boyfriend keeps wedding pictures afte...

boyfriend keeps wedding pictures after the divorce

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Miss wondering

Proctorville, OH

#1 Jul 7, 2014
I was just a little curious, I found my boyfriends wedding pictures (several) that he had recently got from his daughter (who is 16), I have saw his albums before but never saw wedding pictures, when I ask him he said "oh" my daughter brought them here, my question is why did he feel he had to hide this? and why are they on the head of his bed in a covered shelf? he's been divorced for several years. I have been with him for 6 years, but he will not get married to me says he doesnt love me enough to get married, and that was like 4 years into the relationship, I was just in shock to find these pictures that I never knew was even in our home,
How should I re-act to this?? Kinda pee'ed me off to be honest for the fact that he hide it
What

Ashland, KY

#2 Jul 7, 2014
Miss wondering wrote:
I was just a little curious, I found my boyfriends wedding pictures (several) that he had recently got from his daughter (who is 16), I have saw his albums before but never saw wedding pictures, when I ask him he said "oh" my daughter brought them here, my question is why did he feel he had to hide this? and why are they on the head of his bed in a covered shelf? he's been divorced for several years. I have been with him for 6 years, but he will not get married to me says he doesnt love me enough to get married, and that was like 4 years into the relationship, I was just in shock to find these pictures that I never knew was even in our home,
How should I re-act to this?? Kinda pee'ed me off to be honest for the fact that he hide it
He probably hid them because he knew you would act like this !!!!Sounds like he has been honest with you on marriage already but you want more !!!!
cough

Dunbar, WV

#3 Jul 7, 2014
Lol
David

Huntington, WV

#4 Jul 7, 2014
Leave his wedding pictures, he is an individual. What if he gets alzheimers when he is older, he deserves to have life marks available such as pictures. Maybe Wedding and Marriage is on his mind and you just mind your business until good times roll.
Miss Wondering

Proctorville, OH

#5 Jul 7, 2014
What wrote:
<quoted text>He probably hid them because he knew you would act like this !!!!Sounds like he has been honest with you on marriage already but you want more !!!!
it was a question there Mr perfect, just curious if it seemed odd, and I really dont care about marriage I dont need it!! and futhermore any man who wants to hide crap from their spouse or bf/gf needs to grow some balls and man up (js)
Miss Wondering

Proctorville, OH

#6 Jul 7, 2014
David wrote:
Leave his wedding pictures, he is an individual. What if he gets alzheimers when he is older, he deserves to have life marks available such as pictures. Maybe Wedding and Marriage is on his mind and you just mind your business until good times roll.
I dont mind the pictures I understand that, it's his kids mother, I would never try to change that, however he should have been open about it not hide it thats all Im saying
justwondering

United States

#7 Jul 7, 2014
How long do you think it will take before he loves you enough? Four years not long enough, so you've waited 2 more? For someone who doesn't need marriage, it must have came up in your conversation for him to let you know his true feelings!
But I see where he's coming from; why buy the milk if the cow's free?
Clinton Alpriel

Roanoke, VA

#8 Jul 7, 2014
Maybe you're not as pretty as the ex and he uses her pic for a good wankin session.
fluff

Ashland, KY

#9 Jul 7, 2014
Miss Wondering wrote:
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it was a question there Mr perfect, just curious if it seemed odd, and I really dont care about marriage I dont need it!! and futhermore any man who wants to hide crap from their spouse or bf/gf needs to grow some balls and man up (js)
Sounds like you have tore his balls off no wonder he hid them from you !!!!!
Miss wondering

Proctorville, OH

#10 Jul 8, 2014
justwondering wrote:
How long do you think it will take before he loves you enough? Four years not long enough, so you've waited 2 more? For someone who doesn't need marriage, it must have came up in your conversation for him to let you know his true feelings!
But I see where he's coming from; why buy the milk if the cow's free?
well known fact if your with someone and they dont marry you in the first 5 years then their not going to.. and yes it did I ask about it couple years back maybe 3 and that was the reply and your right why buy the cow when the milk is free
Miss wondering

