Am I lesbian or just a freak?

Am I lesbian or just a freak?

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Curious

United States

#1 Jan 22, 2013
I am a 35 year old female, nice body, nice looks... I have never been with another woman BUT I get so turned on watching lesbian porn and fantasize about other woman even during sex with my husband. Does this mean I am a lesbian? Am I the only woman who does this?
Curious

Milton, WV

#2 Jan 22, 2013
Nope. Talk to your husband about it though, you might be surprised to hear his response......
now we know

Yukon, OK

#3 Jan 22, 2013
Curious wrote:
I am a 35 year old female, nice body, nice looks... I have never been with another woman BUT I get so turned on watching lesbian porn and fantasize about other woman even during sex with my husband. Does this mean I am a lesbian? Am I the only woman who does this?
Just curious I would say,ask your husband how he feels about your fantasies.Maybe he could indulge you,or you just might want to keep it a fantasy.It depends on the strength of your desire!Be it for sex or love.
now we know

Yukon, OK

#4 Jan 22, 2013
Curious wrote:
I am a 35 year old female, nice body, nice looks... I have never been with another woman BUT I get so turned on watching lesbian porn and fantasize about other woman even during sex with my husband. Does this mean I am a lesbian? Am I the only woman who does this?
By the way,my wife is turned on like that as well,so you are not alone!
lawz

Avella, PA

#5 Jan 22, 2013
my wife also digs some girl on girl porn. since she brought it up to me, we have had several threesome and foursome encounters, which she enjoyed quite a bit. I don't think that makes her a lesbian, though. Why not just enjoy whatever you enjoy and not worry about labels?
Curious

United States

#6 Jan 22, 2013
I'm not so much afraid of the label, but I am married and have no desire to be in a relationship with no one other then my husband. Sexually however I have all this going on in my mind. I am not interested in a threesome because i don't want my husband to have a sexual encounter with anyone but me! And I know this is selfish.. But if I was to ever expirence another woman I would definitely not want my husband to know. He is a very conservitive type and not only do I know he wouldn't even want a threesome; I know he wouldn't like the idea of his wife pleasing anyone but him. I know I will never try this anyway tho. But I am wondering what makes me like this?
now you know

Yukon, OK

#7 Jan 22, 2013
what part of the scenes did you enjoy?I personally am a giver.I enjoy my woman getting pleased or being pleased.I think you should give in to your fantasy,if you enjoy it fine,if not then you'll know.A womans body is mighty beautiful when it is aroused.Good sex is just that!
now you know

Yukon, OK

#8 Jan 22, 2013
Curious wrote:
I'm not so much afraid of the label, but I am married and have no desire to be in a relationship with no one other then my husband. Sexually however I have all this going on in my mind. I am not interested in a threesome because i don't want my husband to have a sexual encounter with anyone but me! And I know this is selfish.. But if I was to ever expirence another woman I would definitely not want my husband to know. He is a very conservitive type and not only do I know he wouldn't even want a threesome; I know he wouldn't like the idea of his wife pleasing anyone but him. I know I will never try this anyway tho. But I am wondering what makes me like this?
My intentions are not sexual in nature just trying to be insightful for you.My wife says a woman knows how to touch a woman,not to mention y'all are a lot softer then us fellows!
WVSP

Columbus, OH

#9 Jan 22, 2013
How do you know if you have a nice body? How are you sure you look good? Tell me that!
Curious

Saint Albans, WV

#10 Jan 22, 2013
I think I have a nice body because I have a nice shape.. Small but a little curvy, round butt, flat tummy, and I think I look nice because I have nice medium length healthy hair, no acne or anything like that. I have always gotten asked out a lot and hit on a lot. I get compliments often. And when having these lesbian fantasies I would totally go for a girl who resembles me. No I don't think I'm the prettiest or hottest girl ever, but I don't think I look bad or un attractive.
you need to know

Yukon, OK

#11 Jan 22, 2013
Curious wrote:
I think I have a nice body because I have a nice shape.. Small but a little curvy, round butt, flat tummy, and I think I look nice because I have nice medium length healthy hair, no acne or anything like that. I have always gotten asked out a lot and hit on a lot. I get compliments often. And when having these lesbian fantasies I would totally go for a girl who resembles me. No I don't think I'm the prettiest or hottest girl ever, but I don't think I look bad or un attractive.
Has you or your husband ever taken you to the"G" spot?What part of your fantasy do play?Are you the aggressor or the receiver?My wife is fascinated with breasts and poked out nipples she finds it very alluring!She is very turned on when we fantasize!She says she has done some exploring with a close friend but I can't get her to follow thru with a threesome.It's fun to fantasize in bed,but that all the further it goes.Which may be just as well!.....;)
Jethro

Huntington, WV

#12 Jan 22, 2013
Curious wrote:
I think I have a nice body because I have a nice shape.. Small but a little curvy, round butt, flat tummy, and I think I look nice because I have nice medium length healthy hair, no acne or anything like that. I have always gotten asked out a lot and hit on a lot. I get compliments often. And when having these lesbian fantasies I would totally go for a girl who resembles me. No I don't think I'm the prettiest or hottest girl ever, but I don't think I look bad or un attractive.
I think I just fell in love...
you need to know

Yukon, OK

#13 Jan 22, 2013
Jethro wrote:
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I think I just fell in love...
or lust!!
advice

Ashland, KY

#14 Jan 22, 2013
If you love your husband and value your marriage, I strongly advise that you keep it at the porn level alone. Better yet, get rid of the porn also. This ultimately destroys marriages. A marriage can survive without love, but it cannot without respect. People who claim their marriages do not suffer(or even improve) with such activity are deluding themselves. Pay attention and you will find these marriages ALWAYS eventually dissolve.
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Reel Nizza

Culloden, WV

#16 Jan 23, 2013
Have your husband put it in your butthole

“Often copied, never duplicated”

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Since: Nov 11

BelAir, CA

#17 Jan 23, 2013
...maybe your are simply a freaky lesbian? Certainly nothing wrong with that, unless you are a republican.

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Since: Dec 12

Front Royal, VA

#18 Jan 23, 2013
Spleencage wrote:
...maybe your are simply a freaky lesbian? Certainly nothing wrong with that, unless you are a republican.
or Catholic.
Kelly

Daniels, WV

#19 Jan 23, 2013
Curious wrote:
I think I have a nice body because I have a nice shape.. Small but a little curvy, round butt, flat tummy, and I think I look nice because I have nice medium length healthy hair, no acne or anything like that. I have always gotten asked out a lot and hit on a lot. I get compliments often. And when having these lesbian fantasies I would totally go for a girl who resembles me. No I don't think I'm the prettiest or hottest girl ever, but I don't think I look bad or un attractive.
you seem like a conceited Bitch. Your a freak, that's cheating on your husband, so if you cheat, he can too.
Curious

Saint Albans, WV

#20 Jan 23, 2013
advice wrote:
If you love your husband and value your marriage, I strongly advise that you keep it at the porn level alone. Better yet, get rid of the porn also. This ultimately destroys marriages. A marriage can survive without love, but it cannot without respect. People who claim their marriages do not suffer(or even improve) with such activity are deluding themselves. Pay attention and you will find these marriages ALWAYS eventually dissolve.
I do love my husband and value my marriage very much. And I would never follow pursue anyone else. Even watching porn makes be feel guilty. I erase my Internet history, and feel ashamed.
Kelly

Daniels, WV

#21 Jan 23, 2013
People like you is the reason marriages fail. I will gladly tell him if you keep it up, I know who you are.

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