Are some people born losers?

Are some people born losers?

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Curious

Huntington, WV

#1 Nov 30, 2011
I think some people are born to serve a purpose and others are here to purposely serve .. so unfortunately yes, some people are born losers..they follow in their loser families foot steps and become exactly the same thing there parents are.
Huh

Huntington, WV

#2 Nov 30, 2011
Some people think that whether or not you are going to succeed or fail in life is determined at birth. They think that some people are born losers and other people are born winners. For sure some people are born more fortunate than others. Good looking people generally have better odds of succeeding in life than ordinary people. Ugly people tend not to be very fortunate. In fact there was once a study conducted to prove that ugly people are more likely to end up as criminals while beautiful people are more likely to end up rich and important. It’s not that hard to see how that could be arguably more true than false. When you’re ugly people want to make fun of you and hurt you. When you’re beautiful people want to build shrines to worship you. They want to pave a path of gold at your feet.
Beautiful people can fail in life and ugly people can succeed, but you definitely have an advantage if you’re beautiful and a disadvantage if you’re not. The same applies if you’re born smarter than the average person. Your brain gives you an advantage. Talent also gives you an advantage. It’s not that some people are born losers while others are born winners. Some people just have more advantages than others and because of their advantages it’s easier for them to get ahead where others keep struggling and often never get anywhere.
It’s sometimes tempting to think that some people should just give up trying because nothing they do will ever result in winning because losing is wired in their DNA, but no one is born a loser. It’s just easy for some people to win because of their beauty, their brains or their various talents, and harder for others because they are either average or below average in every way. When you’re average or below average doors don’t open for you typically so you have to find a way to break them down. Sometimes it takes a lifetime.
Teflon

Huntington, WV

#3 Nov 30, 2011
Huh wrote:
Some people think that whether or not you are going to succeed or fail in life is determined at birth. They think that some people are born losers and other people are born winners. For sure some people are born more fortunate than others. Good looking people generally have better odds of succeeding in life than ordinary people. Ugly people tend not to be very fortunate. In fact there was once a study conducted to prove that ugly people are more likely to end up as criminals while beautiful people are more likely to end up rich and important. It’s not that hard to see how that could be arguably more true than false. When you’re ugly people want to make fun of you and hurt you. When you’re beautiful people want to build shrines to worship you. They want to pave a path of gold at your feet.
Beautiful people can fail in life and ugly people can succeed, but you definitely have an advantage if you’re beautiful and a disadvantage if you’re not. The same applies if you’re born smarter than the average person. Your brain gives you an advantage. Talent also gives you an advantage. It’s not that some people are born losers while others are born winners. Some people just have more advantages than others and because of their advantages it’s easier for them to get ahead where others keep struggling and often never get anywhere.
It’s sometimes tempting to think that some people should just give up trying because nothing they do will ever result in winning because losing is wired in their DNA, but no one is born a loser. It’s just easy for some people to win because of their beauty, their brains or their various talents, and harder for others because they are either average or below average in every way. When you’re average or below average doors don’t open for you typically so you have to find a way to break them down. Sometimes it takes a lifetime.
Very well said and I agree completely.
BornIn69

Huntington, WV

#4 Nov 30, 2011
Life is what you make of it You make your own destiny plain and simple. People choose to be what they become either by drive or lack there of doesn't matter of your history or family history.
The Ghastly One

AOL

#5 Nov 30, 2011
Huh wrote:
Some people think that whether or not you are going to succeed or fail in life is determined at birth. They think that some people are born losers and other people are born winners. For sure some people are born more fortunate than others. Good looking people generally have better odds of succeeding in life than ordinary people. Ugly people tend not to be very fortunate. In fact there was once a study conducted to prove that ugly people are more likely to end up as criminals while beautiful people are more likely to end up rich and important. It’s not that hard to see how that could be arguably more true than false. When you’re ugly people want to make fun of you and hurt you. When you’re beautiful people want to build shrines to worship you. They want to pave a path of gold at your feet.
Beautiful people can fail in life and ugly people can succeed, but you definitely have an advantage if you’re beautiful and a disadvantage if you’re not. The same applies if you’re born smarter than the average person. Your brain gives you an advantage. Talent also gives you an advantage. It’s not that some people are born losers while others are born winners. Some people just have more advantages than others and because of their advantages it’s easier for them to get ahead where others keep struggling and often never get anywhere.
It’s sometimes tempting to think that some people should just give up trying because nothing they do will ever result in winning because losing is wired in their DNA, but no one is born a loser. It’s just easy for some people to win because of their beauty, their brains or their various talents, and harder for others because they are either average or below average in every way. When you’re average or below average doors don’t open for you typically so you have to find a way to break them down. Sometimes it takes a lifetime.
You are saying something profound.
aweshet

Monticello, IN

#6 Jan 13, 2012
well I used to beat my friends at video games all the time.. but then I would do bad in school..
Waiting for Internet

Huntington, WV

#7 Jan 14, 2012
INTERESTING question! "Huh" really put it brilliantly. I agree with all of that, and would add...I think that we do a disservice to our children by giving them grossly exaggerated senses of accomplishment by giving trophies just for showing up, stickers for just handing in the paper at school, you know? All kids should be loved and treated kindly, but I think that kids raised in the manner I just described are knocked down HARD when they step into the real world. I think some of them never recover from the blow to their self-esteem, and...that produces losers. Sad but true, I think.
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Andrew Moulton

