Cheated on my wife at the MARSHALL GA...
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Vienna, WV

#23 Sep 4, 2013
low life husband wrote:
In a bit of a dilemma.

Saturday after the game, I cheated on my wife while she was at home and I am trying to figure out if I should tell her or not.

I had too much to drink and my secretary gave me a ride home. We had been flirting some during the tailgate and after the game but I thought it was just us having some fun with each other.

Anyways, on the way to my house, she started rubbing my leg and pulled over behind value city furniture and started telling me how good looking I was and she wished her husband was more like me. I was very flattered and she started kissing me. I was drunk and did not really know how to say no. It was weird. I can't explain it, but we ended up having oral and intercourse in her car.

I am going to get a STD test and will await the results before telling my wife, if I tell her at all. I am not sure what to do honestly.

When I got to work today, we both acted like nothing ever happened. Like I said, it's weird.

I feel very guilty because my wife is awesome to me. We actually fooled around when I got home but I ended up passing out before we could get our clothes off. I am kinda glad because she might have smelled the other woman if you get what I am saying.

I am not looking to be bullied on here, just trying to determine if I should tell her or let it wide. Been married a little over an year and don't want to mess up a good thing.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING ! Just don't do it again. I'm sure she has cheated too, so your even now!
ZipIt

Charleston, WV

#24 Sep 4, 2013
The only reason to tell her is to relieve your guilt. She'll probably stay with you, but will always be hurt. Keep it to yourself, don't tell anyone, dont post about it on Topix like a dumbass, and if your secretary ever talks then deny, deny, deny. The wife will believe what she wants to believe. Your bigger problem may be at work. I'd start looking for a new job now to distance yourself from the problem.
I know better

Charleston, WV

#25 Sep 4, 2013
Your wife has a right to know that her husband cheated on her. You don't keep that type of secret in a marriage. Your secretary also needs to find another job. You also might want to think about giving up drinking.
long dong

Huntington, WV

#26 Sep 4, 2013
Push Up Champion wrote:
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To be honest your wife should have been at the game with you and none of this would have happened.
Agreed.
No more

Chicago, IL

#27 Sep 4, 2013
Like almost everyone else said. Don't tell your wife, just do not put yourself in a situation where your secretary can take advantage of you again. Your secretary sounds a little loose to me.
Silent majority

Chesapeake, OH

#28 Sep 4, 2013
Hammie Downs wrote:
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Is the "Silent" part of your name supposed to be ironic?

Bazinga!
Dr Ruth

Chesapeake, VA

#29 Sep 4, 2013
No more wrote:
Like almost everyone else said. Don't tell your wife, just do not put yourself in a situation where your secretary can take advantage of you again. Your secretary sounds a little loose to me.
Are you stupid, well are you? His secretary did not take advantage of him. He thought he was taking advantage of her, he got drunk got his mind messed up and they had sex and now he is in a pickle. Don't blame it on the Secretary! He just married a woman that is no better than he is, if he had not have he would not be out screwing around.
Bradley

Netherlands

#30 Sep 4, 2013
No more wrote:
Like almost everyone else said. Don't tell your wife, just do not put yourself in a situation where your secretary can take advantage of you again. Your secretary sounds a little loose to me.
I promise I was thinking the same thing. She saw an opportunity to gain an edge at work or something.

I bet $$ had you not been drinking she would have never done that. She knew what she was doing.
long dong

Huntington, WV

#31 Sep 4, 2013
low life husband wrote:
I feel very guilty because my wife is awesome to me. We actually fooled around when I got home but I ended up passing out before we could get our clothes off. I am kinda glad because she might have smelled the other woman if you get what I am saying.
Just re-read this. TMI.
worker bee

Vienna, WV

#32 Sep 4, 2013
Bradley wrote:
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I promise I was thinking the same thing. She saw an opportunity to gain an edge at work or something.
I bet $$ had you not been drinking she would have never done that. She knew what she was doing.
Yep. She wanted to get something to use against him in the future I think. Typical of women in positions like hers.
Jack

Fraziers Bottom, WV

#33 Sep 4, 2013
That was you? I'm a security guard that works for value city. I got the whole thing on video on my iPhone I stood right outside the car and took it you was too drunk to notice!
joe shmoe

Mount Olive, NC

#34 Sep 4, 2013
don't bother to tell her in a few years it will give you something to beat off to when your wife stops giving it up,and nobody wants to give it up to an old man.after 20 years of marriage i'm lucky to get any once a week now
what

Chesapeake, OH

#35 Sep 4, 2013
This is what happens when husbands and wives don't spend their leisure time together. Marriages can't survive if they're not nurtured. That means she should go to games some Saturdays and he should go see the new twilight movie in the theatre and there should be some things that you both love doing together. Compromise and common interests.
long dong

Huntington, WV

#36 Sep 4, 2013
joe shmoe wrote:
don't bother to tell her in a few years it will give you something to beat off to when your wife stops giving it up,and nobody wants to give it up to an old man.after 20 years of marriage i'm lucky to get any once a week now
hahahahahaha
actually

United States

#37 Sep 4, 2013
Sounds made up to me..
joe shmoe

Mount Olive, NC

#38 Sep 4, 2013
long dong wrote:
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hahahahahaha
at least i can still get it up thats better than most of the guys my age.since you get it all day every day they make a little blue pill for you when you get my age
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“The Night He Came Home”

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Since: Jun 13

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#40 Sep 4, 2013
Am I the only person who thinks this is completely made up?
man among men

Chicago, IL

#41 Sep 4, 2013
what wrote:
This is what happens when husbands and wives don't spend their leisure time together. Marriages can't survive if they're not nurtured. That means she should go to games some Saturdays and he should go see the new twilight movie in the theatre and there should be some things that you both love doing together. Compromise and common interests.
This is what happens when a female subordinate wants to take advantage of a male boss. Seen it time and time again. Men, let this be a lesson to all of you who are in positions of authority over females.
cheated on before

Huntington, WV

#42 Sep 4, 2013
Dude, what you did was show just how hard up you are for attention. Only desperate people cheat, and only sick people with no morals cheat so easily. Alcohol doesn't do a damn thing but bring out your true emotions and its obvious that you only care about you. When we are younger, we break up with people but when we are married, we cheat and continue the marriage. Grow some freakin balls. You should have told your slut secretary to wait until you told your wife you wanted a divorce. Your secretary deserves her ass kicked over and over again and if I knew who it was, I would do it myself. The point of marriage is not to cheat....that is the point. You made that promise when you got married and you should have gotten divorced if were going to be such a slut yourself. There is no excuse, there is no reason, other than you are just a selfish pig of a man. What's worse, I bet you even went home and had sex with your wife, or at least have had sex since. Your dick should be cut off and shoved up your own ass since that is the only feeling you care about. There are other stages of love and its obvious you have no sense of what a true man is really supposed to be. I hope you rot in hell for causing what is ultimately going to be the scar of her life that she will never recover from. And your whore.....well, you see her everyday and I am sure it will happen again. She should have a big W cut into her face like a Scarlet letter. You both had sex because you wanted to, plain and simple. There is no excuse and I hope you are lonely for the rest of your life and get some horrible disease that causes you to spend the rest of your life regretting what a piece of shit human you are.
girl

Saint Albans, WV

#43 Sep 4, 2013
man among men wrote:
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This is what happens when a female subordinate wants to take advantage of a male boss. Seen it time and time again. Men, let this be a lesson to all of you who are in positions of authority over females.
You are putting all the blame on the secretary? Wow. Just WOW.

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