Proctorville, OH

#11 Jul 8, 2014
Clinton Alpriel wrote:
Maybe you're not as pretty as the ex and he uses her pic for a good wankin session.
you just never know do you?? possible since he likes to do that to
memories

Point Pleasant, WV

#12 Jul 8, 2014
It's part of his past. He is allowed to keep them. His children can have them later.
Miss wondering

Proctorville, OH

#13 Jul 8, 2014
memories wrote:
It's part of his past. He is allowed to keep them. His children can have them later.
I understand that, yeah its his choice however it didnt have to be done in secretivity, I dont have a problem with it out right, but if your hiding it from me and he knows I will find them however I do make the bed and dust it Im going to see them, yeah his children are 18 and 16, they should want them.
Im divorced as well and I never kept my wedding pictures I burnt them, I didnt want anything to remind me of the hell I went through I did offfer them to my children which at the time was 14 and 16 they didnt want them either
steve

Madison Heights, VA

#14 Jul 8, 2014
Maybe his divorce wasnt what he wanted and hasnt re married in hope one day she wants him back. Id move on. 6 years and you still are so jelous of his ex its never going to go the way you want it too. You should go find you a guy thats never been married and has no past to be jelous of
huh

Elkview, WV

#15 Jul 8, 2014
Miss wondering wrote:
<quoted text> I understand that, yeah its his choice however it didnt have to be done in secretivity, I dont have a problem with it out right, but if your hiding it from me and he knows I will find them however I do make the bed and dust it Im going to see them, yeah his children are 18 and 16, they should want them.
Im divorced as well and I never kept my wedding pictures I burnt them, I didnt want anything to remind me of the hell I went through I did offfer them to my children which at the time was 14 and 16 they didnt want them either


So, you were with him while he was married? Do you really think he's going to marry someone who supported the idea of sleeping with a married man? Ever heard the saying "you can't make a hoe a housewife?" sorry, but it's true.
Big bear

Pittsburgh, PA

#16 Jul 8, 2014
So obviously if he had them in a cabinet on his bed y'all sleep in seperate rooms? Sounds healthy to me. Lol. I would never let that fly! That's what I'd be more worried about. My mother in law has her wedding pics from a previous marriage at my house bc her new husband won't allow it for some asshole reason.
miss wondering

Proctorville, OH

#17 Jul 9, 2014
huh wrote:
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So, you were with him while he was married? Do you really think he's going to marry someone who supported the idea of sleeping with a married man? Ever heard the saying "you can't make a hoe a housewife?" sorry, but it's true.
No I wasnt with him while he was married he was already divorced, where did you get that idea?
miss wondering

Proctorville, OH

#18 Jul 9, 2014
steve wrote:
Maybe his divorce wasnt what he wanted and hasnt re married in hope one day she wants him back. Id move on. 6 years and you still are so jelous of his ex its never going to go the way you want it too. You should go find you a guy thats never been married and has no past to be jelous of
...oh gosh, heck no, no jealousy here over the ex, and she's getting re-married, however your prolly right on never go the way I want it too in many different ways, and no if anything should happen we would split there will be no more guys in my life
miss wondering

Proctorville, OH

#19 Jul 9, 2014
Big bear wrote:
So obviously if he had them in a cabinet on his bed y'all sleep in seperate rooms? Sounds healthy to me. Lol. I would never let that fly! That's what I'd be more worried about. My mother in law has her wedding pics from a previous marriage at my house bc her new husband won't allow it for some asshole reason.
no we sleep in the same bed our headboard has a shelf on each side with a pull up door, and the albums where between the headboard and mattress, like I said I dont care that he has them thats not the problem, the thing was he recently just got the pics about 6 months ago, instead of him showing me or telling me about them he hide them
huh

Winfield, WV

#20 Jul 9, 2014
miss wondering wrote:
<quoted text> No I wasnt with him while he was married he was already divorced, where did you get that idea?


Because you stated that "he's been divorced for several years and I've been with him for 6 years."

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