tired of competing

Barboursville, WV

#1 Oct 8, 2013
Why do men prefer hoes, tramps and hookers over nice women?The woman that has your back, willing to please you in bed, work her ass off to help you in anyway she can. And she gets treated like sh:t with no support in return. But that chick that will open her legs for dope money gets your attention.
Trolling for soup

Proctorville, OH

#2 Oct 8, 2013
Lol, they're easier to get rid of.
boost

Pine River, WI

#3 Oct 8, 2013
If he wanted you like that they wouldnt seek the easy female. Does he do for you? Or them? If your in relationship there should be no other females. If your not why care what men do? If its your man, you are good to him like you say, and he is going after those types of women, he is not that into you. He may be interested in what you can do for him, then he can spend what you give on those sluts. Leave him alone. If your a good girl you will find better.
tired of competing

Chesapeake, OH

#4 Oct 9, 2013
The funny thing is, I know he loves me. I'm the one he is with, he does as much for me as I do for him. We hang out except during work hours. But there is something about those women that attracts him. Pretty sure there is no sex involved.
boost

Pine River, WI

#5 Oct 9, 2013
tired of competing wrote:
The funny thing is, I know he loves me. I'm the one he is with, he does as much for me as I do for him. We hang out except during work hours. But there is something about those women that attracts him. Pretty sure there is no sex involved.
Well then why complain if he is not having sex with them OR hanging out with them?
karen

Huntington, WV

#6 Oct 9, 2013
tired of competing wrote:
The funny thing is, I know he loves me. I'm the one he is with, he does as much for me as I do for him. We hang out except during work hours. But there is something about those women that attracts him. Pretty sure there is no sex involved.
..May be a pimp.
Joe

Milton, WV

#7 Oct 9, 2013
I'm a guy and I'll offer a comment here that I hope may help. I'm in a bad situation myself but my wife wonders why after 15+ years of marriage I've gone cold on her. Not saying this is your case, but in mine, she uses the right words but doesn't back them with action. Sex never has been that great or often, and while that draws my interest away from her it is the first comment you made.

"The woman that has your back..." there is the problem in our relationship. Oh, I've heard it said over and over, not in those words, but in that context. Unfortunately, she has failed to keep my back, or be at my side, when it has mattered.

I hope an pray you really do have your husband's back. If you do and all the other stuff is good, then maybe it isn't the sex he is looking for...maybe it is the spark from when your relationship was new. Gotta admit, that is the only reason why I'm starting to look elsewhere. That spark of a potential new relationship is exciting. Will that new girl have my back, I have no idea. All I know is it is exciting and she hasn't failed me...yet. Where I am, proven history.

Give it a shot, romance him a bit. Try some new things, maybe try some of your old magic from the days you and he fell in love with each other.

I think you're right, it isn't sex.

If you truly have his back, and have kept his back; been a good lover and friend, it's just that things have gotten a bit routine.

Unless you were really wild and kinky at the start, don't necessarily go there. Forget the relationship and just have fun.
Not Surprised

Chesapeake, OH

#8 Oct 9, 2013
Most men never grow up and have no moral compass.

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