Anonymous

Corpus Christi, TX

#138 Nov 23, 2014
single mommy wrote:
I have no clue how you're going to find a woman of legal age without at least one child anywhere around here. I know like 3 & trust me, you don't want them. It's so sad how you seem to think you are so high & mighty when you're a "dad" yourself. Why did you get divorced? The wife get tired of you? Kids never saw you? You couldn't hold the house down? Guaranteed if I asked her, it would be at least one of those things. We as mothers don't need your approval or even halfway listen to your "lines," if we want to have sex, we do it - if we don't, we don't. We can use you just as much as you do us. & before anyone starts calling me a whore, the only person I've had sex with in 7 years is the father of my child. I'm just saying, it's hilarious how men still think they dominate & are more superior when they have been proved wrong time & time again!! Funny.
Please use me lol...
Cyndi

Washington, DC

#139 Nov 23, 2014
On the same note, no woman really wants to put up with a single mans kids & their spiteful bitter Exs! What's the damn difference?!
Rocko

Flushing, NY

#140 Sunday Jan 18
Dude I totally feel you on that one, my chick and I have been dating for nearly a year now, she had a kid from some illegal immigrant who can't provide shit which sucks for me because guess who has to pick up the slack (me) anyways it's been a bitch and a constant struggle
Im 23 and come from money
It would be all too easy for me to just pack up and leave
Honestly I don't know why I dont
I love the kid and I live my gf but holy shit life would be so much easier if I just walked away
Not saying I'll walk away, but I definitely see where you're coming from
Keep on keepin on brotha
A mom

Hurricane, WV

#141 Sunday Jan 18
Rocko wrote:
Dude I totally feel you on that one, my chick and I have been dating for nearly a year now, she had a kid from some illegal immigrant who can't provide shit which sucks for me because guess who has to pick up the slack (me) anyways it's been a bitch and a constant struggle
Im 23 and come from money
It would be all too easy for me to just pack up and leave
Honestly I don't know why I dont
I love the kid and I live my gf but holy shit life would be so much easier if I just walked away
Not saying I'll walk away, but I definitely see where you're coming from
Keep on keepin on brotha
It's always easy for a man to walk away. That's where the term single mom always came from. How many actual full time single father's do you know? Yes some of us mom's do receive help from our own mom with some babysitting from time to time, most men who have visits every other weekend pawn there children of on mommy or sister for one of the days or nights. If your actually helping your lady with her child that's wonderful, not many men do,that's why most of us single mom's do stay single. But if you are helping and she needs that help and become accustomed to it and you walk away because it's easier then you are no better then the one who left originally. A good woman will always raise her child, don't date a mom if it's easier to just walk away. There's plenty of women out there without kids who you would evidently be happier with. Go get one. Men love and leave and leave behind a life that a woman carried and is in all ways bound to and responsible for and until that child grows up he or she will be and always come first.. A single mom is "easy" because she nurturing caring and giving and that's what a man wants in a woman, funny thing.. Women without children don't know how to be mommy to a man so men flock to the single mom's who by the way are stressed overworked and lonely, say sweet things, play with her children, rub her shoulders, tell her what a good job she dose, eats the dinners she cooks, let her wash there clothes, he may offer to pay a bill when times get tough, or take her kid out sometimes, then call her easy and complain to his friends and on topix. Seriously? If you don't want that in your life don't go there right??? EASY..??. nothing is EASY for or about a single mom. If my son ever said that I'd slap the words out of his mouth. You men should call your mom and tell her thank you. Whether she raised you single or not. Parenting Is hard enough even if you have the other parent, take one away, man or woman and it's chaotic, trying, and overwhelming.. Shame on you everyone who puts down a single mom or dad and calls them easy. Just shame.
Bryant Gumbal

Huntington, WV

#142 Sunday Jan 18
I agree 100% with the man who posted this, simply because I have been there an the child ruled the house, when that child said Jump the mother said how high as her feet was leaving the ground. It does get very irritating to have to take care of some other mans kid an fight all the problems you encounter an the sperm donor sits back an tells the child that he or she don't have to listen to you. They still expect you to like the kid an be good to it but it not care what you say. I would not ever consider a woman with kids again just because of this.

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