Morgantown, WV

#10 Feb 6, 2012
im so gay that i have aids now and I'm rotting away...... and I'm sooo retarded that i go to dean collleege i suck at spelling and i i fail at life since I'm too dumb to be in a REAL college cause i have the IQ of 0 I'm butt ugly, i might as i well jump off a cliff i AM a worthless piece of shit and i realize i cannot be redeemed since i am gay....... since I know God hates faggots and i am one boo hoooo i have buttonhole aids:(:(:(:(:( aids sucks:(
Andrew Moulton

Morgantown, WV

#11 Feb 6, 2012
I'm dirty whitetrash and since i go to dean........im a worthless human being and I'm soooo gayyy
resident

United States

#12 Feb 6, 2012
city judge sharon frazier, cop gary queen, james porter, janette perdue, mary lake- ass. city attorney, all of the above have threaten people with the people no place to turn for justice. yes huntington and its finest. you should be very pround as i know that you are, amoungt's your own kind. when the day comes u retire, dont try to fit in with the civilian population, stay with your own garbage.
DeputyDawg

Huntington, WV

#13 Feb 6, 2012
"Are some people born losers?"

I think that people can be born into families where there is a very high percentage of addiction, alcoholism, and frankly, let's be blunt...actual insanity.
So kids born into those families, in my opinion, have as hard a row to hoe as a child born with visible physical handicaps. They may not REMAIN losers, if they get a good education and can escape the screwed up family...but it is always incredibly difficult.

As an example, read post #12, and imagine that this person was your parent. It's safe to imagine that the poster probably has a reputation around town, because of statements like the above. So imagine being the child of such a person, trying to go to school and such. People laugh and make fun, even though the child is innocent. So, in a way...yes, some people are born losers, but it doesn't mean they will always be so.
resident

United States

#14 Feb 6, 2012
pigs are pigs no matter how much or how little deputy dog. you are prime example. a looser cop who thinks his crap dont stink untill he abuses the one he is suppose toprotect. bet this educated deputy beats the hell out of his handcuffed crimminal. so who is the educated crimminal. why dont you brag how wonderful educated deputy that you are. i love it when the deputy thinks every one else is a looser but him and his highly traine thugs. after all you are the LAW, are you not, you piece of illiterate garbage. lie face down in the puddle.
resident

United States

#15 Feb 6, 2012
hey deputy dog, how about the L.A. (looser) cop beingcharged with MURDER. yes i would say looser's come in all sizes, sex, educated, and the uneducated, come back deputy DOG, i will say no more about you, just open your eyes about looser's that you so fondly like to call people who tell things as they really are. so that everyone on this thread knows, that cop's, lawyers, judge's, including daycare givers, are also known to be loosers also. you have no damn idea, you deputy Dog are a danger to civiliaztion, you and your ilk. i guess i have made my point, ofcourse you may believe what you may, that mydear cop is what makes you a looser. find a new job and quit bulleying people that you do not know. a permant sign off, i can not say enough about people like you. stay unsafe and may karma or the other pigs do you in. may God have mercy on your family and friends, cause you certainly do not have what you may think. and that DEPUTY DOG is a fact, you permant looser.
Andrew Moulton

Ann Arbor, MI

#16 Feb 10, 2012
i go to dean and i AM a HARDCORE LOSER! i have no life i am a weird creeper who stalks boys from ALL ages and I like small dicks........ cause my confidence is just as SMALL as my own i feel so ashamed waking up every morning , the mirror shatters! whyyyy meeee i stink like poo poo, I'm constipated, I'm fat( i weigh 559 pounds), mentally ill, wear diapers still(I'm 25 and still a freshman in college) and I'm a loser who's studying fashion marketing what a gayyy major I'm taking...... shows my brain size and I'm a anime nerd who jacks off to anime porn.......someone helppp me
Zuchanambenezzar nioisjene

Ann Arbor, MI

#17 Feb 10, 2012
life sucks just deal with it but there is hope! i will help you young man just keep up bro you will be alright and God loves you:) i will pray for you kid you will be alright life gets better don't worry
Zuchanambenezzar nioisjene

Ann Arbor, MI

#18 Feb 10, 2012
Life gets better:) always keep your faith up
SannDigger

Huntington, WV

#19 Feb 11, 2012
According to the thread about misuse of "lose" and "loose" there is a guy out there with a tattoo that reads "Born to Loose". So perhaps some people are born losers and some are even born loosers.
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brian vela

Morgantown, WV

#21 Feb 18, 2012
hi im a loser who goes to wvu and i have no life at all:( no one talks or hangs out with me i have a square shaped head and a ugly fat nose and i think I'm going gay:( and I'm the ugliest peruvian fag you will ever see since i went to catholic school I'm pretty much a loser who has nothing going for me, with poor, ugly, fat abusive parents who hate my existence
gandalf the white

Morgantown, WV

#22 Feb 18, 2012
there is always hope no matter what i believe as long as someone works hard and tries hard they will NOT be losers and they will be alright
Rita

Bluefield, WV

#23 Feb 18, 2012
BornIn69 wrote:
Life is what you make of it You make your own destiny plain and simple. People choose to be what they become either by drive or lack there of doesn't matter of your history or family history.
you are plain and simple.

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