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Baby mama

Clendenin, WV

#1 Apr 23, 2014
I haven't gotten child support from my baby daddy in a 1 year and 7 months can I take him to court for not paying me. Someone told me u can't do anything until they reach 10,000 is this true. Cuz he's violating a court order. Plz no rude comments
chris

United States

#2 Apr 24, 2014
If you have an order from the state you can put in the process for taking his state income taxes. Also make sure you go through the child support office. Show them the court order and they will take it out of his paycheck if he works.
joke

Philadelphia, PA

#3 Apr 24, 2014
Good luck. Mine hasn't paid in 3 yrs and owes me $23,000 judge k laughs and says ill get it one day when he drops over from an overdose
Bob

Madison, WV

#4 Apr 24, 2014
As Judge Judy would say--you picked him. No time to cry to someone else now. If he is a "baby daddy", I figure I am supporting them with my tax dollar. Get you a job and quit grousing.
interested

United States

#5 Apr 24, 2014
Bob wrote:
As Judge Judy would say--you picked him. No time to cry to someone else now. If he is a "baby daddy", I figure I am supporting them with my tax dollar. Get you a job and quit grousing.
Agreed! I've been in my own without child support for 6 years now. I gave up on perusing it years ago. My kids are mine and I don't ask anyone for anything. No I'm not on welfare either.. I put myself though school 7 years ago and I'm happy to say it feels good to be completely independent. Some of you young mothers should try it! What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.
Baby Baby BABY Mama

United States

#6 Apr 24, 2014
Baby mama wrote:
I haven't gotten child support from my baby daddy in a 1 year and 7 months can I take him to court for not paying me. Someone told me u can't do anything until they reach 10,000 is this true. Cuz he's violating a court order. Plz no rude comments
I know write Leon and Reggie and Shuwann need to handle theerr businass. Punk ass dadys
Ignorance

Lowmansville, KY

#7 Apr 24, 2014
Pay no mind to stupid ppl. They are everywhere. Remember, those who judge you will suffer for it. You didn't make a baby alone. You shouldn't have to support it alone. All the ppl that got something, got it because they got help from somewhere. Whether they like it or not, not everyone is that lucky. Not every single mother has free babysitters or free cars or rides to go to school or work. Dumbass ppl need to keep that in mind. Who gave you your first car or that gas money to get to your first job? Not everyone lives close to school or work and can walk. You can't leave kids by themselves. Not all single mothers count on daddy running off. They don't count on getting sick or hurt and not being able to work. Some of them have paid in taxes and as soon as they have to go get food stamps, scumbags talk about them awful. Some people are just stuck and never saw it coming. People would rather be pieces of crap than have compassion or help another person. So keep judging and bitching your greedy asses straight to hell. To the mommy, keep taking care of that baby. You are so much better than the ones who don't.

Since: Apr 14

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#8 Apr 24, 2014
interested wrote:
<quoted text>Agreed! I've been in my own without child support for 6 years now. I gave up on perusing it years ago. My kids are mine and I don't ask anyone for anything. No I'm not on welfare either.. I put myself though school 7 years ago and I'm happy to say it feels good to be completely independent. Some of you young mothers should try it! What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.
Guess what? I'm a single mother working a minimum wage job, putting myself through school, and barely getting by. There is absolutely no shame in getting help while you get on your feet nor is there shame in getting help from the FATHER who decides "hmmm, nope. I don't wanna be a daddy" after laying down with a woman.
just saying

Philadelphia, PA

#9 Apr 24, 2014
I am a mother and I raised my kids I believe all mothers should work an stop depending on a man or the state to take care of them. I am tired of my tax dollars being handed out to people who are capable of working but won't, they would rather sit at home and bi$$$ about my babies daddy won't support my kids GET A JOB! When my kids turned 18 I split all the money I got from there father between the two of them. I can't stand women using child support money on themselves its for the child not for mommy to go out on.
Adolph

United States

#10 Apr 24, 2014
Ignorance wrote:
Pay no mind to stupid ppl. They are everywhere. Remember, those who judge you will suffer for it. You didn't make a baby alone. You shouldn't have to support it alone. All the ppl that got something, got it because they got help from somewhere. Whether they like it or not, not everyone is that lucky. Not every single mother has free babysitters or free cars or rides to go to school or work. Dumbass ppl need to keep that in mind. Who gave you your first car or that gas money to get to your first job? Not everyone lives close to school or work and can walk. You can't leave kids by themselves. Not all single mothers count on daddy running off. They don't count on getting sick or hurt and not being able to work. Some of them have paid in taxes and as soon as they have to go get food stamps, scumbags talk about them awful. Some people are just stuck and never saw it coming. People would rather be pieces of crap than have compassion or help another person. So keep judging and bitching your greedy asses straight to hell. To the mommy, keep taking care of that baby. You are so much better than the ones who don't.
That's what I'm say you know right Shuwann and Leon and reggie need take responsibility for they pathetic 10 minutes of fun. Punks
interested

