Cheated on my wife at the MARSHALL GA...

Cheated on my wife at the MARSHALL GAME Saturday

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low life husband

Saint Louis, MO

#1 Sep 3, 2013
In a bit of a dilemma.

Saturday after the game, I cheated on my wife while she was at home and I am trying to figure out if I should tell her or not.

I had too much to drink and my secretary gave me a ride home. We had been flirting some during the tailgate and after the game but I thought it was just us having some fun with each other.

Anyways, on the way to my house, she started rubbing my leg and pulled over behind value city furniture and started telling me how good looking I was and she wished her husband was more like me. I was very flattered and she started kissing me. I was drunk and did not really know how to say no. It was weird. I can't explain it, but we ended up having oral and intercourse in her car.

I am going to get a STD test and will await the results before telling my wife, if I tell her at all. I am not sure what to do honestly.

When I got to work today, we both acted like nothing ever happened. Like I said, it's weird.

I feel very guilty because my wife is awesome to me. We actually fooled around when I got home but I ended up passing out before we could get our clothes off. I am kinda glad because she might have smelled the other woman if you get what I am saying.

I am not looking to be bullied on here, just trying to determine if I should tell her or let it wide. Been married a little over an year and don't want to mess up a good thing.
low life husband

Saint Louis, MO

#2 Sep 3, 2013
*or let it ride (not wide). sorry about the typo.
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cheerleader

Greensburg, PA

#4 Sep 3, 2013
Important question did you have fun at the game lol?
Rev Turtlebaum

Chesapeake, OH

#5 Sep 3, 2013
Tell her??!!
Lord no!!
Hit it again!
Hell yes!

The Rev
Game Day

France

#6 Sep 3, 2013
low life husband wrote:
In a bit of a dilemma.
Saturday after the game, I cheated on my wife while she was at home and I am trying to figure out if I should tell her or not.
I had too much to drink and my secretary gave me a ride home. We had been flirting some during the tailgate and after the game but I thought it was just us having some fun with each other.
Anyways, on the way to my house, she started rubbing my leg and pulled over behind value city furniture and started telling me how good looking I was and she wished her husband was more like me. I was very flattered and she started kissing me. I was drunk and did not really know how to say no. It was weird. I can't explain it, but we ended up having oral and intercourse in her car.
I am going to get a STD test and will await the results before telling my wife, if I tell her at all. I am not sure what to do honestly.
When I got to work today, we both acted like nothing ever happened. Like I said, it's weird.
I feel very guilty because my wife is awesome to me. We actually fooled around when I got home but I ended up passing out before we could get our clothes off. I am kinda glad because she might have smelled the other woman if you get what I am saying.
I am not looking to be bullied on here, just trying to determine if I should tell her or let it wide. Been married a little over an year and don't want to mess up a good thing.
Go thing you had your "herd on" hahahahaha. In all seriousness, don't say anything if it was a one and done deal. Let it go.
Hammie Downs

Springfield, VA

#7 Sep 3, 2013
Game Day wrote:
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Go thing you had your "herd on" hahahahaha. In all seriousness, don't say anything if it was a one and done deal. Let it go.
I agree and add that you should make it up to her everyday for the rest of your life.
kajhg

Chesapeake, VA

#8 Sep 3, 2013
low life husband wrote:
*or let it ride (not wide). sorry about the typo.
It's OK about the typo. I'm sure she was enjoying herself at the same time, at home, in bed, no TV, no ball game. You know!
betrayed

Saint Albans, WV

#9 Sep 3, 2013
low life husband wrote:
In a bit of a dilemma.
Saturday after the game, I cheated on my wife while she was at home and I am trying to figure out if I should tell her or not.
I had too much to drink and my secretary gave me a ride home. We had been flirting some during the tailgate and after the game but I thought it was just us having some fun with each other.
Anyways, on the way to my house, she started rubbing my leg and pulled over behind value city furniture and started telling me how good looking I was and she wished her husband was more like me. I was very flattered and she started kissing me. I was drunk and did not really know how to say no. It was weird. I can't explain it, but we ended up having oral and intercourse in her car.
I am going to get a STD test and will await the results before telling my wife, if I tell her at all. I am not sure what to do honestly.
When I got to work today, we both acted like nothing ever happened. Like I said, it's weird.
I feel very guilty because my wife is awesome to me. We actually fooled around when I got home but I ended up passing out before we could get our clothes off. I am kinda glad because she might have smelled the other woman if you get what I am saying.
I am not looking to be bullied on here, just trying to determine if I should tell her or let it wide. Been married a little over an year and don't want to mess up a good thing.
You're doomed. You cheated within a year or so of getting married...you sound like great marriage material.
Dr Ruth

