Best friend will not talk to me after...

Best friend will not talk to me after he gave me oral?

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open minded

Saint Albans, WV

#1 Jul 16, 2013
On the fourth of july, me and a good friend of mine since junior high, went out together because girlfiends was doing there thing,
We crash at my place since it was closer then his place in milton,

Well in the middle of the night I was woke up to him doing his thing to me, I was shocked, I think but I didn't stop it,
It was weird but I think of my self as open minded,

The next morning I joked about it but told him that I didn't want that to happen again, but Im glad I experience it with him. now few weeks later, he will not answer my calls and he missed my 21st birthday,

Can anyone tell me whats up?
I dont care if your
straight
bi
gay
female
male.
I like to know wtf, if anything he violated me. lol
but I dont care, just thought he want it, since he stole it from me. I feel really cheap.
and the bad point of this, I dont care what you are.
I just chalked it up as a new experience.
anyone serious advice would be great. what should I do about this?
Should I confront him about this ? I feel like a school girl after a one night stand!
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open minded

Saint Albans, WV

#3 Jul 16, 2013
Dont everyone just in there at the same time!

Its not like I can go over my buddies house and pop a beer and tell him about this shit.

come on someone ...has to know something..hell lie to me! lol
Hmmm

Faber, VA

#4 Jul 16, 2013
Honestly I don't know what to say. Maybe he wants to be more then friends and you hurt his feelings when you said it couldn't happen again. Or maybe he wants to be friends with benefits.
haha

Vienna, WV

#5 Jul 16, 2013
open minded wrote:
On the fourth of july, me and a good friend of mine since junior high, went out together because girlfiends was doing there thing,
We crash at my place since it was closer then his place in milton,
Well in the middle of the night I was woke up to him doing his thing to me, I was shocked, I think but I didn't stop it,
It was weird but I think of my self as open minded,
The next morning I joked about it but told him that I didn't want that to happen again, but Im glad I experience it with him. now few weeks later, he will not answer my calls and he missed my 21st birthday,
Can anyone tell me whats up?
I dont care if your
straight
bi
gay
female
male.
I like to know wtf, if anything he violated me. lol
but I dont care, just thought he want it, since he stole it from me. I feel really cheap.
and the bad point of this, I dont care what you are.
I just chalked it up as a new experience.
anyone serious advice would be great. what should I do about this?
Should I confront him about this ? I feel like a school girl after a one night stand!
Maybe you gave him mouth herpes lol
YourCousin

Logan, WV

#6 Jul 16, 2013
open minded wrote:
On the fourth of july, me and a good friend of mine since junior high, went out together because girlfiends was doing there thing,
We crash at my place since it was closer then his place in milton,
Well in the middle of the night I was woke up to him doing his thing to me, I was shocked, I think but I didn't stop it,
It was weird but I think of my self as open minded,
The next morning I joked about it but told him that I didn't want that to happen again, but Im glad I experience it with him. now few weeks later, he will not answer my calls and he missed my 21st birthday,
Can anyone tell me whats up?
I dont care if your
straight
bi
gay
female
male.
I like to know wtf, if anything he violated me. lol
but I dont care, just thought he want it, since he stole it from me. I feel really cheap.
and the bad point of this, I dont care what you are.
I just chalked it up as a new experience.
anyone serious advice would be great. what should I do about this?
Should I confront him about this ? I feel like a school girl after a one night stand!
Were cousins,I'm ashamed of what happend to us!
open minded

Saint Albans, WV

#7 Jul 16, 2013
YourCousin wrote:
<quoted text>Were cousins,I'm ashamed of what happend to us!
lol....not
crazy experience

Chesapeake, OH

#8 Jul 17, 2013
One night my buddy and I was over at his place while his parents were out of town.. we got into their alcohol and had a few drinks.. so us horsing around. . I spill some stuff on my shorts.. well we decide I should toss them in the wash machine. . So im sitting on his bed with nothing but a towel on.. I lay back an doze off for a sec pretyy intoxicated. . I awake with the towel undone and my buddies hand on my d*ck.. I kinda open my eyes enough to see whats going on but not enough to alert him.. I notice hes naked and his D really hard.. he continues to jack me off for a minute or so.. than starts sucking my D.. hes really into it and doing well at it.. I realize really whats going on.. which makes my D even harder and I cum all in his mouth.. he slowly lays back and starts jacking himself off. . After a couple of minutes of him looking at my D an jacking. . He cums everywhere. . I roll over to have him start liking my a$$.. thaan I pass out.. we woke an never spoke a word of it.. we are still friends to this day..
sure