United States

#11 Apr 24, 2014
Sexykitten90 wrote:
<quoted text>Guess what? I'm a single mother working a minimum wage job, putting myself through school, and barely getting by. There is absolutely no shame in getting help while you get on your feet nor is there shame in getting help from the FATHER who decides "hmmm, nope. I don't wanna be a daddy" after laying down with a woman.
I didn't say there was shame in it. Sounds like you feel bad about yourself!
interested

United States

#12 Apr 24, 2014
Sexykitten90 wrote:
<quoted text>Guess what? I'm a single mother working a minimum wage job, putting myself through school, and barely getting by. There is absolutely no shame in getting help while you get on your feet nor is there shame in getting help from the FATHER who decides "hmmm, nope. I don't wanna be a daddy" after laying down with a woman.
And further more I to had assistance while in school!
HomeGrown

Saint Albans, WV

#13 Apr 24, 2014
Birth control solves unwanted baby problems. I was able to support my babies & their father if need be before DECIDING to have them. I believe a joint responsible decision should be made before bringing another life into the world. No child should be unwanted or uncared for because of irresponsible sex.
Hands Down

Point Pleasant, WV

#14 Apr 24, 2014
I have found myself in a situation where there is only a sperm donor involved. But that's find with me!! My precious child and I don't need anything from him at all. He refuses to work, therefore there is none of the court appointed child support. He voluntarily have up his parenting time because of his addiction. THANK GOD!!! I care too much about my child to even think of letting the donor anywhere near him. I know how he is when he's high and I'll be damned if my child is subjected to that type of environment. I work every day, travel one hour each way back and forth to work. My child and I have our own home and a car that is paid for. We want for nothing. Why? Because I don't feel like I am owed a damn thing!! As long as I'm able to work and provide the best life possible for MY baby, then by God, that's what I'll do!! My advice to all these young mothers out there bitching about someone not paying for their child is...if he doesn't care enough to take care of the most precious gift he's been given, then forget about him!!! MAKE YOUR OWN WAY!!! Your child will benefit so much more in the long run!!
a mom

Danville, WV

#15 Apr 25, 2014
I raised my children while working a full-time job and going to school full-time. Unfortunately, this area doesn't appear to value an education and pays low wages for those that have put themselves in debt with degrees. My ex hasn't paid a dime, child support keeps messing up or lacks the desire to even investigate claims of wages, court slaps him on the wrist month after month and waste tax payers money by having monthly hearings. He dodges taxes by doing construction under the table. But, he recently got a job, the judge gave an order for child support to reopen, I got a letter in the mail that an account had been opened and now....no one knows what I am talking about and even though he was ordered to back due child support, the wording did not specifically say for them to intervene - although they were at the hearing too.

But, FYI everyone, laws have changed and if you do not attempt to pursue child support at least once every ten years, you forfeit that back due child support and that is even if the child is still underage. Document it with child support at the DHHR, file a petition in the court (which you can do for free based on your income) and make sure you go after it, because now there is a statute.
Nancy

Chesapeake, VA

#16 Apr 25, 2014
Bob wrote:
As Judge Judy would say--you picked him. No time to cry to someone else now. If he is a "baby daddy", I figure I am supporting them with my tax dollar. Get you a job and quit grousing.
Do you remember Wayne Bobbitt and his wife Larena Bobbitt? Well he was a guy just like you. Look him up. His wife did not take no siht from him..He is nutz now from talking like you. Go ahead and look him up.. She cut his penis off .

Since: Apr 14

Location hidden

#17 Apr 25, 2014
interested wrote:
<quoted text>I didn't say there was shame in it. Sounds like you feel bad about yourself!
Nope I sure don't. But I'm sick of hearing people complain about us single mothers needing help because guys are immature and have the ability to just choose not to be a father. I love my daughter more than anything and wouldn't change a single thing about her being here.
interested

United States

#18 Apr 25, 2014
Sexykitten90 wrote:
<quoted text>Nope I sure don't. But I'm sick of hearing people complain about us single mothers needing help because guys are immature and have the ability to just choose not to be a father. I love my daughter more than anything and wouldn't change a single thing about her being here.
Ok that's wonderful, what it has to do with me I don't know. Best of luck to you and your daughter.

P.S. Don't be so hard on yourself or so quick to jump on the defense. My post was not meant to offend anyone or put anyone down. Sometimes life deals us a crappy hand and we have to make the best of it.
NoBama

Bladensburg, MD

#19 Apr 25, 2014
Baby mama wrote:
I haven't gotten child support from my baby daddy in a 1 year and 7 months can I take him to court for not paying me. Someone told me u can't do anything until they reach 10,000 is this true. Cuz he's violating a court order. Plz no rude comments
Go get a job you welfare breeder.

Since: Apr 14

Location hidden

#20 Apr 25, 2014
interested wrote:
<quoted text>Ok that's wonderful, what it has to do with me I don't know. Best of luck to you and your daughter.

P.S. Don't be so hard on yourself or so quick to jump on the defense. My post was not meant to offend anyone or put anyone down. Sometimes life deals us a crappy hand and we have to make the best of it.
Well aren't you sweet ;)

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