Chesapeake, VA

#10 Sep 3, 2013
low life husband wrote:
In a bit of a dilemma.
Saturday after the game, I cheated on my wife while she was at home and I am trying to figure out if I should tell her or not.
I had too much to drink and my secretary gave me a ride home. We had been flirting some during the tailgate and after the game but I thought it was just us having some fun with each other.
Anyways, on the way to my house, she started rubbing my leg and pulled over behind value city furniture and started telling me how good looking I was and she wished her husband was more like me. I was very flattered and she started kissing me. I was drunk and did not really know how to say no. It was weird. I can't explain it, but we ended up having oral and intercourse in her car.
I am going to get a STD test and will await the results before telling my wife, if I tell her at all. I am not sure what to do honestly.
When I got to work today, we both acted like nothing ever happened. Like I said, it's weird.
I feel very guilty because my wife is awesome to me. We actually fooled around when I got home but I ended up passing out before we could get our clothes off. I am kinda glad because she might have smelled the other woman if you get what I am saying.
I am not looking to be bullied on here, just trying to determine if I should tell her or let it wide. Been married a little over an year and don't want to mess up a good thing.
You don't have a good thing, you know she doesn't love you, if you did know you wouldn't have cheated on her. You are not for sure if she has been true to you and it is bothering you. And now you will never, ever know. It's for sure that you don't love her, both of your lives will be in shambles from now on..You won't even be able to go your seperate ways..Go have anpthe drink, get drunk, pass out, cause you don't know what your wife is doing at those times...
really

Wichita, KS

#11 Sep 3, 2013
The worst kind of person is one who says "but I was drunk".. you will no doubt do it again. Why wasn't your wife at the game with you.? Now don't say she had the kids or that she dosent like football. You put yourself in this situation. Why didn't your buddy give you a ride home....ummmm. You wanted it, so don't use the excuse that you were drunk. Your secretary is just trying to get a raise..lol.. no pun intended.. and is easy and you are a dick. One year married. Go ahead and tell our wife now because it will happen again with your secretary. It will save you and your wife a lot of heartache. Tell her now, dickweed.
Hah

Faber, VA

#12 Sep 3, 2013
Touchdown! Sounds like someone had a Herd On!!!:)
woohoo

Ona, WV

#13 Sep 3, 2013
can I meet you at a diff parking lot?
Idk

Front Royal, VA

#14 Sep 3, 2013
You are probably screwed. Don't know your secretary, but I'm guessing she has some sort of agenda. You shouldn't sh!t where you eat. She owns you now.
Stfu

Huntington, WV

#15 Sep 3, 2013
Well either way. I think u should tell her. It's the right thing to do. But now that u have cheated she is going to cheat on you. Maybe not soon but believe me, she definitely will be giving some upside down poon cake in the future because you couldn't stick to your vows. U r a fool not to tell her
Dr Faggott

Chesapeake, OH

#16 Sep 3, 2013
I think u dreamed this up. Sounds like a penthouse letter.

Since: Dec 11

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#17 Sep 3, 2013
Well.....so much for you not wanting to be bullied. Guess some folks can't help it. I do believe the "root" of your actions was probably too much alcohol. It's caused worse things to happen!!! My only suggestion is to consider the type of personality your wife has. Basically, can she forgive and not constantly bring up the past? Then tell her. If she has a pattern of not being able to do that....do not tell her. Whatever you choose to do....you must limit your consumption of alcohol AND totally separate yourself from this other woman. Yes, I know she works for you but you can separate yourself emotionally from her. Think it would also be a good idea to have your wife with you ANYTIME their might be a possibility of you being around the secretary outside of work. Good luck. I'm sure in time you will do what you think is best. "Not hate'n....just try'n to help!!
You are horrible

Kenova, WV

#18 Sep 3, 2013
If your wife was so awesome you wouldn't have betrayed her like you did. Please do tell her. That way she can move on. a cheater is a cheater and you will do it again, and she will too just to get back at you. and the cycle will just go on and on and repeat itself.
haha

Saint Albans, WV

#19 Sep 4, 2013
Dr Faggott wrote:
I think u dreamed this up. Sounds like a penthouse letter.
Lol
Silent majority

Chesapeake, OH

#20 Sep 4, 2013
Typical weak mined huntington scum...if i knew your wife i would tell her.
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Hammie Downs

Glen Allen, VA

#22 Sep 4, 2013
Silent majority wrote:
Typical weak mined huntington scum...if i knew your wife i would tell her.
Is the "Silent" part of your name supposed to be ironic?

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