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[Curious]

Happen to ME wrote:

I read all these post on here, some are BS, but some have some truth. My wife has been with some guys at the hospital. They worked with some and meet the others through her working days. I not sure how much went on there, but they meet other places and so on. WARNING: If your wife starts to stay after hours, calls home and tells you she will be home incouple hours, If you call and can't get ahold of her. She will always have an excuse. didnt hear the phone, bathroom, moving someone, IF she changes her stlye of clothes, hair, underwear. YOU SHOULD BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!It is happening right under your nose. Take it from someone that it did happen to Me, IT HAPPENS MORE THAN YOU COULD IMAGINE!!!

I have been experiencing exactly those things over the past year. Haven't been able to find out anything specific though...

[Curious]

Happen to ME wrote:

I read all these post on here, some are BS, but some have some truth. My wife has been with some guys at the hospital. They worked with some and meet the others through her working days. I not sure how much went on there, but they meet other places and so on. WARNING: If your wife starts to stay after hours, calls home and tells you she will be home incouple hours, If you call and can't get ahold of her. She will always have an excuse. didnt hear the phone, bathroom, moving someone, IF she changes her stlye of clothes, hair, underwear. YOU SHOULD BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!It is happening right under your nose. Take it from someone that it did happen to Me, IT HAPPENS MORE THAN YOU COULD IMAGINE!!!

BTW, how were you able to finally figure out exactly what she was up to?

[Jos]

The way way I found out, was calling AT&T & asking for a detailed billing of my ex fiancees cell phone. Got it several days later. Took 4 UPS huge envelopes. I called every 2am number & found out the truth..f&cking a nurse at ER who was old & married, not to mention several others ...booted his @ss as Soon as I found out & never spoke to him again....
I'm telling ya, they almost ALL cheat there. He NEVER worked late, or went anywhere. He was just screwing them during lunch in MY CAR, waking up at 1-2am to text & call, or texting them while he was at work, telling sob stories about how bad of a person I supposedly was to get these girls feeling sorry for him. He even swore on my child's grave that he wasn't cheating.
Found out later he did it to his ex wife and EVERY GIRL HE'S EVER BEEN WITH, ever. No exaggeration.
He married sum other girl just months later, so he'd have a place to live. And from what I've seen & heard, he's still trying to get laid by any & every girl...

[Curious]

Jos wrote:

The way way I found out, was calling AT&T & asking for a detailed billing of my ex fiancees cell phone. Got it several days later. Took 4 UPS huge envelopes. I called every 2am number & found out the truth..f&cking a nurse at ER who was old & married, not to mention several others ...booted his @ss as Soon as I found out & never spoke to him again....
I'm telling ya, they almost ALL cheat there. He NEVER worked late, or went anywhere. He was just screwing them during lunch in MY CAR, waking up at 1-2am to text & call, or texting them while he was at work, telling sob stories about how bad of a person I supposedly was to get these girls feeling sorry for him. He even swore on my child's grave that he wasn't cheating.
Found out later he did it to his ex wife and EVERY GIRL HE'S EVER BEEN WITH, ever. No exaggeration.
He married sum other girl just months later, so he'd have a place to live. And from what I've seen & heard, he's still trying to get laid by any & every girl...

Well, I have found some questionable texts (and lots of deleted texts), but no definitive evidence of anything. Did your guy fall on the sword and confess?(Or did you just assume cheating from the calls and texts?) By the way, my issue involves an ER nurse!(Can you provide initials of the guilty parties?)

[Jos]

Curious wrote:

<quoted text>Well, I have found some questionable texts (and lots of deleted texts), but no definitive evidence of anything. Did your guy fall on the sword and confess?(Or did you just assume cheating from the calls and texts?) By the way, my issue involves an ER nurse!(Can you provide initials of the guilty parties?)

No I called the numbers & two of the girls confessed..after he realized I'd never take him back, he finally confessed to SOME but not all. If he's deleting texts, there's a reason. DH was the nurse. I also emailed her husband & let him know she was cheating too

[Curious]

Jos wrote:

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No I called the numbers & two of the girls confessed..after he realized I'd never take him back, he finally confessed to SOME but not all. If he's deleting texts, there's a reason. DH was the nurse. I also emailed her husband & let him know she was cheating too

I know who DH is and you are not the first person on Topix to reference her extra-marital activities. If you don't mind, what are your guy's initials and the initials of the other women?

