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Can Facebook ruin your relationship with your bf or gf?

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Mr Good bar

Chesapeake, OH

#1 Jul 8, 2013
Can it?
sallyjean

Huntington, WV

#2 Jul 8, 2013
Yes it can, I really believe that. Folks feel obligated to approve a friendship request with past lovers or friends who might cause problems....sometimes those approvals welcome private messages which are not always as private as one would hope.

I also think some people start using facebook way to often and spend more time on facebook and the games then they do with the real needs of their relationship.

Add to it that when we are upset we sometimes post things that we would not normally have said which can cause embarrassment or hurt to the other person and you have a site which can be dangerous.

Not saying facebook is a bad thing...but used correctly in moderation and honestly it can be lots of fun.

With that being said, if you get requests from ex's save yourself the trouble and don't approve them.
wifey

Avella, PA

#3 Jul 8, 2013
Facebook doesn't ruin relationships - Facebook users without discretion or respect for their significant others ruin relationships.
Tommie

Huntington, WV

#4 Jul 8, 2013
Facebook can for sure
marshall peters

United States

#5 Jul 8, 2013
Yes it can if you are Insecure of your bf or gf. I would worry if he or she was flirting on there liking same persons photos over and over again and accepting friend request's from Xs and acting like its not a big deal. Or from people that you how they really are and people on there that puts on Front on fb. Or if he or she puts you on restricted list if you go to there page and can't see nothing then more than Likely they have something to hide and they don't want you to know. I would worry if Those type of things happens on fb if your bf or gf those type of this trust me if they are scandlous and sneaky check there inbox if they let you the truth is in there inbox and there chats. So yes fb can ruin your relationship on fb its shame to
Level 3

Since: Jun 13

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#6 Jul 9, 2013
Facebook is useless and if you have a facebook then chances are you a loser
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Ash.

Lewisburg, WV

#8 Jul 11, 2013
I'm married and both my wife and I use Facebook. We don't have problems, if you don't trust your spouse then that's something you need to work on. Crazy, insecure, women/men cause problems in their relationship and then blame Facebook because you liked someone's status or photo.
wildcat

Chesapeake, OH

#9 Jul 11, 2013
Facebook is not good if your a jealous person that's for sure only confident and secure people being adults should have FB you have to trust your partner and that's the bottom line.
truth

United States

#10 Jul 11, 2013
The truth is in there inbox and chat But there is such of a thing of Overly flirting or crossing the line on FB if you have a GF or BF. Just ask yourself when you like that girls or guys pics over and over on FB will my girl or BF get mad.
ummm

Faber, VA

#11 Jul 11, 2013
Facebook doesn't ruin relationships, people who have no respect for their spouses ruin relationships. We're adults, we know right from wrong, and people choose to do inappropriate things on FB.
crow

Saint Albans, WV

#12 Jul 11, 2013
truth wrote:
The truth is in there inbox and chat But there is such of a thing of Overly flirting or crossing the line on FB if you have a GF or BF. Just ask yourself when you like that girls or guys pics over and over on FB will my girl or BF get mad.
Hello there Marshall Peters
Lycan

Huntington, IN

#13 Jul 11, 2013
GYM TEACHER wrote:
Facebook is useless and if you have a facebook then chances are you a loser
Haha! So true.
Lycan

Huntington, IN

#14 Jul 11, 2013
wildcat wrote:
Facebook is not good if your a jealous person that's for sure only confident and secure people being adults should have FB you have to trust your partner and that's the bottom line.
Sure, nothing says "confident secure adult" like virtual networking with a check the "Like" box.

Facebook builds secure confident adults like water rings builds olympic swimmers.

Sure you got that perfect picture with one take, and making a duckface does make you look sexy, and all the bitches n ho`s do think you are original making it rain, planking, and all the other stupid shit.

Yep

Hurricane, WV

#15 Jul 12, 2013
It sure can
truth

Saint Albans, WV

#16 Jul 12, 2013
absolutely, people do evil things behind the keyboard like it's not real life.
Level 3

Since: Jun 13

Location hidden

#17 Jul 15, 2013
Facebook or a computer itself can ruin a marriage.
Yes

United States

#18 Aug 12, 2013
Yes it can,its messing mine up
Anon

Huntington, WV

#19 Aug 12, 2013
I can't believe people are blaming inanimate objects for ruining relationships. POOR JUDGEMENT ruins relationships, not Facebook and not computers. If your partner is messaging/liking/commenting/et c. something you're not comfortable with, it's your job to discuss it with him- it's not Facebook's fault. It's your partner's fault if he/she messages someone and flirts with them- not Facebook.

If you trust your partner and have good communication, no problems arise from it! Heck, if you REALLY trust each other and have nothing to hide, you'd know each other's password. If your partner refuses to give it to you, that's when there's a problem.

Since: Aug 13

United States

#20 Aug 12, 2013
Yes it can
Anon

Huntington, WV

#21 Aug 12, 2013
Cookie98 wrote:
Yes it can
Prove it.

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