Oakvale, WV

#9 Jul 17, 2013
crazy experience wrote:
One night my buddy and I was over at his place while his parents were out of town.. we got into their alcohol and had a few drinks.. so us horsing around.. I spill some stuff on my shorts.. well we decide I should toss them in the wash machine.. So im sitting on his bed with nothing but a towel on.. I lay back an doze off for a sec pretyy intoxicated.. I awake with the towel undone and my buddies hand on my d*ck.. I kinda open my eyes enough to see whats going on but not enough to alert him.. I notice hes naked and his D really hard.. he continues to jack me off for a minute or so.. than starts sucking my D.. hes really into it and doing well at it.. I realize really whats going on.. which makes my D even harder and I cum all in his mouth.. he slowly lays back and starts jacking himself off.. After a couple of minutes of him looking at my D an jacking.. He cums everywhere.. I roll over to have him start liking my a$$.. thaan I pass out.. we woke an never spoke a word of it.. we are still friends to this day..
You have a vivid imagination. I'm sure this is a fantasy of yours, but I'm doubting that it actually happened.
suckfick

Chesapeake, OH

#10 Jul 17, 2013
Maybe your wiener tasted bad
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crazy experience too

Chesapeake, OH

#12 Jul 17, 2013
sure wrote:
<quoted text>
You have a vivid imagination. I'm sure this is a fantasy of yours, but I'm doubting that it actually happened.
Ive done this with a friend to but I would get him shit faced and when he would pass out I sucked his "D" I did it all the time I think he woke up a time or two but he did not stop me so I kept on sucking until he came on me. We was kids then I still get off thinking about it
tlc

Ashburn, VA

#13 Jul 17, 2013
open minded wrote:
On the fourth of july, me and a good friend of mine since junior high, went out together because girlfiends was doing there thing,
We crash at my place since it was closer then his place in milton,
Well in the middle of the night I was woke up to him doing his thing to me, I was shocked, I think but I didn't stop it,
It was weird but I think of my self as open minded,
The next morning I joked about it but told him that I didn't want that to happen again, but Im glad I experience it with him. now few weeks later, he will not answer my calls and he missed my 21st birthday,
Can anyone tell me whats up?
I dont care if your
straight
bi
gay
female
male.
I like to know wtf, if anything he violated me. lol
but I dont care, just thought he want it, since he stole it from me. I feel really cheap.
and the bad point of this, I dont care what you are.
I just chalked it up as a new experience.
anyone serious advice would be great. what should I do about this?
Should I confront him about this ? I feel like a school girl after a one night stand!
sounds like he got embarrassed sweetie. And yes, he definitely violated you. Friends or not... That's considered rape. You didn't know what was going on until it happened. You gave him no consent but then again you didn't stop it. He should've known better. If he's not answering your calls, you should just show up at his house and tell him you guys need to have a conversation because it's something that needs to be addressed. Don't beat yourself up over it tho. Good Luck :)
right idea

Ashburn, VA

#14 Jul 17, 2013
Last poster has the right idea here, I know it's gonna be awkward, probably one of the most awkward moments you'll have in your life, but if it's a good friend, then you need to work past it, only way to do that is to be the bigger man and step forward, initiate the conversation, and try to salvage your friendship. it's the best way, good luck.
Bobby

Chesapeake, OH

#15 Jul 17, 2013
Give him a reach around.
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open minded

Saint Albans, WV

#17 Jul 17, 2013
tlc wrote:
<quoted text> sounds like he got embarrassed sweetie. And yes, he definitely violated you. Friends or not... That's considered rape. You didn't know what was going on until it happened. You gave him no consent but then again you didn't stop it. He should've known better. If he's not answering your calls, you should just show up at his house and tell him you guys need to have a conversation because it's something that needs to be addressed. Don't beat yourself up over it tho. Good Luck :)
Yeah thanks, I did talk with him, I went to his house when I knew the girls would be some place together.

when he open his he didn't say anything but left the door open and I went in, I try to start to talk about it and he got really mad at me. called me crazy. said he knew I couldn't handle it and he should of never done it.