[carmen]

Jos wrote:

The way way I found out, was calling AT&T & asking for a detailed billing of my ex fiancees cell phone. Got it several days later. Took 4 UPS huge envelopes. I called every 2am number & found out the truth..f&cking a nurse at ER who was old & married, not to mention several others ...booted his @ss as Soon as I found out & never spoke to him again....
I'm telling ya, they almost ALL cheat there. He NEVER worked late, or went anywhere. He was just screwing them during lunch in MY CAR, waking up at 1-2am to text & call, or texting them while he was at work, telling sob stories about how bad of a person I supposedly was to get these girls feeling sorry for him. He even swore on my child's grave that he wasn't cheating.
Found out later he did it to his ex wife and EVERY GIRL HE'S EVER BEEN WITH, ever. No exaggeration.
He married sum other girl just months later, so he'd have a place to live. And from what I've seen & heard, he's still trying to get laid by any & every girl...

His name didn't happen to be Everett, did it?
Sounds like the line he tried on me and then ses working on others more gullible than I!

[Jos]

Curious wrote:

<quoted text>I know who DH is and you are not the first person on Topix to reference her extra-marital activities. If you don't mind, what are your guy's initials and the initials of the other women?

I don't know the last names of all..I do know there was a Brandi, & an Amber & Jessica. His was JS...used his 'photography'(haha) to try to take pics of girls, to get into their pants. I owned the house, both vehicles, & everything, gave him sex whenever he wanted, but it has nothing to do with sex. He liked the Head Games of f'ing with girls heads. Especially to see of he could get a married woman to cheat. Bly you should see the texts & emails from DH & him...her hubby did, I made certain of that..

[Curious]

Jos wrote:

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I don't know the last names of all..I do know there was a Brandi, & an Amber & Jessica. His was JS...used his 'photography'(haha) to try to take pics of girls, to get into their pants. I owned the house, both vehicles, & everything, gave him sex whenever he wanted, but it has nothing to do with sex. He liked the Head Games of f'ing with girls heads. Especially to see of he could get a married woman to cheat. Bly you should see the texts & emails from DH & him...her hubby did, I made certain of that..

That really sucks. You're much better off without him. Good for you.

[Jos]

Curious wrote:

<quoted text>That really sucks. You're much better off without him. Good for you.

It took a whole year to get my mind right after that...him swearing on my child's grave? He messed with my head. My child had just recently passed away. But it's been about a year & I'm better than I ever have been in my life...with guys knocking down my door, trying to be in my life, from lawyer, banker, newspaper reporter, to just regular ol' good rednecks who work hard & play hard..I've got the pick of the liter now :-)
Good luck to you, seriously. I've learned, if you think they are hiding something, 99% of the time they are hun...

[Curious]

Jos wrote:

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It took a whole year to get my mind right after that...him swearing on my child's grave? He messed with my head. My child had just recently passed away. But it's been about a year & I'm better than I ever have been in my life...with guys knocking down my door, trying to be in my life, from lawyer, banker, newspaper reporter, to just regular ol' good rednecks who work hard & play hard..I've got the pick of the liter now :-)
Good luck to you, seriously. I've learned, if you think they are hiding something, 99% of the time they are hun...

If we didn't have kids, I would be approaching things much differently.

Glad things are working out for you.

[Happen to Me]

I did all the phone thing and that doesn't prove nothing. You have to catch them. I fixed her phone to SHARE location, text her and went to that location. Bam caught them together. Went through the checking and asking and didn't get anywhere. Unless you get her to admit it, which she won't, you have to be a little smarter.You can also put a google tracker on her car and check her location, no matter where she is at!!!These things don't LIE. Make real good friends with just ONE of her co-workers, earn their trust and use them as much as you can. It will take alot of time, but you can do it. Check her pay stub and question it!! The hours will not add up!!

[Happen to Me]

When she changes her habits then it has started, changes her hair, clothes, loses weight,tans spends more time away from home that in unexplained, When you can't get ahold of her and she will ALWAYS have an excuse. She will want to pick at you for any little reason to cause seperation and in her mind that gives her an excuse to do what she does. Check her underwear, I bet she has changed her habits!!!!!

[Curious]

Happen to Me wrote:

When she changes her habits then it has started, changes her hair, clothes, loses weight,tans spends more time away from home that in unexplained, When you can't get ahold of her and she will ALWAYS have an excuse. She will want to pick at you for any little reason to cause seperation and in her mind that gives her an excuse to do what she does. Check her underwear, I bet she has changed her habits!!!!!

Oh, she has done pretty much everything you've listed.

[mdl]

Use mobile spy,,,it's an app that u install on a suspected cheaters phone,,,,trust me it works