He went to the door and told me to leave and not to come back.
I almost cryed. lol

but then I start to think!!!!

He is a psych major. Is he fucking with me.

I was so pissed about it , I told my girlfriend.
She told me more stuff then I wanted.

She was bi and she has been with my friend and his girl friend at the same time. told me that he was wanting to get with me and her at the same time!

wtf have I walked into. I thought I knew these people.

Is it wrong I left and dont plan to back never this girl or guy?

Why do I feel like Im in a bad twilight zone!
I do care for this girl alot. but I dont think I want to be with her and ever talk to zack again.

but I feel like I been betrayed?
would it be wrong to throw these guys off?
tlc

Ashburn, VA

#18 Jul 17, 2013
open minded wrote:
<quoted text>
Yeah thanks, I did talk with him, I went to his house when I knew the girls would be some place together.
when he open his he didn't say anything but left the door open and I went in, I try to start to talk about it and he got really mad at me. called me crazy. said he knew I couldn't handle it and he should of never done it.
He went to the door and told me to leave and not to come back.
I almost cryed. lol
but then I start to think!!!!
He is a psych major. Is he fucking with me.
I was so pissed about it , I told my girlfriend.
She told me more stuff then I wanted.
She was bi and she has been with my friend and his girl friend at the same time. told me that he was wanting to get with me and her at the same time!
wtf have I walked into. I thought I knew these people.
Is it wrong I left and dont plan to back never this girl or guy?
Why do I feel like Im in a bad twilight zone!
I do care for this girl alot. but I dont think I want to be with her and ever talk to zack again.
but I feel like I been betrayed?
would it be wrong to throw these guys off?
Pardon my language but I would've beat the shit outta him! He violated you while you were sleeping.. how dare him.. and he calls himself a friend? Friends don't hurt friends and they sure as hell don't take advantage of an innocent girl who is sleeping! I'm sorry this happened to you. Apparently he wasn't raised with morals and taught how to respect women and boundaries. He's disgusting and he knows what he did was wrong or else hwouldn't have been avoiding you or treating you like crap when you showed up at his house. He's very fortunate you didn't go to the police and tell them what happened. As far as the girlfriend goes... I'd drop her. How can she care about you truly, knowing another friend took advantage of you? She needs her ass beat too in my opinion. Friends don't hurt each other, and real friends would be there supporting you and definitely have your back. I'm sorry this happened to you.. NO FEMALE should ever have to go thru something like that. Karma will take care of him, don't worry. One day he's gonna try the same thing with the wrong female and he's either gonna end up in prison for a long time or get killed. But again, don't beat yourself up over it... just know you can't really trust anybody, especially so called friends. I do hope you believe in Karma because you don't go thru life, hurting people and it not come back on you. I hope this helped somewhat. You'll get past this.. it'll take some time but don't let losers affect you and definitely don't EVER let a guy do whatever he wants with you unless it's mutual. I wish you the best. Keep us updated.. I'd like to know that you're doing okay :)
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#19 Jul 17, 2013
Well its very simple. Hes queer and wants you to be queer with him. He achieved that goal. You are now a fa##ot boy. Go ahead and go pick out some makeup and a purse. Congrats homo!
suckfick

Chesapeake, OH

#20 Jul 17, 2013
So if he is Zack, are u Slater? Always knew these two were but pirates
open minded

Saint Albans, WV

#21 Jul 17, 2013
maybe you all dont know..but im a dude. He has been my best friends for years.
does it make you gay

United States

#22 Jul 17, 2013
Lmao does it make you gay if you got hard by reading this. I Totally did and I'm gay Wait a minute lmao I wonder...nahhhhhhh lmao
does it make you gay

United States

#23 Jul 17, 2013
Lmao does it make you gay if you got hard by reading this. I Totally did and I'M NOT gay Wait a minute lmao I wonder...nahhhhhhh lmao

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